Children of 9/11, Following Their Fathers’ Last Footsteps

Sep 24, 2019 · 70 comments
cynicalskeptic (Greater NY)
We owe the children of those that died on 9/11 more than the underfunded, rushed 'investigation' that occurred. We owe our nation the truth. If we are to use 9/11 as justification for a never ending war on 'terror' and the imposition of a surveillance state at home, shouldn't we be ABSOLUTELY sure about what happened and who was responsible? But any questioning of the official explanation is condemned as a 'conspiracy theory' - even as groups like Architects and Engineers for Truth point out glaring inconsistencies in the official explanation. Why did we get a rushed and underfunded 'investigation' - with evidence removed and disposed of as quickly as possible? We have let lies lead to extended wars and direct our history before - the Gulf of Tonkin Incident comes to mind..... If a nation claims it was attacked, its people should be sure of what happened and who was responsible. It is not uncommon for a 'false flag' attack being used to start a war. According to Germany, Polish soldiers attacked German border fortifications in 1939 - there were dead bodies in Polish Army uniforms to prove it.
serrrendipity (NYC)
@cynicalskeptic We still don't have a clear story on JFK, since 1963. I have a 9/11 cancer ("wrong" cancer to get any compensation), and I do not believe I will hear the 9/11 WTC truth until the end of my life, even if I live as long as my average family members (into late 90-ties). The latest/current Russian version on attacking Poland on September 17, 1939 (Molotov-Ribbentrop pact) constantly fed to the brainwashed Russian masses is that the Red Army had to get into Poland on a "peace-keeping" mission, to help keeping order in disorderly country. Architects and Engineers for Truth are using the professional/science criteria, and even this is in an empty echo chamber. It never ends. George Orwell would be beyond amazed with our reality, accepted by the sea of sheeple..
Talbot (New York)
It doesn't seem so long ago, that terrible day when New York and the US changed forever. And firefighters became the modern version of knights. Those that died on that awful day, or because of it, protecting and helping, didn't just inspire us. Their own kids--despite their own heartbreaking losses--have chosen to follow that path as well. This is the most heartening thing I've read in a long time.
Frank (Colorado)
Superb article. So inspiring to know that people like these are still among us, quietly doing amazing things.
Connie (Colorado)
What wonderful work families of our NYFD and NYPD. We are lucky to have them. God bless each of these young people as they carry on their parents' legacies.
Joe (Redmond, WA)
May God bless these probies and keep them safe throughout their careers. As the grandson of an FDNY firefighter and the son of a NY cop I understand their calling to serve. Their families have paid the ultimate price once - they all honor their fathers with their service.
Donna (Philadelphia, PA)
Hats off to these brave young men and women. May their lives be long and filled with joy.
Tom Ryan (Brooklyn Heights)
The FDNY is often said to be “the greatest job” and if that is still true post 9/11, it’s because of people like this. The City is so fortunate to know that if they have a problem in the middle of the night, or any time, that firefighters like these are selflessly on their way to help. God bless them.
Figgy (pPittsburgh)
What an inspiring story in these days of bad news. Good luck to all of you in your chosen career...godspeed.
J (CT)
What a testament to their parents legacy. Wishing all of them long and happy careers.
Hugh (Connecticut)
What an inspiring story. Brave, dedicated, self-sacrificing Americans. All shades of white, brown, and tan skin. Italian names, Irish names, Hispanic names, Central European names, names whose ethnicity if not obvious, at least to me.
wfw97 (Sydney, Australia)
I thank you, we thank you and respect you. "A hero is someone who has given his or her life to something bigger than oneself". –Joseph Campbell
Peter S (Chicago)
Know that your parents are proud of you all, as New York, America, and the whole world is of them.
Outspoken (Canada)
Touching. All the best.
John (NM)
As a retired volunteer and career fire chief in both Colorado and New Mexico, who once was privileged to know several members of FDNY, I salute all the new FDNY firefighters for continuing the proud traditions of their fire department, and for doing so to honor their fallen parents. The fire service is a family, no matter where it may be, no matter if it is comprised of volunteer or career personnel. This article, sharing the thoughts of the new members, greatly reinforces that wonderful tradition.
Mrs M (Florida)
Children and families bearing crushing grief and loss, now continue to carry on a courageous family standard of honor and remembrance and service. In doing so, they bear proud witness to the memory of their parents who served. Simply remarkable young men and women; simply remarkable families. Thank you for reminding us all, of the true meaning of sacrifice, and courage, and love.
RBW (traveling the world)
Having lived through 9/11 and its aftermath in the city, I have no words to describe how grateful and how inspired I am by both generations of these families. My deepest respect and thanks to each and every person described here. May this new generation of brave public servants all have happy and healthy careers and the long lives that were denied their fathers!
Maureen (New York)
Aren’t less such as this are the main reason I subscribe to the New York Times! I hope this wins a Pulitzer!
Wendy (Carlisle, PA)
I am so moved by their call to service. Bravo, and best of luck.
Michael Kittle (Vaison la Romaine, France)
I hope New York City deserves these wonderful people who inherited the tragedies of their loved ones!
Michael Kittle (Vaison la Romaine, France)
I hope New York City deserves these wonderful people who inherited the tragedies of their loved ones!
Michael Kittle (Vaison la Romaine, France)
I hope New York City deserves these wonderful people who inherited the tragedies of their loved ones!
Lauren (St. Petersburg FL)
Thank you for this lovely story. And thank you to these young people who are dedicating their lives to protecting and saving others. There is no finer tribute to their parents.
Linda (New Jersey)
One of the men profiled here said he chose to be a firefighter because he wanted to go down "the morally correct path." It's a joy to know that someone thinks in those terms regarding a career choice (or perhaps "vocation" would be a better term in this case).
LT (NY)
This is an amazing story. I lived very close to the world Trade Center in 2001 and every year, on Sept 11 I am overwhelmed by the emotions of that day. I cannot imagine how it has been for these children to grow up and the fact that they follow the same path than their fathers is heart breaking in some way as they choose to honor their memory in their life occupation. This must command our admiration and gratitude. Thank you.
Marika H (Santa Monica)
This is the very best news story I have read in so long- what powerful human spirit these people are examples of. Thank you to NYTimes for compiling this- please put it top front page over and over- they give us hope. I love my father so much, though he has changed and diminished now he is elderly, moving towards his 90th year, I know I am so very lucky to have him. These children are keeping their parent alive in their work because they are not as fortunate as I, and when I hug my father today, I will think of them and their loss- and cry again.
Jane K (Northern California)
I remember very clearly watching the television on 9/11. The scene was terrible and transfixing as it happened live. My dad was a firefighter when I was a kid and as I watched the scene in New York my thoughts went to the first responders and their families. As the buildings came down, I cried for all of them and the sacrifice they made.
Carole (In New Orleans)
Wonderful men and women serving the city of New York. Beautiful people need to be paid like our lives depend on them. These public servants deserve the best health insurance benefits and pensions the city can afford. I know their parents are proud!
sca (Colorado)
These brave men and women have many reasons to avoid the kind of public service that took the lives of their fathers. Yet, here they are, having already sacrificed so much. Seeing their photos and reading their tributes brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability and strength with us.
AnnaT (Los Angeles)
One of the things that strikes me in reading this article is how very young the fathers look--frozen in time (though not in memory), their children have become their peers, a poignant process beautifully illustrated in these photos.
R. J Kimperton (Cleveland)
This is a great article. What powerful pictures. Thanks
Panthiest (U.S.)
Your father's would be so proud. I am, too.
itsmildeyes (philadelphia)
"Mr. Foti went to school around the corner from his father’s firehouse on East 29th Street, and spent a lot of time among the firefighters, before and after his father was killed on Sept. 11. “When I stop by, they still treat me like I’m 10 years old,” Mr. Foti said."
John W (Boston)
See, terrorists, there are things you can't kill, no matter how many times you try. These people were born of the sadness and grief you tried to sow, the stunned silence you managed to create for a few moments, and the dream you only wished you could possess--the dream of being a positive force in the world. You wallow in the darkness; they live in the clear, bright sunshine.
Marshall Doris (Concord, CA)
While I understand the emotion behind it, the impact of the choice these firefighters and their children have made is both less and more significant. They didn’t, and don’t risk their lives to serve as an example, they do it because it is a job that needs doing. It is a commitment to the community, a desire to serve, and a willingness to risk their lives to save others. That risk is real, but the odds are in their favor. Most won’t die on the job, and the 9/11 attack was certainly an anomaly. Though emergencies occur multiple times every day in a large city, they only sometimes pose extreme danger, and the training they undergo prepares them to stay as safe as they can. Yet, that risk is real, and it informs their daily duties. It is a responsibility they willingly assume, perhaps not enthusiastically or recklessly, but seriously, because it is a job that must be done. Their fathers were called upon to face a disaster of historic proportions and they responded to it with the professionalism that embodied their service. In those moments of dire need, they were willing to pay the ultimate cost. Every day, in every community, their heirs go to work in less historic circumstances, yet willing and able to pay the same cost if called upon to do so. It’s what they do, with pride, making a deep commitment to serve their communities.
Maureen (New York)
I am so proud of NYC Firefighters - the best - simply the best!
Guitar M (New York, NY)
@John W: So beautifully stated. Wonderful comment.
Antonio Butts (Near Detroit)
God bless and speed them, protect them too.
JC (NYC)
Two words - THANK YOU!
EB (New Mexico)
Beautiful and heartbreaking. God be with these wonderful fire fighters.
Thomas Murray (NYC)
This article gives me ‘the same’ goosebumps I got some 20 years ago when, following what was then nearly our 20th annual Carroll Street Boys Stickball Reunion in Brooklyn, sitting with 3 of my childhood pals who (unlike me) had served in Vietnam, and listening to their tales about a shared R&R ‘leave’ when they ‘overstayed’ and were technically AWOL for 3 days (“What were they gonna do to punish us? Send us to where we already were?), I asked Rinny (born Lawrence … Larry when we were in 1st Grade at St. Francis Xavier Grammar School) why he waited years to go to college ‘instead’ of going ‘right after’ he graduated Xaverian High School so he could ‘beat the draft’ (as I had) –- and he said, “Tommy … We thought it was our duty.” I think the U.S. was ‘wrong’ to 'make' that war in Vietnam (understatement) – but I couldn’t have been more proud of these friends than I was ‘made’ by what Rinny said then (‘undramatically,’ in his voice and mind) … and by what his words ‘said’ about him and the other guys in our crowd who served and came home, and those who served but did not. The people subject of this piece are from the same ‘stock’ – regardless of ethnicity, ‘color,’ gender or religion. Goosebumps again. Great people. Good luck to all of them. They are more than deserving of it … and deserving of so much more than that.
NYC Dweller (NYC)
God Bless them all
mnc (Croton-on-Hudson, N.Y.)
Thank you NYT for this article. It is sometimes hard to see any good coming from the tragedy of 9-11 but I see goodness in the eyes of all these angels . They will continue to save lives as their fathers did and will protect the City of New York as the men and women of FDNY always have.
VJR (North America)
I am surprised that the NY Times didn't discover Brittney Roy who is now a member of the NYPD and who was the daughter of former NYPD Sergeant Timothy Roy, a victim of 9/11. Daughter Of Officer Killed In 9/11 Attacks Joins NYPD https://newyork.cbslocal.com/2017/04/14/brittney-roy-nypd/ Daughter of NYC cop killed on 9/11 makes 3 arrests in 1st week on the job https://pix11.com/2017/10/27/daughter-of-nyc-cop-killed-on-911-makes-3-arrests-in-1st-week-on-the-job/ Brittney's mom and Tim's widow, now Stacey Piechocniski Roy-Christ, was extensively interviewed on Today on the tenth anniversary of 9/11 which included a segment about a special recreation program dedicated to the children of victims. As those kids were growing into adulthood, the program began to wind down.
Verna (White Plains)
this article is about *recent* graduates, probably the youngest to enter the field with memories of their mom or dad whose footsteps they are following.
VJR (North America)
My bad that I didn't pay attention that the article was solely dedicated to FDNY families and not NYPD. I hope a similar article will be published for NYPD families.
GonBops (Kaneohe, HI)
As a 53-year veteran of the fire service, I found this article almost painful to read, and it both inspired and crushed me. I look into all those faces, past and present, and see members of my family — for that's indeed what they are. It's a bond that's difficult to describe. Every one of those fallen heroes deserves the highest degree of honor and respect that the people of any city or nation can bestow. May God bless and protect their sons and daughters.
I Heart (Hawaii)
Finest examples of "life endures". I wish them all a rewarding and long career!
MIMA (heartsny)
This is the best article the New York Times has given us in a long, long time. (no fault of the Times, the news has been....) Every year we remember. We pay tribute at the Memorial. We visit Trinity Church and watch the video of the assistance they gave to those who worked at Ground Zero over and over. We pray in silence. My daughter is a flight attendant. In December of 2001 she led us to some Christmas trees below near Ground Zero, where the workers were doing their jobs sifting and dumping rubble. On the branches of those little trees were pictures of those who perished in 9/11. Every firefighter or worker who perished was there, in a little homemade ornament. An unforgettable moment. The parents of these officers we see pictured here today and all those who we remember, because they are gone, because of this horrific event, were there. Today, it lifts our hearts to the highest degree possible to read these stories and see these pictures of children, youth, now grown, who will serve in the footsteps of their parents. You are our future. You have survived and fulfilled dreams of so many. We honor you and we honor your futures, in service and in your personal lives. Just as we will remember the faces and lives that were lost - we will remember these young people - not only today, but always. Thank you for being brave, for being strong - for being you. So many would be and are proud. Hugs from Wisconsin and from our whole country!
AusTex (Austin Texas)
I could not get through this article without getting teary eyed. The selfless sacrifice of everyone on that day. This nation really came together from everywhere and everyplace. Volunteers from all over in selfless service to their fellow man. We should remember that unity in the face of tragedy and reject the vicious anger and contempt that has currently cast a pall on this nation.
Mike (Sonoma CA)
A very inspiring article. What a way to honor the lives and values of their fathers. Congratulations to these graduates and may angels walk by your sides always.
Lawrence Appell (Scottsdale)
Their Dad's would be very proud of them. I wish them a long and safe career.
Phyllis (California)
What an important and powerful story. Thanks NYTs for publishing it.
Jack (Hong Kong)
These stories are so important to record. These touching blood connections to the heroes of 9/11 are another marker on the journey from memory to history. And we should never forget how so many gave their lives to save the people of NYC then, and still inspire people today.
Brunella (Brooklyn)
A life of service, honoring their fallen parents — they all epitomize NY's Bravest and Finest. Thank you for this touching story, NYT. Best of luck to the new graduates.
Traci Cee (Detroit)
God bless these folks, and to their surviving parent, relatives, and friends who helped raise them up after such a loss.
Kate (Long Island)
A truly beautiful article. Lt. Jovic's ethic "to live you life serving other people" is something we should all strive to live by.
Esteban S. (Bend, OR)
One of my most vivid memories is watching on TV the immediate aftermath of 9/11, maybe a day or two after the crash; there were big signs saying something like 'helmets and breathing apparatus required in this area', and virtually none of the people in the picture wearing them. Most were cops and firefighters, but also many civilians. There was close to total refusal to wear protective gear. None of that is mentioned during long-running discussion of the disaster-related diseases.
carol goldstein (New York)
@Esteban S., The EPA in the person of its administrator at the time, Christine Todd Whitman, was busy reassuring the public that the air quality in the area was safe almost immediately after the towers went down. Long before the pile stopped smoldering. Another factor contributing to the non-use safety apparatus is that responders were rushing around in the few days after the collapses hoping to find people still alive. It is difficult to remember that now.
Phil (Florida)
@Esteban S. Both OSHA and EPA were insisting there was no problem with the air at that point, so the very uncomfortable respirators were ignored.
norinal (Brooklyn)
@Esteban S. So, you saw a picture or two of downtown Manhattan and based your comment, "There was close to total refusal to wear protective gear.", Really? Total refusal? Says who? Were you in New York? Did you go through the horrors that we went through? The losses? The pain? The chaos? And yes, MANY wore protective gear and still got sick! So if none of this was mentioned in this article it was because the article was in recognition of the children of those who served and would continue to serve in their father's stead with pride and in service to our city and to the country.
Paulie (Earth)
Entering public service, especially as a NYC firefighter is truly a noble profession.
Steve (Manhattan)
Great article! Real NY Hero's. I worked downtown near the Center and am now part of the WTC Health Program. It affected my career and health but at least I'm alive to talk about it. A big thank-you from me and my family.
CK (NY)
Thank you, and thanks to your families, for your brave service! The whole city, world, and your dads are all very proud.
Steve Williams (Calgary)
"“Some people don’t get 12 years of any dad,” he said. “I got 12 — that’s how I try to look at it.” Wow, that is one of the most indomitable tributes to the human spirit I've ever read. From tragedy, hope springs anew. A very fine article, thank you.
Red angel (San Francisco Ca)
Such a beautiful tribute to these amazing people past and present. Thank you for recognizing these legacies.
Finis (New York City)
@Red angel I cannot imagine the courage and bravery these firefighters had when they gave their lives to help the helpless. They are all great American heroes, and this article is so timely in reminding us what it is to live with a sense of duty and respect for others. Shame on those politicians today who lack the courage to carry out their sworn duties to the American people.
Seth (Pine Brook, NJ)
Spectacular stories. God bless every single one of them.
Maureen (Boston)
So great to see these young men (and woman) grown and doing well. Good luck to them all.
Celie Sternson Herbst (Kingwood TX)
Every story is so bittersweet.... I wish them all well in their new job. Thank you for your family's service to NYC.