I wonder to what extent the effortless class (and brains) of the Obamas, Michelle's especially, is the reason for Trump's visceral dislike of the former first family.
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Michelle Obama has a long list of accomplishments and model for women's rights
Name on thing Melania Trump has done
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Michelle Obama is the epitome of class, sophistication and elegance. In spite of the blatant disrespect that she faced from her adversaries, Michelle Obama conducted herself like the lady she is. She is a national treasure.
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What a gem she is!
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The only thing missing here is the photo of Michelle standing between the photographer and a ceiling light fixture so that she appears to be casting a halo.
But we saw so many such worshipful shots of Barack in his day that people would say something politically incorrect and then require immediate banishment.
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Going from Mrs. Obama to Mrs. Trump III, is like wearing Diamonds vs. Rhinestones. One is precious and valuable, the other is all about flash and insubstantial. But maybe that’s just me. Seriously.
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She is a very admirable person regardless of color. She is a wonderful wife and a wonderful Mother. I thank her husband and her children for sharing her with us as a nation. I am a 74 Yr old white male and all my Grandchildren look to her as a role model, as does the nation. I am thankful to have lived in that period of history. I agree wholeheartedly with every positive comment posted about her. I miss her and her family.
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Very nice lady who just happened to marry a future president.
Although the current WH inhabitants set an especially low bar.
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M. Obama for President 2020!
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Fawning idolatry does nothing for the idolizer or the idolizee. It is no more becoming or useful directed at the Obamas than when it is directed by others at Trump.
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Oh, great—now I'm crying.
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Thank you for sharing that portrait of our Queen again. I looked up some more including the one that catches Barack gazing at it. One doesn't need to see the look on his face to know that it reflects complete fascination and love. I recall a reporter who traveled with Barack during his first campaign for President where they were away from their families for long periods. They couldn't help but notice how much more relaxed the candidate was after a few days spent with our future First Lady.
It would have been our Camelot except for the hordes of racists pounding at the castle walls and trying to tear it down.
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Michelle Obama is also an inspiration and touchstone to middle-aged white guys like me. I look forward to seeing her portrait in person some day and reading her memoir. And while she has already given so much of herself to the nation, I hope she remains engaged since we do and will continue to need her insight, moral guidance, and leadership.
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Really miss having such a classy and intelligent woman in the WH. Simply put, Michelle Obama is a role model to everyone. To those who say why couldn't she forgive Trump, how on earth can you forgive someone who endangered her children with those egregious lies. Give me a break already!
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I wasn't alive to experience Eleanor Roosevelt as the First Lady, but I am so grateful to have lived to see this most graceful, eloquent, open hearted, honest, intelligent, and thoughtful woman...represent our country as first lady. Michelle Obama is an inspiring woman.
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I think I've read every comment - and no one has mentioned her sense of humor! Her quick wit, her complete aliveness to the moment and her ability to play without losing her dignity are extraordinary - and she
can dance.
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I am old enough to remember Jackie Kennedy. Quiet intensity, stylish, yet sophisticated, classy, elegant, and smart.
Michelle Obama is exactly like her.
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@Elizabeth Moore
Both classy, yes. However, Jackie was to the manor born. Michelle was not.
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Always admired the Obamas. Michelle was perhaps the smartest First Lady in American history. Thought I'd check out tickets for her book tour at a local arena, figuring they'd go for $150-$200. From the venue -- not a ticket reseller -- upper-deck seats were $700! The arena seats 18,000. I was shocked and a little disillusioned.
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@Joe Yes, behind the fawning hagiography over the First Black Family is old-fashioned cashing in. To be fair, most all do it. Truman and Carter refrained from the more overt trading on their names financially. That sort of modesty and restraint aren't cherished values in our culture anymore, Republican or Democrat. In fact, it's an Achilles Heel right now for the Democrats, and an ongoing dilemma among the Davos Democrat-limousine neoliberals: how to keep cashing in, win elections and credibly do more than just claim democratic aims. In that order of priority, of course.
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As a parent, I'm constantly pointing out to my kids when public figures perform at their best when under pressure. When public figures don't panic, run or hide.
Michelle Obama personifies Grace Under Pressure.
One needn't be black or female to be inspired. Michelle Obama is a role model for everyone. Male, female, straight, gay, African-American, white, Latinex, whatever.
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Every celebrity has a fan base, there's nothing wrong with that. As physically attractive, bright, well educated, well behaved, polite, well spoken individuals — the Obamas certainly stand out in the world of american politics, I'll give you that.
But Michelle, though as interesting as any other first lady, doesn't possess the great talents her fan base seem to imagine. Her parents worked their way up from poverty (not her). She got into the Ivy League on a legacy scholarship. She possesses the relatively experientially confined value system of the american upper middle class (it's all about family first, and being myself). Non of this is bad, but it's pretty common.
That such a cult of personality surrounds her that she was called upon by her fans to run for president is disturbing. It shows that the disconnect from reality and the longing for superheroes and movie stars is as deeply ingrained among democrats as republicans with their reality tv star family. That she slapped down that idea shows she has common sense, but again common sense is common.
I'll be thought of as being a hater for not worshipping the Obama's but in fact I simply see them as what they are — an ambitious career couple who got everything they every dreamed of by looking out for themselves and advancing through the system without taking anyone else forward at all. They remind me most of, wait for it, the Clintons. Except of course that the Clintons had two Barracks in the family.
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@Arthur
You forget that President Obama took the country forward, away fron the Great Recession. And President Clinton left the presidency with a surplus. Maybe you were not personally taken forward, but you cannot reasonbly argue that they didn't take "anyone else forward at all."
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@scsmits
Presidents are often erroneously given credit for things which happen during their terms. The surplus was there, yes, but there isn't time to address the number of factors in the 80s economy nor how the Clinton's ruined gay and black peoples lives with very specifically targeted legislation drinen by racism and homophobia. It's a big reason people stayed home in '16. As for the Obama administration, I remember all the wealthy having their fortunes repaired and improved to great effect and that nothing done at all for the little guy. Many of those who fell in 2008 are still fallen. michelle of course had nothing to do with it. I stand by the original assertion. I voted for the Clintons and Obama but they were both charming upper middle class careerists and not leaders or role models of any true substance.
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I have always believed the real story is how Michelle Obama became America's moral center. In a country that seems increasingly amoral, she grounded us and gave us the hope and inspiration that is now so glaringly absent. Michelle Obama demonstrated leadership at its absolute apex.
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In case no one has reminded naysayers, like Peaches, there are ample videos of Melania's less than smiling inaugural faces! And no one had to remind MO not to plagierize her predecessor on national TV!
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Mrs. Michelle Obama is pure class, grace and brilliance! Resilient, strong yet kind, she embodies the best of humanity!
Blessings, for great success of your memoir, Mrs. Obama!
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By all objective standards that we want to teach our kids, she's an amazing person and empirical role model...
It's a shame her portrait needs to be roped off and guarded... and everyone knows why.
I can't think of too many better metaphors for how this entire conversation is one of good versus evil. Under the flag of objectivity we've allowed deviance to be normalized... as if it's a debatable way of living. If we really championed the moral values that we'd want our kids to have, then this portrait would be sacred and wouldn't need guarding.
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A pukka incarnate.
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I have always been resistant to bumper stickers because I don't want people to think they know too much about me just from my car. But when the Hillary campaign offered a bumper sticker with Michelle's face and "when they go low, we go high" on it I donated on the spot with my phone while waiting for a plane in the airport and it remains the only bumper sticker I have ever placed on my car. Michelle has always felt like the woman we all want to be while not making it feel fake or unreachable. She is, as the young people say, relateable and that is why I do secretly hope she considers running against Trump in 2020 because I believe she could win and even though I don't love the implication for our democracy of keeping things in the family in this way the poetic justice of having her defeat Trump seems pretty delicious.
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@Tracy Many people can beat Trump, she is just one. She would be a great president, but perhaps we shouldn't keep it in the family just as a matter of principle. Public service is something she can't avoid now, whether that be as an elected official or as someone who just tells us what she thinks. If the democrats choose her, she'll have my vote, but at this point they could nominate a turnip and still get mine. However, given a choice I really prefer professional politicians, like governors, senators and those types. Could we get her to move to Kentucky and run against Mitch McConnell?
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@Tracy
No, we should not entertain the thought of having a president who has no experience. You cannot honestly complain about anybody being unqualified for any job if you're willing to give the top job to someone who has no experience.
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“In fact, nothing has come to Michelle Obama easily. She’s just maintained enough grace under pressure to make it appear so. During her first four years in Washington, she would occasionally signal that the role of a first lady, when performed regally, elegantly and perfectly, could be exhausting, exasperating and lonely. “
She was real. I felt that Michelle Obama really saw people - sometimes with a wry courtesy, sometimes with full attention, but I feel she understood people very well. I miss her example very much.
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@Sally Fortunately, Michelle and Barack Obama are very much still an example, and likely to be for many years to come.
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"Lady" should be a lifetime title.
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Reality Check: No better or worse than any other First Lady of the past 70 years.
No need to disparage the woman.
No need to make her a saint.
Buy her memoir and enjoy it, if you feel so inclined.
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I didn't read all the comments but scanned though most of them.
This is the first opinion column I remember without without dissenting comments.
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Michelle's the real deal beauty and brains!
What an outa sight First Lady she was, and continues to be a good role model for all.
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Hillary & Michelle, 2020 ticket!
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@Mark Hillary Clinton & Sara Palin for 2020
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What a beautiful article, capturing what so many of us see and think about this remarkable woman. Thank you.
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Mrs. Obama helps us remember what dignity means. She is a perfect example of what most of us hope for from our leaders. Always strong, but also kind, a wonderful role model for all. (Her husband is a lucky man)!
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For purely entertainment value, weekday evenings I watch Hannity and Laura Ingraham. Last night Ingraham lit into Michelle's book. As I listened to her pile on, it suddenly dawned on me that she, Hannity - perhaps Trump himself - are truly envious of the Obamas.
Laura kept asking why everyone is always praising Michelle, why her book is so popular, why no one does the same for Trump or Melania. The Fox pundits cannot comprehend why there are folks who, while truly missing the Obamas, absolutely cannot stand the Trumps.
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I truly enjoyed her depiction of the White House as being built by slaves. Let’s not forget the Obama’s by some miracle left the White House multi millionaires, yet entered as upper middle class. Where did the money come from? Lastly, they abandoned Chicago and it’s troubles.
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@George..."Where did the money come from?"...If you are really interested, might I suggest you look at their tax returns which were made public every year. So unlike the current White House occupant we know exactly where their money came from.
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@George
Yeah, the money thing is certainly questionable.
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@Upper West Side
No, it's not. A best-selling book and a yearly salary of $200,000+ with very few personal expenses easily makes a millionaire.
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I agree that she is “everything”!
Signed, Middle aged white woman
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Well, let's say it: "Michelle Obama can and would make a great President, and she would win."
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@R. Self
No, we should not say "it." An experienced politician should be elected president. Otherwise, we could make random people CEOs.
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Love her!
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I love her.
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Michelle Obama is a former First Lady. That's it. She did some amazing things and some very forgettable things.
She's not the second coming, she didn't write something that will change history, and she will be forgotten along with all the other First Ladies ( outside of outliers like Eleanor Roosevelt) within twenty years.
Good job, thanks, enjoy retirement, I am.
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@Ernest Montague
You are mistaken Ernest. Michelle Obama will be remembered, loved, and respected forever. She set an example for future First Ladies garnering respect for her intelligence and ability to offer hope that overcomes hate.
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@Ernest Montague I expect the historians will still be writing about Michelle for the next 250 years (if the Republic lasts that long) as an example of grace under fire for the racist comments she endured as the first African American in the role of First Lady. And she will only look better as the slovenly racist real estate developer who followed the Obamas marked the nadir of the American presidency. It was that real estate developer who espoused the hateful birther controversy while the Obamas were in the White House and thus he and they will be linked forever as presidents number 44 and 45. The Obamas would have been a hard act to follow for anyone, but the contrast between 44 and 45 could not be more glaring. Three guesses about who the historians will favor and the first two guesses do not count.
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@Shelby de Quesada . Indeed. Forever is a very long time. Can you name the last ten First Ladies?
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Ms. Obama is showing us with her words and actions that the antidote to Trump's lies, demonization, diversion, division and fear is truth, love, relevance, empathy and courage.
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So very tired of the fawning, worshipful comments over Mrs. Obama. While she does indeed seem educated, articulate, and talented in many areas, I am aghast that she couldn't bring herself to do another hour or so of "fake smiling" during Inauguration Day. She and her husband were about to "clock out" on their shifts, so to speak, so a wee bit longer wouldn't have killed her. It basically was one of her job functions: Smile for your country.
God knows as a political wife she had had to become adept long ago at the timeless art of pretending to be happy & amused.
Also, it puzzles me how it seems okay for her to hold a grudge and vow to "never forgive" Pres. Trump for perceived wrongs, but if he has a similar attitude, he is spewing hate.....Go figure.
By the way, I never saw her as the fashion diva that Jackie Kennedy or Nancy Reagan were for there era. Defo didn't understand the short sleeve red outfit she wore on Inauguration Day to greet the Trumps under the canopy.
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@Samantha Jane Bristol
nancy reagan was a "fashion diva" in the same sentence with jackie kennedy?!?
i don't *think* so. unless you consider money spent on costumes--they are simply NOT in the same league.
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@Samantha Jane Bristol perhaps it's because, as she said, Trump's pushing of the birther topic put her family in potential danger. I wouldn't forgive that either. And really, would you? If someone did that to your family? As far as her clothing, if all people like all *your* outfits, then rock on. Taste is one of the things that makes us all individuals.
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@Samantha Jane Bristol
You probably don't know about all of the designers that Mrs. Obama wore and gave publicity to while she was First Lady. You need to read more. You mentality ("shifts"?) is showing. Mrs. Obama didn't owe this country any more smiles, especially for a person that had attacked her husband.
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I recall Mrs. Obama being asked by a reporter during his first presidential campaign if she thought her husband had what it takes to be President. She answered yes but not immediately or glibly - she gave the question some serious thought and said yes! This is when I started to seriously consider voting for him.
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Amazing to consider that in the space of less than two years, we've gone from a woman of grace, dignity and intelligence to an aloof, botoxed trophy wife whose greatest claim to fame is a former career as a soft-porn model.
Truly fascinating times!
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@Jeffrey
I am no Trump supporter, but I don't think it's right to bash on the current First Lady. I think she's trying her best - I give her credit for that.
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Heroine worship? Heroin worship? The so-called libs and Dems are on their way to another election loss. Would they have wanted another, dignified first lady, e.g., Barbara Bush, to run for POTUS?
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Michelle Obama strode onto that pressure cooker scene as a capable, well-educated, professional woman with a mind and values of her own. She didn't "demand" attention; she earned it. She set before the American public and the world an image of the modern American Black woman as stylish, smart and savvy, yet caring and competent. She trashed old racial stereotypes by being herself.
I wish that the young women quoted didn't see her as perfect -- because part of the point of her sharing experiences is that nothing and no one is perfect - but you do your best.
I'm happy that she is a woman for all young woman to emulate
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Women create. It's just what they do. They create families, they create communities, they create bonds between and among us. The make all of us -- both men and other women--better.
I knew Michelle Obama (nee Robinson) in law school. I never knew Barack. But I see reflected in him the grace, persistence, intelligence, and honor that personified Michelle.
Michelle has figured out how to be a woman--to exercise power and grace--in a society that doesn't seem to value those traits in a woman.
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Would that she were, or could become, "My President"; but Michelle Obama is far too beautiful to 'hold' the office I dream of her 'occupying' right now -- much less to chase it through the depths of the 'American' political swamp.
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I wish Michelle good luck with the book, but I wish the Obamas had been more open, "open books", while in the White House.
I hate Trump, but in some ways, he is more of an "open book."
Trump lays things out and he stimulates our curiosity, daily.
So, now, the Obamas write their $60 million books, and we finally learn about what they are really about!
I hope that future presidents will be more open and candid, while they are still in the White House...
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@Harry Pearle
The Obamas had a right to a private life even in the White House. What do you want to know that couldn't wait?
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By the time she left the White House she had become America's Mom. I miss her presence.
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@mg
And what about the current president and his ongoing business deals, let alone some of the most questionable deals abroad? Millions that his rather loosely organized organization has gained using loopholes, looking the other way at international investors who have been accused of money laundering or political misdeeds. Hmm. And my goodness, their charities that seem not to be charities but slush funds for personal expenses. And then there's the hush money to hide sex adventures - just before the election. If you are going to complain about supposedly ill-gotten money -- do look at both sides!
Michelle Obama has been and will remain my most favorite First Lady. Intelligent, beautiful, fiercely both a great mother bear and a skilled and honest First Lady.
If she ever wants to grab a beer in Texas I would be happy to buy.
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For those who denigrate the Obamas for making tens of millions of dollars from book deals - the Obamas are donating a significant portion of their book proceeds to charities.
Critics should ask themselves if they would do the same.
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Please consult a tax attorney before going forward.
@common sense advocate
Define significant.
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@common sense advocate
The Obamas have nothing to be ashamed of because they earned that money; nobody gave them a cent. Nobody's forced to buy their books.
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The Presidency is an insane burden on one person and on that person's family. I am so grateful to all the Obamas for serving our country so well, & putting up with the endless celebrity nonsense and constant low level anxiety that must go with knowing they are a target for lunatics.
I actually feel sorry for all modern Presidents and their kin, but the Obama years were the greatest for the US and the world in my lifetime.
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A classy, intelligent, dignified woman whom we were lucky to have as First Lady.
For me the absolutely wonderous moment of her time in the White House was her speech when she described watching her beautiful daughters growing up "in a house built by slaves".
I imagine a speechwriter crafted the speech, but the speech was written with the woman in mind, and delivered with astonishing power.
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Beyond whatever well-earned label each of us applies - liberal, scholar, educator, black, woman, mother, daughter, muse - we should all hold her in high esteem - not only because of her character, honor, intelligence and grace - but also because she is a symbol of all we've lost with the current administration's lack of character, honor, intelligence and grace.
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Intelligent, well-educated, loving parents, gracious, and polite. That describes both of the Obamas.
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@Linda, you might want to change “parents” to “parenting,” since the ex-POTUS was raised mostly by his (wonderful) grandmother. His father was there for the conception and not much else. His mother had other interests. Be honest.
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@Passion for Peaches
And you have no first-hand knowledge about who was mostly involved in the child-rearing. You certainly don't know their father's role.
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News Flash: I am all for class and dignity but reality is that MO pushed a Far Left narrative constantly. Her initiative involving military families was fantastic. He initiative involving better food for children was an unmitigated disaster and totally truncated the day she left the WH. She only recognized that she respected this country only after she reached a powerful position herself. All in all? 4 on a scale of 10. Maybe.
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@Patrick Turner I totally agree. I might give her a 3.
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@Patrick Turner
Yes, all that pesky healthy eating and battling childhood obesity- a real Marxist.
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@Patrick Turner How is better nutrition and exercise a far left concern? 10. She gets a 10. As did Laura Bush, BTW....
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I don't quite understand how,
in light of her husband's policy of "income equality",
Michelle Obama can justify accepting
an enormous advance for her book
while living an exceedingly extravagant lifestyle.
It would seem to me that a bit of austerity
would be more in keeping with her
supposed politics.
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@Upper West Side I don't see what her husband's policies when he was president have to do with what a publisher is offering her now that the family is no longer in the White House. No person in their right mind would decline such an offer. The publisher knows it will more than make it up in book sales.
Worry about something that actually affects you. Like trump taking our money while destroying our country.
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@Upper West Side, Seriously, Upper West Side? How would Michelle short changing herself help anyone else? She has started a global initiative to support girls in education and leadership. Corporate bailouts are what should be condemned. Most presidents and their spouses in recent years have written their memoirs, and received compensation for what they were worth at the time.
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@Upper West Side
Oh, Please! One does not have to wear a hair shirt to point out that some others have no shirt! I am sure that MO, like many of us, would like everyone to be able to live a comfortable lifestyle. That means for some a small apartment and for others a 10 room house. Fairness does not mean everyone gets the same thing, but they should be able to get what is needed. And it does not mean that to point out what is unfair you have to give up your rights to all comforts.
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I preordered "Becoming" as a gift for my wife. Our teenage daughter is looking forward to reading it, too. I can't wait to read it myself. Also looking forward to Melania's book: "Becoming a trophy wife".
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I think MO meant well. I am also highly mistrustful of her since she loves to play the aggrieved victim so much, which is incredibly tiresome. I believe also she is highly restricted by the Far Left positions of her husband who almost destroyed this country. Other than that, she seems like a good person.
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@Patrick Turner
Far left positions? Like what?
What "nearly destroyed the country"? Figuring out a way to expand health benefits?
The man was essentially, a moderate Republican, with a little touch of FDR. in office.
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@Patick Turner. It seems to me that Obama left the country in far, far greater shape than he inherited it from Bush. You and "the right's" claim that BO destroyed the country is what is tiresome..
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@Patrick Turner, the only one playing the "aggrieved victim" is 45, whiner in chief.
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I see many admirable qualities in Michelle Obama. Her behavior at Trump’s inauguration was, however, not her finest hour. I was in mourning and shock that day, too, but I was scowling and cussing in the privacy of my own home (and I am just a private citizen). Her sole job that day was to be the dignified spouse of the outgoing President. It was not the place or time to broadcast her personal take on the proceedings, to radiate anger, or to otherwise bring excessive attention on herself. Her husband managed to maintain a professional, dignified, composed and cordial countenance throughout the entire (no doubt torturous) day. She should have done the same, for him and for the dignity of the Office of the President. When I heard her say she consciously decided to stop trying to smile — in other words, decided to mope — during the ceremony, my opinion of her took a dive. Frankly, her behavior came off as peevish. Very disappointing. She should have had the fortitude to rise above it. (As a woman a few years older than she, I gave her the benefit of the doubt at the time and assumed she was just menopausal, and not feeling her best self. But now I learn it was a choice. The wrong choice, in my opinion.)
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@Passion for Peaches
I couldn't disagree with you more. MO recognized the full horror of what had just happened to our country. This was not a lawful transfer of power. Putin had helped to put an unqualified, authoritarian, un-American, misogynist and racist man into our highest office. Dignity consisted in having an authentically grim face. MO was one of the most elegant AND intelligent and accomplished first ladies we have ever had -- by far.
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@Passion for Peaches Can you not have any empathy for her? Trump, including Melania, maligned her husband for years with the birther movement and his treatment of women during the campaign was abhorrent. She's human and probably just had enough of Trump. Before being a first lady she's a woman, a wife and mother and Trump degraded all of that . She wasn't the only one who looked miserable that day.
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@Sharon, who said I was without empathy? Don’t attatched your assumptions and prejudices to my words. The position of FLOTUS is not an elected post, but it is a job. She was acting in that capacity that day. She was unprofessional. Full stop.
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As long as we idolize others, and reify the myth that someone else has to "save us" and/or show us "how to be", we will enable authoritarianism.
Until we, each of us, look within ourselves, confront that we all have the capacity to be a force for good or evil, and that we have to make that choice ourselves, our society's decay will continue. You have to be your own hero. Nobody else can do it for you.
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Michelle Robinson Obama,
A patriot, an example of
perfection...an
inspiring role-model.
Thank you from a grateful
American.
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Michelle Obama always seemed to appreciate the great gift given to her as a role model and First Lady. And she never seemed to cow-tow to her husband. Also a role model. She came across as a black woman with confidence. No wonder Republicans find her unsettling.
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@Lee I agree, but I think she also appreciated the great responsibility of being a role model, First Lady, wife and parent. She took her job seriously. I admire her very much.
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This brief presentation of the portrait, the memoir, and of Michelle Obama herself is a life saving breath of fresh oxygen in the time of the suffocating miasma that is the current White House and administration.
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Women are lucky to have Michelle Obama in the world. She has shown us that you can be a real, authentic, empowered woman, beautiful because of who she is not because of all the makeup and dresses (but she is still a fine looking lady) and still be a public figure.
She just happened to become known because of her husband, but she is truly remarkable. She doesn't have to be president herself. She is just herself. And that is message all women and girls need.
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These days I cannot but help to wonder if many of us are so admiring of Michelle Obama because she is exceptionally eloquent, intelligent, charismatic, displays integrity, and generally possesses all of the qualities that we want in our leaders... Or we are just so starved of passable leadership that it is a rare thing to see any half way decent person discussed within the context of the political realm.
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For the record, I do think that it's the former. But the later option comes to mind in that you have to look really hard in Washington DC these days to find anyone putting integrity above their donors or party.
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@Mr. SeaMonkey, she is not a polical figure. She is the wife of one. There is a huge difference between those positions. Her popularity is more in the “realm” of fan worship.
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@Passion for Peaches If that is the case, what do you call Trump's supporters support? Talk about fan worship....
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Super nice woman who sold out her community for her neoliberal values. The lack of voter turn out for Hillary was an indication that people were fed up with eight years of her milquetoast husband who fought for nothing. But she has a lot of charm.
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@FXQVoter turn out was greater for Hillary than it was for Trump by about 3Million votes.
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@FXQ
Oh yes, you pretend to forget that his policies saved the U.S. from the Great Recession. And how did Mrs. Obama sell out her community. Was it her emphasis on the health of the black community?
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Her comment after the 2008 victory sums her up politically: for once she was proud of America. A shameful statement.
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@Bob
I'm a white woman reared in the deep South during segregation and who saw that the "liberty and justice for all" was a lie.
Although for much of the time I've been proud to be an American, I have also had times when I was deeply ashamed of my country's behaviors.
The day I voted for a black man of great intelligence, decency, moral values was a day I felt, for the first time ever, that America was a perfect country.
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@Bob One statement in 8 years sums it all up? You can't look at the totality of her actions and statements? Hopefully you're holding Trump to this unbelievably high standard?
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@Bob It wasn't shameful, it was honest. I'm a middle-aged white woman, and I felt the same way.
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As a 66 year old white male I am hardly the demographic discussed here but I miss Michelle too. She was graceful and intelligent in the face of the incredible hate and racism that was directed at her. As a couple I loved the Obamas. Always so at ease and classy. I wish I could have gone to one of their parties. Boy did they look like fun!
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I too admire Michelle Obama, as well as her husband, greatly and I miss the dignity and class they brought to the White House more every day. Now that we are allowed to see a little bit more about the tensions that they had to overcome, especially in the early part of his political career, when the responsibility for their family fell disproportionately on her, I can appreciate even more how well they came through all that. They set a wonderful example of how a couple under the most intense spotlight can remain genuinely loving and devoted. Their body language when they were together showed that clearly. (BTW, I always loved it when t was reported that they had a date night with dinner and the theater!)
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This is so beautifully written. I'm adding astral and adoration to my daily vocabulary.
Thank you.
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I can add nothing to this excellent piece.
Blessings and Love
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Michelle Obama was a perfectly respectable first lady, who did not want to be a politician's wife, and in many ways it showed. She largely remained on the sidelines regarding her husband's major policy initiatives, and stuck to her small bore issues, such as eating healthy and getting exercise. Her focus was not on gov't solutions, so much as personal initiatives and appeals to the private sector, such as Walmart to offer more affordable produce. I think her legislative initiative, to make school lunches healthier, lower in calories and by most accounts, less appetizing would have been criticized by liberals if it had come from a Republican first spouse, and would have been seen as focusing on small issues, rather than the more important ones such as the vast educational inequality of public schools.
If Michelle Obama was warm and caring, where her husband was more introverted and cerebral, she didn't use that to charm the members of congress her husband needed to win over, or to reach out to communities who felt neglected.
Her praise of candidate Hillary - that she was more prepared than either Bill or Barack - was faint praise indeed - since when do employers hire a person because they worked the hardest to get there?
Her overtures resonated loudest with the black community, who were justifiably thrilled at her presence in the WH, but even there, the Obamas eschewed grand gestures such as sending their daughters to the public school like Amy Carter.
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@DebbieR What a grudging assessment of a beautiful woman who was flawless in a difficult and treacherous position, and what naivete to suggest that her failure to "charm" members of congress was anything but a reflection of that body's blindly partisan self-interests. Her choice to promote health and nutrition was not such a small idea. It dovetailed nicely with her husband's grand goal of health care reform, since no system in the world can save people who do not take proper care of themselves. Finally, I, as a white man thrilled to have her in the WH representing my country, take exception to your suggestion that she was primarily a token for black people. That is racist meanness.
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@DebbieR Amy Carter was the last president's kid to attend public school because in today's school-shooter climate, it's just too dangerous and disruptive. There'd be no way to keep the president's children safe.
Also, if you'll remember, Hillary Clinton was excoriated for stepping up and addressing larger legislative initiatives like health care. How dare she? Why isn't she keeping silent in the background like a good FLOTUS should? It's no wonder Michelle Obama kept to a smaller agenda -- and was roundly scolded and abused by conservatives and Fox Newsies for daring to suggest that we could improve our health through proper nutrition and exercise.
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@DebbieR Good mechanical, factual summary of certain aspects of Michelle Obama's actions except it reads like you missed the forest for the trees.
You fail to consider how Mrs. Obama had constraints on her (as did her husband) that did not allow her to become his partner on policy. If you think her only interest was vegetable gardens and girls you missed alot. You definitely should read the book.
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Some people are asking for her to run for office.
I ask that she does not.
I am not a fan, but I sure do not want to watch her get destroyed.
No experience in management of any kind, easy target for the right, the lady would be raked over the coals, and lose.
Rather leave with her dignity untouched.
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@AutumLeaff
I do believe that eight years as First Lady of the United States involved a bit of managerial skill.
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@AutumLeaff
I agree. I was very distressed when people started suggesting candidates (like Oprah and Michele) who had little to offer as a candidate except that they were well known and had a pleasing image. What is needed to be the President is much more than that. A bit of managerial experience is also not enough.
I would like a candidate who knows where all the countries in the world are, who leads them, what their problems are, which ones are reliable friends, how the Congress and federal agencies work, what the Constitution is about, and the issues that were debated when it was drafted. An understanding of children's needs and the effects of poverty and racism would also be valuable. It takes more than being likeable and recognisable.
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@AutumLeaff, she has no political experience. Neither did Trump. Enough said.
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Dreaming of a 2020 O'Rourke-Obama ticket <3
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@ADHD: Followed by PTSD?
Compare the last two administrations and vote Democrat no matter who gets the nomination. This nonsense simply has to stop!
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The contrast between the Obamas as a team and the couple that followed them is so stark, is almost unbelievable.
The Obamas: sunny, upbeat, easy to smile radiantly; who seem to enjoy all kinds of people of all ages; elegant beyond words, centered children who themselves are considerably "above average." They are indeed symbols of what's best in ourselves.
The Trumps: there is simply nothing there. They are isolated, secretive, tasteless, one an overweight glutton who lives in a gilded shell of his own creation and his wife: the third in a series of them, who seems more interested in her couturier than in anything else and who can barely manage an intelligible utterance and whose smile is as brittle as a frozen Snickers bar. You will never see Melania Trump out in front with kids, planting a raised garden of healthy food.
From sublime to ridiculous in one November election day! The era of presidential fist bumping is so over! Alas and alack.
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@Bob Burns
Exactly. Awful.
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\ I get she is lovely n has charm , but why the fuss ? what has she DONE that is so interesting ?
/like Obama's Nobel prize,
unearned glory
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@michael burke What has she done? She has shown us the elegance, intelligence and dignity becoming of a first lady. A great roll model for all women.
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@michael burke
For another thing, she brought REAL FOOD into school cafeterias. No small thing. Contrary to what you might hear, the kids ate it.
So could the adults - instead of nothing but white refined carbs.
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@Ginny Fisher
Not just women...a great role model for all humans.
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Michelle for president!!!!
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Miss her. And Barack, too.
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Michelle Obama is a role model for all women everywhere. Thank you Michelle!!!
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Michelle Obama is the classiest First Lady ever, bar none. And that includes a list of famous and accomplished First Ladies such as Jacqueline Onassis Kennedy and Eleanor Roosevelt. This is largely due to her being transparent in the most human manner possible. She did not act regal or uppity; she acted just like any normal person would. And that made her approachable.
And to imagine that she did all this with the stereotype of an angry black woman hanging over her head. Bravo and more kudos to her!!
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@chickenlover
While I appreciate the spirit of your post and largely agree with it, I would caution you against using the term "uppity" within the context of a description of a person of African-American descent, given the racist past (and present) of that word. Arrogant would have been more appropriate.
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@chickenlover
See her letter to Chicago in the Chicago Defender
See chicagodefender.org
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I liked when she hugged Queen Elizabeth
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Delusional celebrity worship at its most revelatory. Both writer and the myriad effusive commenters need to awaken to the historical facts of her husbands administration. Past is prologue.
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Vincenzo, a review of her husband's historical record shows they were a great team. When he took office, we had over 300,000 American troops in 2 theaters of war; he brought all but between 15,000 to 20,000 home. Would you prefer they still be there?
When he took office, we were losing 700,000 to 800,000 jobs per month. Now we have had 96 straight months of job growth. The last 21 months had higher monthly job averages, than the first 21 of his successor. The stock market went from 6000 to 19,000 during his tenure. It had gone up to over 25,000 under his successor but in 2018 it has not had a net gain.
He succeeded in stopping Iran's nuke program for 10-15 years, did not initiate a new war (No he did not start the wars in Libya or Syria), he led on the Paris climate accord and for Bin Laden.
Also The ACA helped millions get health coverage and is more popular than ever, banning annual and lifetime coverage caps, protecting those with pre-existing coverage and expanding Medicaid.
Michelle has plenty to be proud of in her husband 's acjevements.
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@Vincenzo*** what historical fact is that ..The country he inherited losing 750 thousand jobs a month and an economy falling off a cliff? There was a President before him for 8 years who all you guys seem to have a great amnesia about .. yea the past is prologue indeed.
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@Vincenzo
Aw sour grapes! The "historical facts" of Obama's administration --- whatever you think of his politics --- are courtesy and social appropriateness, fiscal honesty, decent treatment of others, devotion to Presidential duty, respect for international agreements, and concern for the environment. Trump, OTOH, sets a new low in disrespect for both men and women and for facts, hatred of a free press, uninformed and proudly ignorant dismissal of other countries' leaders, and a sociopathic urge to lie even when those lies are self-defeating and even when exposed. Petty, nasty, childish, temperamental and self-serving. You call this yearning for the pride we feel in the Obama family "celebrity worship." Perhaps the contrast between them and the nightmare we are enduring right now is so powerful and vivid.
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Michelle Obama in 2008 after her husband was elected: "I finally have a reason to be proud of my country". That tells you all you need to know about Michelle Obama.
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@paul
So it's ONE thing she said in 5 years or so of the most intense scrutiny that was insensitive to the feelings of some
Americans. It may have had something to do with the relentless attacks on her husband -- which never stopped. ( I think the relentless threats against her family increased later) And her genuine surprise at the fact that the country actually was able to get past the barrage of racially inspired attacks and elect him. If you recall, she was/is not enamored of the political life - anymore than may other First Ladies. So she was also acknowledging that he succeeded - in a field she would have avoided like the plague if it weren't for him.
We have a President now who insults and lies at a rate of something like 10 times a day. Some say 6000+other 12,000+ : maybe you could give her a pass on one emotional comment?
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@paul You forgot the "really." Give it a rest.
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@paul
It’s difficult to understand just how excluded Americans of African descent can feel. Considered property. Then denied civil rights by law for 100 years. Blocked from much of the home ownership and financial gains of the post World War 2 era. That may not the quotation by which we want to remember Michelle Obama. However, when I look at her words and actions as First Lady, I see a woman who worked to set aside past resentment to represent what America COULD be if we live up to our ideals. For that I will always be grateful.
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Michelle Obama is simply a woman for such a time as this.
They’ve gone low... and she’s thought us how to rise high...
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The Obamas served to elevate our presidency and deserve an archival presence.
The painting of Michelle however, a projector photo painting and induced wash doesn’t do Michelle justice and only slightly resemble her life’s energy and image. Could a politically correct choice of an artist have determined this lackluster artistic achievement?
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If MO was everything I'd be reading her contemporary books on Etruscan pottery, black holes in space, quantum mechanics (QM), raising cats, climbing the 7 summits, literary criticism, electric power engineering, crowd funding, the art of the raspberry pie, mimicry,....
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Michelle Obama is that favorite aunt you see during holiday get togethers who is accomplished in her own way, but never distant. She lights up when your eyes meet. She makes YOU light up. Wants to know what's happening in your life. You just know she cares about you. There is a slight pang of missing her when you depart, but a warmth in her good-bye hug. Michelle comes off as real. How's that for a first lady!?
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@Steve That's a lovely observation, Steve. Thank you. As an aunt who doesn't see her nephews enough, your image is particularly poignant and timely. I hope Mrs. O reads comments such as yours.
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As an old white man, I find it very difficult to understand the tears that come to me whenever I see her portrait in the National Gallery. I feel love, yes - but there is something else there that escapes me. I cannot put my finger on it. Perhaps I'm weeping for my country, who may not see her likes again.
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@Barbyr we will see the likes of her again. Michele Obama planted the seeds of excellence that will sprout and grow in future generations of women.
They may be dormant in this dark winter of Trump-ism, but they’re there, and will eventually flourish.
I have faith in our children...
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@Barbyr Another old white man in a deep red state who loves and misses her and her family. It is a joy everytime to see and listen to her. Eight years of true enjoyment and I miss them very much.
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@Barbyr
Oh my gosh...you just made me cry. Truth.
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I cannot help but compare Michelle and Melania, two very modern women. But I stop. Melania married Donald J Trump. That is really all I will ever need to know about her. Who would read Melania's book? I can pick up the National Enquirer at the local market.
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@M. Jones
I keep trying to dredge up sympathy for Melania --- after all, a woman whose husband was servicing porn actresses while she was post-partum (and having made an issue of her weight gain!)
Melania's own shame over her nude modeling photos being exposed; her being set up to plagiarize Michelle's speech (!); the revelation of her husband's groping and harassment of women (can't have been a huge surprise, but still...). Her notoriously vicious pre-nuptial agreement. I thought, "cut her some slack." She must be miserable, married to this excrescence of a person.
Nevertheless, she reveals herself as socially tone-deaf, unconcerned for others, and probably, beneath it all, a rather superficial and greedy person.
The contrast with Michelle and the girls; the contrast with Barack's obvious delight in his family; the contrast of Michelle's commitment to other Americans and spontaneous emotional honesty is so overpowering that people can be forgiven for elevating her as they do. Were Melania a little less odious, Michelle would not stand out so vividly, as her antithesis.
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“Woman is the dominant sex. Men have to do all sorts of stuff to prove they are worthy of a woman’s attention.” — Camille Paglia
Michelle Obama proves this without a doubt. And Barack Obama is so lucky that she chose him to be her life partner. She’s a truly inspirational woman. Thank you for your exemplary service to our country. I can’t wait to read your memoir!
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I'm afraid the comparison with the current President is giving too much credit to the previous administration.
Are we allowed to consider president Obama is in the upper tier of American presidents but not in the top 5 ? This isn't Obamas' legacy anymore this is at minimum a worship and almost a cult.
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I felt proud to have Michelle as First Lady. I do not have that feeling now......
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Michelle embodied all that America should be to be great.
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Mrs Obama may have many qualities. But she has a racial chip on her shoulder that too often communicates a dislike of the country that has given her and her family so many opportunities—including the opportunity to be First Lady for 2 terms in a country that is only 13% Black. Many non-African-Americans voted for her husband to be President twice—so a bit more graciousness is in order.
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ehillesum, it is you who should show graciousness to her. She showed support for veterans' families in a way few have. She represents the best that America has to offer. Your comment is distressing because it suggests any African-American woman must thank white folks for everything they achieve.
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@ehillesum What's your evidence? I've never heard her say a disparaging word about her country. "Really proud" and "proud" are variations of the same emotion: proud of your country. I'd be more concerned about the traitors in the White House now.
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@ehillesum Gave, no one GAVE the Obamas anything. They earned it unlike the current occupants in the WH. Why it is so hard for some of you to accept that people of color are smart, intelligent, hard working and love their families and their country. Black people have earned their rights in this country. Yesterday was Veterans Day and my brother, both of my grandfathers, six uncles and many of my cousins served in the military. Yet, here you are acting like we haven't earned our rights in this country.
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Has she considered running for office?
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@Andy
She hates political life.
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Michelle Obama is and always will be the epitome of class and my favorite First Lady.
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I admired the Obamas for their grace and class. They were as glamorous as the Kennedys. They were also a hallmark of integrity compared to the slobs that now inhabit the White House. I wish, though, that Democrats and their allies would let go of the Obamas. They had their time. They didn’t get it all right, but they left the country on surer footing. Now let’s put all our mental and emotional energy into recapturing the White House and reclaiming our dignity as a nation.
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@AlNewman We need a break once in a while from reading how the current electoral college president is demeaning the presidency. His recent purposeful absence--even through he was in the vicinity--from WWI commemoration ceremonies to honor American and Ally soldiers is absolutely despicable.
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Ms. Obama is not adored by all. While I appreciate the sacrifices she has made to support her husband in his service to our country, and I enjoyed her performance n Carpool Karaoke, Michelle often comes across as privileged, arrogant and defensive. As a first lady, neither the best nor the worst.
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@Jack she is daily and routinely called a man and an ape. This would make someone defensive pretty quickly.
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@Jack I think the word for this is--projection. Not surprising. Happens all the time with the Obamas (and black folks in general, and black women in particular.) We're blank screens for every white man or woman's anxiety or fear.
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Mrs Obama is so the real deal.
Her detractors could learn much from her grace, smarts and honesty.
I think she's a modern heroine.
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I never met a French man or woman who didn’t think that Michelle Obama (Barack too of course) along with her grace, class, enthusiasm and energy, was not the epitome of “style.” And the French know something about style!
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She was a real lady, our First Lady. We exercised with her. We gardened with her. We mothered our children with her. We stood by her husband, a real President, with her. Sang, danced, smiled, laughed, and cried with her. We shared our outrage over injustice with her, speaking truth to power. We introduced her to our children and grandchildren, saying, “See that beautiful lady there. She is the embodiment of a woman, of intelligence, of morality, love, and compassion...an American patriot.”
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The portrait of Michelle is lovely but for me it portrays her as too quiet and too distant.He was anything bit.She and Barrack had two lovely daughters but , in fact, all children were Michelle’s concern.She invited so many children to the White House to introduce them to art and music and her pet project of eating healthy and exercising.She made an effort to give many graduation speeches , often at traditionally African American colleges.She adored children, inspired them and certainly helped raise a generation who will be inspired by her to get an education and make a difference in their communities.I saw her as a mother, a wonderful mother to all children.
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Mrs Obama’s portrait left me cold and didn’t do justice to her warmth, intelligence and charisma. It felt generic, the dress too front and center. Our wonderful former FLOTUS deserved better!
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So true. Yet some folks cannot see beyond the skin.
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Every time I see Barack or Michelle Obama, I smile. Unfortunately,the Trumps do not elicit that response, and I turn away when I see them on TV. I was born when FDR was president. It wasn’t until Bill and Hillary that I really cared about the people leading our country. Yes,I was devastated when JFK was assassinated but there was a stiffness to him and Jackie. Michele is fun! She is the kind of person you would love to know,really smart and beautiful. And she is human! I don’t imagine there will ever be,in my lifetime,a couple like them in the While House.
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Michelle Obama provides one model of a great First Lady. The epitome of elegance and grace, she did not hesitate to get down in the dirt of a garden with children, to remind them that the rich and powerful did not have a monopoly on the important things in life, like a healthy diet. Both she and her husband often faced criticism because they treated elite politicians with a certain reserve, while displaying an openness and vulnerability to children that inspired those of us outside the Washington beltway.
Eleanor Roosevelt pioneered a different approach to the informal office of First Lady. In fact, she helped create the current expectation that the president's spouse will play a public role. In a time of crisis, married to a chief executive whose physical disabilities limited his mobility, she traveled the country (and later the world) as an informal ambassador of the president, keeping him informed about the impact of New Deal measures on the lives of ordinary Americans. She, too, encountered severe censure from people who thought her prominent role inappropriate for a woman.
Two very different women who both served their country well by embodying values and attitudes which represent America at its best.
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@James Lee
I was born in 1933 and grew up with Eleanor Roosevelt as a model for the intelligent modern woman.
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@James Lee One of the essential points about Eleanor is that she radically, - stress on radical, - disagreed with FDR on many issues and problems. FDR saw her as an often annoying, bothersome critic, but a critic who he listened to. Eleanor later talked about how she would open the newspapers and find that FDR had changed his policy or approach in line with her criticism. She didn't fear criticizing her husband's government or his political allies. I do wonder if Michelle Obama provided the type of sustained criticism that Eleanor engaged in during the White House years. Later when Eleanor was free of the White House and engaged in politics at many levels, she mused that she now better understood why FDR had to compromise with contemptible people. In the White House Eleanor was one of the strongest critics of FDR's support of southern racist senators. I do wonder if Michelle ever sat down at dinner and said, 'Look Barack I worked in health care for years, and your health care plan is a disgrace. Why aren't you willing to risk your popularity and tour the nation arguing for a more generous, inclusive, single payer system?' Let's not compare Michelle Obama to the singularly independent, deeply committed, willing to take risks Eleanor Roosevelt.
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Michelle Obama is not simply a "great example for black women everywhere," she is a great example for human beings everywhere, regardless of gender, skin color, ethnicity or national origin.
Like Mrs. Obama, there are models of core human decency, integrity, intelligence and compassion out there to whom we would do well to pay close attention. That means filtering out the darker models who pretend so arrogantly to leadership in today's corridors of power.
Although I am referring here to the President of the United States, he is hardly alone, placed on a political pedestal by people who should know much, much better.
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@John lebaron
As a 64 year old white guy, I want to say I totally agree with you! I understand why she means so much to women and especially black women. But she means a lot to me too. She is a very intelligent and thoughtful person who brought grace to a public role, a role that when she was a young person she likely never imagined she would play!
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@John lebaron and @Bill - I agree with you both!
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I cannot add to the positive comments already said about Michelle Obama. She is class through and through. What I want to speak of is how First Ladies, specifically Hillary Clinton and Michelle Obama were both attorneys and professional women (of course, there is always Eleanor Roosevelt who was ahead of her time). Those accomplishments get glossed over by the traditional subservient role of First Lady. I hope that when all sexes finally have the Presidential position that the partner's role is redefined to recognize the professional acumen and accomplishments the partner brings. I would like the era of Nancy Reagan and Laura Bush clearly in the rearview mirror.
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@Janet I totally agree with you, but the era I would like to see clearly in the rearview mirror is Melania trump.
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@Janet You probably remember the blowback that the Clintons got after Bill's "two for one" quip about himself and Hillary during his first campaign. Sadly, there are far too many people who don't want an accomplished first spouse to take on "hard" issues beyond the classic 50's era PTA mom projects. (Doing your homework or eating your veggies = good. Taking on the medical-industrial complex or gun manufacturers = bad.)
Hopefully, in the not-too-distant future we'll see a presidential spouse who will be accepted for her (or his!) own potential to take on meaty policy issues.
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I remember hearing a story years ago that the mother of the young woman who was supposed to room with Michelle Robinson objected to her having to room with a black person and got the assignment changed. I wonder if it is a true story and if years later that woman and her mother regret their decision!
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it was an honor to have her as our First Lady. And a joy. She was capable, honest, thoughtful and warm. I loved having her and her husband in the White House. I felt confident in their decision making and proud of their ways.
I miss them both terribly.
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I will always remember when Bill Clinton in his great speech at the 2012 Convention when nominating Pres Barack Obama said " I want a man who had the good sense to marry Michelle Obama " .. Amen to that .. what a wonderful woman
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I wish she included white women in her interview. A lot of us are white but still a minority, for instance I am Jewish and an older woman who lived through many many years of anti semitism. A lot of white women can pass, but believe me we are Olive complected and do not look anglo christian at all and are not treated like a blonde. When I grew up in Encino there was a club for whites and a club for Jews, can you understand why I do not identify as a white woman ??
Anyway, Michelle is an amazing human who did an excellent job and her belief system is true to the heart.
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Started my Kindle copy last night and dreamt of young Michele. She just makes me smile. Wouldn’t she be fun to hang out with? Her mom must be really rock solid.
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She's an intelligent, graceful and disciplined person.
I will be the first to stand in line to vote for her as President of the United States - just as I was first in line to cast my early vote for Hillary Clinton as President.
Both women were forged in fire.
Someday.....
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@rosa -
You won't get the chance. That is not what she wants. Leave her alone to live her life the way she wants.
Intelligence, grace, in touch with the common woman and man. Miss her FLOTUS presence dearly.
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I miss her. I miss the whole family. Can't wait to read the book. My favorite "portrait" of our former First Lady is the time when she was filmed in her amazing WH organic garden, leading a whole bunch of kids in a rousing cheer of "Yay, veggies!"
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The US and the world was incredibly fortunate to have Michele Obama as our First Lady for eight years.
I'm 192 on my library list, out of 5 different formats for the book. I hope people read quickly.
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Thank you, Michelle Obama, for being a powerful image for every girl in America. We love you and appreciate your service. I will buy your book as a gift to me and for my daughters.
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I knew I would miss both of the Obamas being in the White House. And now with what has happened, my regret has deepened. Thank you for this column. Now I have to go order the book. People like me need reminders of just what we had when they were there and what can happen to make this country anything by great!
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Yes, it's astonishing how honest and "real" President Obama and Ms. Obama are in comparison with The Con Don and his followers.
However, no human being is a super being. We all have better angels and lesser angels to guide us. I am thrilled to the bone that so many honest and "real" Socially Conscious Women and men are voicing their real selves by voting to purge The Con Don and other democracy-destroyers from OUR systems at every level of government and business.
It's centuries past time and WE THE PEOPLE owe a huge debt of gratitude to the entire Obama family for all they contributed to show us how wonderful OUR United States of America really can be and - at heart - is.
Thank You Obama family!
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One thing puzzles me. I don’t understand how IVF would prevent a miscarriage unless the fertilized egg was implanted into the womb of a surrogate mother. Isn’t IVF normally a last resort if a woman is infertile, e.g., the egg for some reason cannot descend through one of the fallopian tubes? After IVF the fertilized egg is then implanted into the same woman whose egg was used, but if the problem is the danger of a miscarriage, how does IVF prevent one? Something doesn’t add up, but I’m sure there is another explanation.
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@Ed The miscarriage may have triggered a more extensive medical examination that would then lead them to IVF as their best option.
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I believe sometimes the issue with miscarriages can be "egg quality" and IVF can help with that.
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@Ed I understood the two events to be completely separate.
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I love the Obamas, not just for their policies of trying to make this a better country for all Americans, but for the example they set as a loving couple and family. I never tire of seeing pictures of Michelle and Barack interacting with great affection and pleasure in one another’s company. And I love to see them interact with their daughters whom they raised in the harsh spotlight of the White House and yet these girls matured into unspoiled well adjusted young women. The Obamas are the finest example of what marriage and family should be.
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@Mary
And yet they have received nothing from the GOP but the most base and cruel denigration. What is wrong with people? Really?
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@Mary The Obama's - at least Barak - made this a WORSE country for seniors whose SS benefits were surrepticiously reduced during his Administration.
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@me I think you mean the GOP -led congress that reduced benefits. Congress makes the laws.
Civics 101.
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Michelle Obama was such a terrific First Lady because she is a very real woman. She embodies all that women are in our daily lives, that we have to fulfill (or not) so many roles simultaneously.
Daughter, wife, mother, intelligent employee, manager's of household or business, social director, consoler, fixer, role model for our children, etc.
Women have lives of a complexity that men have traditionally have not had to embrace.
That Michelle Obama has approached each of her roles with honesty first then followed by her intelligence, grace under pressure, dignity, respect, and compassion is without question.
I look forward to reading her book
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We were so lucky to have the Obama's in the White House. Grace and dignity, two words that will always be associated with them. I always thought I would love to have this beautiful family as my neighbors. Michelle Obama is a remarkable lady, who, with no fanfare achieved so much. Now I'm looking forward to reading her book. it should arrive very soon.
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Mrs Obama is graceful and elegant, as well as smart and tough. I wish her portrait and this article were both more like her.
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"Smart", "classy", "elegant", "perfection" -- but what we love most of all about her is that she's real.
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@anonymouse
Real as compared to who, when, where and what?
Being wise is better than being smart. Being humble humane and empathetic is better than being classy and elegant. No human being has ever come remotely close to perfection.
" And yet I often marvel at this curious thing, that God would make a poet black and yet bid him to sing" Countee Cullen
" Night coming tenderly black like me." Langston Hughes
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No matter what you station in life, some people, whether through upbringing or a set of life experiences have class, while others just do not. The contrast between a family with class---the Obamas--and a family without class---the Trumps---is startling. You would think that with Trump's money and education that he would have class---instead we end up with a Queens real estate scam artist---a guy who does even fit into the Goodfellas group. And then you have the Obamas--- not a lot of money, working class families, single parent families---and, you have two individuals who draw thousands just to see their portraits.
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@ACJ "Class" as I understand it cannot be bought. To me, it's a quality of one's spirit that is expressed in the way one interacts with others, and it has nothing to do with money. As I take their measure, the Trump adults demonstrate no class, nor any recognition of the concept.
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@ACJ It doesn't seem classy to me to be unable to compliment Obama without throwing an insult Trump's way.
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@me
I heartily agree with you on this. I find it uncouth and it lessens the compliment being paid to Michelle.
But then again, it's important to remember that Donald Trump's sole purpose throughout his entire life has been to make sure that as many people think about him as possible, and as often as possible. Fame, at any cost, has always been his goal.
I lived in New York in the 90s and I was simply agog at how this minor player could manage to insert himself into the city's consciousness on a near weekly basis merely by committing or saying some outrage. It was sickening -- not just him, but the fact that anybody was willing to pay attention to him. He certainly is a master at it.
So, the fact that people find it difficult to pay the Obamas a compliment without insulting him, is really on his own head. He makes sure he outrages and divides people on a daily basis. Who can blame them if they can't stop thinking about him?
When he ran for President, my first thought was: "Oh my God, am I truly going to have to hear about this creep and his ugly antics all over again?!!! I thought I'd left this behind in New York!"
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I have nothing but respect and admiration for Michelle Obama. I just don't get the love for that painting. It's not that her portrait doesn't belong in the National Gallery - it certainly does. It's that I don't see where it actually looks like her.
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@SDC I think that you have to understand that art, like most everything else, progresses. And they are a progressive couple. Why wouldn't they be? We all know what the history of people of their race in this country has been . . . why not leave all that past 'tradition' behind and welcome today's new tradition. That would be a modern equality that has yet to rear its beautiful face in our country. We're waiting . . .
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The former First Lady is every inch the historic figure that her husband is.
She will always—to my mind—stand alone among the nation’s First Ladies because she endured everything that none of her predecessors did: the scorn from high society grande dames; the pointed dismissals of the wives (and husbands) in the capital and on The Hill; from the racist right wing media: Fox News and Clear Channel. They couldn’t destroy her own wonderful sense of self-worth—and those of her husband’s and their children—so the critics settled in to await what they smirkingly assumed was an inevitable fatal step. It never came.
And this gorgeous First Lady—forever ours as perhaps no previous First Lady ever was—save the widow of the 35th president—increases in stature daily, even as her successor stumbles publicly in a seemingly unending series of public embarrassments that have become almost comical in their own way and that define our national “conversation.”
Michelle Obama: mother; wife; First Lady; role model for countless millions (billions?) of young girls and women around the world. Is there any greater tribute to public service in the world’s most intimidating crucible: the American White House?
One glance at the headlines of any newspaper or news hour reminds us of a rarity that we can only recall with love and sadness, but also with humbling gratitude that, for one brief shining moment, she was ours.
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@Red Sox, '04, '07, '13, ‘18
''for one brief shining moment, she was ours.''
She shows by her actions, words, and writing that she still is ours.
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@Red Sox, '04, '07, '13, ‘18
Really nice, and well written comment. (The Red Sox must have added, grammar, spelling and vocabulary clinics to their Jimmy Fund philanthropy.)
s/Yankees ... 27 championships, too numerous to list. (See ya in '19.)
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When the portrait of Michelle Obama was revealed to the Public eye, it was greeted with differing views as to be expected.
For this American, it was profound in showing the soul and spirit of a bright reflective flame; a private person with a mistrust for the changing Media, and the cruelty of people who have not achieved anything of lasting value in their life time.
But the image that continues to recur of the former First Lady for this viewer is that of a rare fire bird in all her glory, cutting a dashing entrance, in plumage that few can wear.
Thanking Mrs. Obama for making some of us sit up, and shake a leg, inviting us to join her in excelling, and helping others, while trying to do our best, with love and courage for our country.
Wishing her and her family, many friends, a warm and comfortable Thanksgiving.
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How do Michelle Obama’s admirers reconcile her attacks on Hillary Clinton during the 2008 campaign with her effusive praise of her in 2016? Always seemed hypocritical to me.
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@Larry
We, Michelle's admirers, understand what politics requires. Criticism of opponents is part of the game. It doesn't signal disdain or even dislike;
it's just part of the competition
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@Larry It's politics. She has to be on the attack, not him. Men can't be seen attacking women, at least in politics. Until now, of course.
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@Larry Because in 2008, Clinton had to be considered alongside Mr. Obama. In 2016, of course, she stood side-by-side--and at least once during a debate stood as he glowered, stalking about like a silver back gorilla--to Mr. Trump. In politics, people are always considered in contrast to opponents.
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Amen. But it’s not just women...I loved Barack but I can’t imagine the number of times she kept him on the straight and narrow (and I don’t mean that negatively), and actually, without at all detracting from him, I suspect we would all be better off today had he been the “First Man” and she “Madam President”.....but of course that may be just another way of saying she would have never stopped to that job!
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Wonderful, Stacia Brown, your paean to our 44th First Lady, Michelle Robinson Obama! Her portait at the National Portrait Gallery by Amy Sherald, is exquisite. Can't wait to read her book, "Becoming". We look back to Michelle Obama's soul-nourishing 8 years as our First Lady, and we weep today to see how Donald Trump and his aloof First Lady, Melania, are spearheading the downfall of American Democracy.
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I know where Michelle Obama comes from. Both of us were born and bred black and poor on the almighty South Side of Chicago and are products of the Chicago Public Schools K -12. Both of our families moved into white neighborhoods and saw them flee. But I am older than she. The South Side of Chicago is the oldest and largest contiguous black community in America.
I do not know Barack Obama nor where he was born and bred. Except for the fact that he was lucky and smart enough to marry my home girl. Black girls do not dream of growing up and becoming Hillary Clinton nor Ruth Ginsburg nor Ivanka Trump nor Melania Trump.
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Well said (and I’m a Barack fan).
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@Blackmamba
You do not know where Barack Obama was born and bred? Really? Have you bothered to find out? He was born in Hawaii and reared there, and in Indonesia, mostly. I can only hope you don’t think the answer is Kenya.
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@Blackmamba - "I do not know Barack Obama nor where he was born and bred."
I find that very surprising. The story of Barack's life has been the subject of tremendous coverage over the years, not least in his own book, "Dreams from My Father".
And, being from the South Side of Chicago, you should be well aware of his community organizing there, and his representation of our community in the state legislature.
How did you miss all that?
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Ultimately, grace, dignity, and truth will always prevail over bigotry, indecency, and falsehood.
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@Didier We can only hope at this point. Sometimes it takes quite a battle to make it so.
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@Didier
Except that if you are black and President and First Lady of the United States every one notices your color aka race and your "grace, dignity and truth" still makes you separate and unequal.
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@Didier
"Ultimately, grace, dignity, and truth will always prevail over bigotry, indecency, and falsehood.”
Prevail, when?
Unfortunately, not everyone plays fair, and winning allows you to set a lot of the rules. I have to wait eight years for truth to prevail? I would rather have my agenda pushed forward at the expense of less dignified behavior. The Obama’s left a legacy of the Democrats being completely wiped out of elected government, on every level. If that’s the “dignity” I have to live with, no thanks. They had a compulsion to constantly turn the other cheek and play the victim of those, "nasty evil Republican bullies.” Let me play the worlds smallest violin. Welcome to the real world. Where was he the last four years? This great orator could not pull up a single once of of anger, or even effectively refute the most egregious attacks. As a Democrat, he was in a word, pathetic.
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What I miss most about Michelle, was her interactions with her hubby in the White House. There were those times when the President might say something, then look over at Michelle to see if what he said was ok. And once in awhile it wasn't, and one certain look from her would send a very strong message.
A touch of class, that's Michelle.
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As a 73 year old white woman I can’t wait to read her book. It will be a Christmas present.
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“When they go low, we go high.”
I am a 64-year old white woman who finds in Michelle Obama a continual source inspiration for her intellect, class, grace under pressure, candor, adroitness in achieving balance, charisma, leadership, common sense and intelligence in choosing while First Lady two causes that really matter to all Americans (1. you become what you eat, ergo wise choices made in fresh and natural food, and 2. *moving* to get up off the couch and exercise, all go far to helping create a healthful life), and most especially, her courage in withstanding with fortitude and grace and refusal to bow under to the vileness directed against her and her husband in the arena of politics. She will always rank among my favorite and most admired Americans, First Ladies, and I only wish she would consider running for President of the United States.
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@Dr. H
Michelle is the 1st woke brown bad charming beautiful humble and wise First Lady. But she will not be the last. Indeed there will be one like her who will occupy the Oval Office while her brown First Gentleman plays his role.
Make America colored great again.
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I found this article in Michele Obama extremely on point. She was visible at events here in DC working with school children in a garden, alongside volunteers packing essentials for military people, and she made herself heard in the arts as she brought young poets, musicians and artists into the White House and both Michele and Barack told them they could achieve anything! Her time in the White House was a gift to us all. I love the portrait and can’t wait to buy the book.
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Michelle Obama was relatable. She came across as someone one could sit down and have a good chat with, even if your background and hers were vastly different. That is mainly personality, but also skill, i.e., an openness to people - hospitability. I certainly miss her.
Although I have rather neutral feelings about the current First Lady, she comes across as very inaccessible when she is in public. That, too, may be personality (i.e., something she cannot change).
Each 1st Lady suggests to her successor that she is willing to offer advice or an ear. Mrs. Obama's reaction when asked if Malania Trump had contacted her (she has not) was a raised eyebrow. The First Lady's office put out a statement saying that Mrs. Trump gets her advice and input from her staff. Each response was very in character. With her extreme reserve, it is hard to imagine Mrs. Trump ever being truly a part of the First Lady's 'club' after she leaves the White House.
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@Anne-Marie Hislop
We have a First Lady now? Who knew?
Michelle Obama, thank you for your warmth and grace during years in office, and your candor now. Miss you.
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Class, total class, just an amazing person and an inspiration to all.
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