Michael Phelps Made Me Cry (Good Tears)

Aug 10, 2016 · 138 comments
George Deitz (California)
The Olympics reveal that there is such a thing as excellence, even near perfection, in some things. We see so little of excellence in our lives that indeed it is joyful to witness it and know that it exists.
Coco Pazzo (Florence)
Then there was American swimmer Ryan Held, part of the gold medal winning 400 freestyle relay team, sobbing uncontrollably on the victory stand. And his tears triggered similar tears for teammates and those at home!
Rick F. (Jericho, NY)
This reminded of a quote that I think was attributed to former SCJ Hugo Black, which went some like, "When I read the papers in the morning, I first go to the back. Because it is on the sports pages where man's triumphs are celebrated. The front pages only report man's failures."
russ (St. Paul)
Bruni is missing the point: These athletes love their sports and work really, really hard at them.
What deserves a hard look, and unpleasant tears, is the stunningly low value placed on the work and talent of these Olympic athletes.
No one in the IOC bureaucracy goes home without jingle in his jeans. By far, far, far, most athletes leave with nothing but the uniforms they wear, and some of them leave with broken bodies - look at the injury lists; look at the casualties from the cycling races, male and female; look at the financial sacrifices they made just to get on an Olympic team and the years of their lives they devoted to sport and not to building a career.
Who pays the medical bills? Who gives them disability if they are crippled?
Only a very, very few stars like Phelps and Biles make money out of this. No one in the IOC makes any sacrifice as they swan around the world deciding who will be chosen to be the next host.
Susan (Boulder)
What marks the Olympics for this observer is the jingoistic coverage - NBC insists on covering every heat where an American might have a shot at coming in last, when the best of the best are competing in some other event - which might never get mentioned. I'm sure that plays well, but honestly, I'd rather watch the best than simply the Americans. Of the women's gymnastics, we barely saw the other competitors - how are we supposed to "know" that the US team is the best, if we don't see the competition?
Gerry O'Brien (Ottawa, Canada)
Simone Biles is a pleasure and joy to watch. Her floor exercise, vault and balance beam routines were flawless. I know that while her routines appear effortless, this required lots of hard work and practice. I love the fact that she learns new skills and routines in days while it takes years for others to do so.

Simone Biles is a very highly talented, gifted and intelligent gymnast whose contagious joy and comradeship infects everyone.

When she smiles, she makes the birds sing.
Solomon Grundy (The American Shores)
More American jingoism from Mr. Bruni. Using the Olympic success to stir up animosity is not a positive outlook.
Robert Blankenship (Lake Havasu City, Az)
That last paragraph gave me goosebumps
Mary (CT)
I swam at the town pool today, channeling Katie Ledeky and feeling so good o be in the water. Some would laugh at my 100m time, in light of the world records being set in Rio, but it was a great day for a swim for me! I find inspiration in these Olympians.
Avatar (New York)
Mr. Bruni, I'm happy for you that you are able to enjoy the accomplishments of Biles, Phelps, et al. Your paean to sports is moving and while you were moved to tears by what you saw, were you also moved to tears by the plight of the thousands who were made homeless to create these games? Were you saddened by the plight of a fourth place finisher who had trained for years and who didn't medal because a state-sponsored Russian doper who never should have been allowed to compete finished ahead of him/her? Were you angered to the point of tears to see the corruption in the IOC, FINA, the anti-doping agencies and other bodies, the corruption that capitalizes on the talents of legitimate athletes to attract the cash?

Although you do discuss many problems with these games, I would argue that these issues transcend the tearful joy you experienced. For openers, why don't we hold the summer games in one location (say in Greece where it all started) and the winter games in another, and stop the insane bidding and bribing that occur every four years? Could it be because there's less money in it for the IOC and others?
R William (Wisconsin)
I am an older guy who goes to the gym every day and was a good athlete when I was younger and still can do most of it.
I don't waste my time and/or thoughts about that I cannot control and I DO focus on the actual athletic competition which is what the olympics are all about for the athletes.
I am totally enjoying watching the IMPORTANT stuff which is beyond the typical couch potato heroes of the keyboard who have no life so they INVENT something about which to whine.
Because I went through the tough REAL work required to do these things, I love watching and applauding the athletes for their hard work and the absolute joy the express when they win or do a great routine.
Those of you who need to whine about all the other stuff are going to get concussions when your jerked knees hit you in your chins.
Brunella (Brooklyn)
Wondrous is right, I love the Olympics —
cheering and crying along with every dedicated effort and national anthem.
Thank you, Frank Bruni.
Gfagan (PA)
The Olympics are a staggering waste of time and money.
As a bonus, the jingoistic nationalism on display directly contravenes the supposed "Olympic ideal" of coming together and celebrating the brotherhood of nations.
How long before we find out that the winners doped and cheated?
Sorry, Frank, there is a lot to feel cynical about when it comes to the Olympics.
rouquinne (London, Canada)
"Others had worse odds and more daunting setbacks." Mr. Bruni, you just described the Olympic experience that my aunt, Silken Laumann, had in Barcelona in 1992.
As for the frustrations with NBC, I am fortunate to be watching Canadian coverage where I frequently see athletes other than those from my country chase their dreams with fewer commercial interruptions and, so far, no one has suggested that a woman won a gold medal due to the efforts of her husband. Though I was more than a bit annoyed last night at a commentator who said that Michael Phelps "looked tired" after winning his second gold medal in less than hour - ya think!?
Camy Condon (Los Lunas NM Natal Brazil)
Let's hear it for the LANGUAGE of WONDER. Hooray!!!!! Follow the Navajo philosophy........ WALK IN BEAUTY. See the beauty before you toward the sun.
CHANGE what is not ok in YOUR OWN life and fly to toward the stars in your heart with each hummingbird that passes your window! (I live here in NATAL NE Brazil and know the other issues too well.) Camy
Lindentree (Eau Claire, Wisconsin)
I happily cheer for all Olympic competitors and try to keep medal counts by nations in the background. However, the phenomena,l overall performance of US athletes is saying something positive about the country that many politicians fail to reflect. There is plenty os spirit, hope and perseverance. Let's open our doors wide to the young generations.
R (Austin)
Seeing the diverse US women's gymnastic team all together last night as they won I thought -- this is what the USA looks like -- and it looks pretty good, especially in gold!
Ultraliberal (New Jersy)
Beautiful article, but i expected that from you.Only you with your divine spirit can put what i saw last night into the proper words that described the athletes accomplishments.
Susan C. Harris (Greenwich, Connecticut)
Please apologize to those not inspired so as you for the insult at the end. You undid the whole spirit of the piece.
KingCrumbson (Turkamenistan)
Frank Bruni has perfectly captured my thoughts about this years Olympics. I too have seen the stories; the HBO special which showed how toxic the water is and how the Olympic committee force the host nations to treat them like royalty (better than royalty even). I was totally prepared to hate these Olympics...until I watched the opening ceremonies and saw the enthusiasm of the athletes and the spectators and the show. These Brazilians are proud of their nation warts and all and who are we to denigrate that? They should be proud. Yes, the Olympics are corrupt and require reform. Yes Brazil needs to do much more about poverty and inequality and water treatment. But the beauty of the human experience is that those things are not the only things that define us....rather they are things that we can and must rise above.
Rich Crank (Lawrence, KS)
Like the Olympics themselves, Frank's piece made me feel really terrific as I experienced it. Then I started reading comments (starting with the NYT Picks because I didn't have a lot of time at the moment for this) and I was back in the real world, with all its ugliness and pains as well as its beauty and cures.

But it sure was great while it lasted, Frank!
DA (MN)
Good article. Not many people realize how hard it is to get to the Olympic level. Think of the marathon. To train to the level it takes an incredible amount of dedication. Around 60 athletes get invited to the trial. Only three get to go to the Olympics. Fourth place sucks. Each runner has put in massive amounts of time. To be at that level you must teeter on being in shape and being unhealthy. On the edge but not over. It takes years. You can't concentrate on a job if you need 12 hours a day to train. The fourth place person finds themselves in their late twenties and no job.

To the people who say finger wagging is bad. I say not. That swimmer knows how much she has invested. To beat a cheat has got to be the most gratifying thing for her. I don't think I could have restrained myself. Just think about those that have finished second to the cheaters and later get the medal they rightfully should have had. A little gloating is justified.

I love the Olympics.
Curiouser (California)
Tears of joy come too infrequently for most of us. They usually come unexpectedly. They emerge from deep within our souls reminding us that we have one. Those joyful moments in Rio remind me of Alan Jay Lerner’s verse, “Don't let it be forgot, that once there was a spot, for one brief shining moment, that was known as Camelot.” It was a place where the table was round, no head, no foot and the sweet, sweet joy was heaven sent.
Andrew Hidas (Sonoma County, CA)
Frank, a lovely column in every way, a balm for the spirit in troubled times. And every athlete who has ever actually DONE THE WORK thanks you for these lines:

"We tend to marvel at their freakish gifts, but we should marvel even more at their freakish devotion. That’s what made the difference."

As a basketball player of modest gifts who played small college ball in the long ago, I used to marvel at how often people would proclaim, "Oh, of course you're a basketball player—you're so tall!" I surely can't count how many tens of thousands of hours I had spent in gyms and playgrounds up to that point honing whatever gifts I had been bequeathed, but not Michael Jordan, not Simone Biles, nor anyone else has ever gotten one step down the road to excellence without great swaths of "freakish devotion." Along with pure passionate love, of course, for the activity itself, and the many accompanying gifts it brings to one's life.
Jim thinks (MA)
Agreed. The Olympics is a human endeavor and as such, will always be subject to imperfection and commercialism. But it also celebrates extraordinary human endeavor: that "freakish devotion" - the sacrifice of friends, fun and leisure for the painful drudgery of hours and months of repeated practice. The Olympics then allows us to witness, close up, the very best that those special people can wring out of themselves - in a final, public test. And be astonished, touched and inspired by what these committed athletes show us is possible.
CF (Massachusetts)
Then I guess I'm made of stone. There are just too many flaws and too much corruption. Too many commercials. The whole thing is so over-hyped I feel like I'm being conned in some way I can't quite figure out.

Yes, the athletes are stupendous. I'm blown away by the athletic ability I'm witnessing. I smile at the joy of the winners--it must be a truly fantastic feeling. I'm delighted for them. But I know there are many more disappointed losers who worked just as hard for as many years but simply weren't as good; competitors who spent perhaps a little too much time trying and hoping. They will receive no glory, no lucrative endorsement contracts. This always tempers my outlook and my exuberance.

I appreciate the striving and the achievement. But tears and lumps in my throat? Not so much.
Alexander K. (Minnesota)
I don't want to take away anything from the athletes, who have doggedly worked with extreme focus and sacrifice to achieve the best in their sport.

However, I am not watching the Olympics. It is an ugly spectacle. It is evil. The Olympics of today are not that far away from 1936 when Hitler was presiding over it in Berlin trying to assert Aryan superiority. The same primitive tribal impulses are driving the reporting of medal counts. The same propaganda needs drive states like Russia to engage in systemic doping. The Olympics expose the gross inequalities in the world as wealthier nations generally win the medals. Winning athletes are glorified by states and commercial sponsors. Losing athletes who have worked just as hard, but were microseconds behind, don't even qualify as forgotten footnotes.

Olympics is a freak show of worldwide corruption, commercialism, and perverted values. It belongs in the 20th century along with its nationalism and world wars.
hham (dallas)
you made me cry. thanks.
Dee (Delaware)
Love the image of Simon Biles stretched out above the balance beam. Such athleticism.

Why, though, do these women athletes have to wear a costume that gives them a wedgie and gives us a view of half their rear ends? If the sport demanded it, that would be one thing, but look at the men's costumes: cozy trunks. This brings a tear to my eye.
Dee (Delaware)
Of course, I meant Simone!
Sandra (Westport, CT)
Yes, Frank, I wholeheartedly agree. The Olympics provide the stage for millions of people around the world to view the most diverse grouping of awe inspiring athletes. We need to find a better way to host/run the Olympics without spending egregious amount of money and end the corruption. We owe it to the athletes and the people of the hosting country.
robertgeary9 (Portland OR)
Thanks, Mr. B., for focusing on the heart that goes into make an Olympics the Olympics!
Anyone of us who chose "teaching" for a career realize that potential tends to be the key, after hard work, to reach "success". For example,
Michael Phelps deserves our attention and praise.
The dark side of the Games may also challenge us; after all, such atrocities as doping deserve to be hit on.
Bravo/Brava to the Committee that gave us this ruling.
John LeBaron (MA)
The following NY Times image of the Muslim American fencer particularly caught my attention:
https://static01.nyt.com/images/2016/08/09/sports/09FENCINGweb/09FENCING...

The Olympics, a fencer competing for her country, a mask, an American flag and a hijab: should we track her daily and snoop on her mosque, Mr Trump? After she competes for America in Rio, should we deny her re-entry to the homeland? Hello? Mr. Trump, are you home? (Nope, nobody there.)

www.endthemadnessnow.org
Vanessa (Brooklyn)
I've loved the Olympics ever since I was a little girl. I do often sit and watch sports on television, but when the Olympics roles around I very much want to. Want to watch sports. Which is why I am dismayed with NBC's conscious, articulated strategy of presenting a sitcom story. They have said, publicly, that they are not presenting a sports broadcast because more women than men watch, and women care more about the narrative than the results. That is why they didn't show Simone's floor score, or the gymnastics event live. That is why everything is so polished, and buttoned up -- the rivalries they are presenting between swimmers, and the way events edit out other competitors. They are not presenting a sporting event, but a sitcom, because they think women wouldn't enjoy the Olympics as sport. This is infuriating, and it's what we should be talking about. (Though I like your overall sentiment and am happy you lost the cynicism the media generated for us to feel.)
Tannhauser (Venusberg, Germany)
The Brazilian National Anthem sung as a low key ballad by Paulinho da Viola on acoustic guitar, accompanied by a small string orchestra, brought tears to my eyes. If you haven't seen it, it is on YouTube.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E5s_t6ZxTnU

Not only was it beautiful. The words made sense. Brazil, an intense dream, a vivid ray of love and hope descends to Earth. ("Brasil, um sonho intenso, um raio vívido / De amor e de esperança à terra desce") YES!!!!!

Try that with the Star Spangled Banner.

Wednesday, August 10, 2016, 10:40.
Irene (Ct.)
What an excellent column. I have forwarded this on to my cynical friends who have no interest in the Olympics and think they should do away with it altogether. I have everything on tape and fast forward the commentators and commercials making it wonderful to watch.
Steve (New York)
There are fireman, policeman, teachers, and many others in low paying occupations who actually do things that benefit their fellow citizens.
Apart from giving us someone to route for, what have the olympians done? As far as I can see, all Michael Phelps has done with his life is swim, get drunk, and father a child out of wedlock. If anyone can show me what any of these things have done to improve the world even one iota, please do so.
NTNS (Pine Knoll Shores, NC)
Thank you for this great article. Something positive & joyful to enjoy amidst our world's turmoil. Of course the Olympics & the personal stories, but also your article, brings us happy tears.
Christine Houston (Hong Kong/NY)
As I've watched the many Americans of every color and background win at the Olympics I was reminded (again!) of how Donald Trump has sold us short. He keeps hammering away that he is going to "make America great again" as if to suggest we are not great. I'm an American who has lived in Asia for many years. Most of my non-American friends here have studied, lived or worked in the US and are aghast. To most of them, the US represents the definition of "great". No, not perfect by any means but a union pf people who believe that "better" is always possible...whether that be in terms of one's own life or government. I hope that we all ensurenit remains so.
bstar (Baltimore, MD)
Personally, I would laud Katie Ledecky over Michael Phelps at the moment. She shows grace and good sportsmanship at every turn. Leave the finger wagging at home, if you ask me. Top athletes don't need to be the judges of the pool. I loved his swimming, but I didn't like his gestures. Ledecky is Maryland's brightest light at these Olympics, if you ask me.
John D (San Diego)
Yes, I always cry at massively hyped professional sporting events, too. I wouldn't want to be accused of having a "heart of stone" by a progressive columnist. And now, back to trashing the Republican Party, Mr. Bruni.
Kim Oler (Huntington, NY)
This is a beautiful statement. I cried at the opening ceremonies too. I had not planned to watch. But I joined my wife along the way, just for a few seconds. Seconds that turned to nearly an hour. The news from Rio-- between Zika, corrupt officials and everything in between -- had predictably hardened my cynicism. But there was something about the simplicity of the production...Minimal digital extravaganzas kept the cameras focused on the people dancing on the big floor of the arena, the athletes walking in procession, the dancers. Not all slick and thank heaven. Their sheer joy was balm, manna. The arena got built (who'd have thunk based on our news reports?) The athletes arrived, and started competing. The people of Rio couldn't helpt giving us their best. And I just marveled at peoples' ability to rise above. Thank you, Rio.
Kayleigh73 (Raleigh)
Because I care about these wonderful athletes, I've forced myself to watch hours of commercials and commentators punctuated with some great moments of young athletes displaying the efforts of tremendous work and dedication. However, the coverage is so centered on Anerican athletes, particularly the stars, that we miss seeing more of the other competitors. Minutes spent watching the American gymnasts waiting their turn could have been spent showing more of the women from other nations demonstrate their hard work.

Michael Phelps is, without a doubt, a great swimmer but he did not win those relay races alone and the contribution of the other three members of the teams was downplayed. And we could really deal with fewer instances of "how did it feel to win that race?" asked to an athlete out of breath from finishing a grueling event.

By the way, has anyone seen coverage of the Paralympics where the competitors are accomplishing great athletic feats despite even more challenges than Pelps and Biles?
Mel snyder (Stoneham, MA)
Frank, you didn't weep alone for the amazement and joy of what we were watching. For all that is wrong in American society - and you've done well in responsibly surfacing that - the Olympics show how much is really right, too.

I would like to extend the cause for joyous weeping to refugee team swimmer Yusra Mardini. Syrian Mardini and her sister Sarah swam for nearly 3 hours in icy waters to pull the dinghy with 17 other Syrian refugees to the Greek Island of Lesbos after the dinghy engine quit in the middle of the night. A German swimming club recognized her skills, referred her to the UN group forming a refugee team - and Yusra actually won her heat in the 100 yard butterfly, even though subsequently eliminated.

In coming days. I am sure we will be moved to tears by others, surely many in the upcoming Paralympics. What is sad in our society is that more than 3000 have commented on Trump's seditious suggestion that gun advocates may have a Second amendment answer to a Clinton victory, and just 3 comments on your more aspirational op-ed.
Dr. Bob Solomon (Edmonton, Canada)
The brightest guys in my fantastic high school devoted their free moments to labs as 13 year-olds, or Russian novels (I confess), or language study or music or art. Many missed out a bit on sports or girls then and perhaps in university afterward. Luckier ones found balance soon. It was normal.

Several devoted their time only to sports or dating or designing better hot rods. Eventually, most became well-rounded individuals. So too with the Olympians, of whom the school had several members, too. One dropout became the comic genius Bill Cosby, another Archie Bunker's neighbor Mr. Jefferson, a third a USN chaplain with several degrees and 2 marksmanship medals - psychiatrists, brain surgeons, doctors, lawyers, professors, tycoons, and plain Joes with gaggles of grandkids.
But at some time, most profited from a whirling Dervish concentration that seemed abnormal to Mom or Gramps. For some it was disabling. But it is, for young people, normal to learn the skills - focus, perseverance, and limitless joy at excellence. Like Bruni, and John Donne, all also learn that, in tasting joys and even sorrows "no man is an island entire unto himself". We are part of a whole that is bigger than any great individual's medals and money. Bigger than racial definitions. Bigger than nationalities. Bigger than species. Life has such possibilities to acknowledge. In the words of the poet-philosopher, "You go, girl." Or guy or senior runner. Thanks, Bruni. I teared up, too.
Matt (NJ)
I cry for the enormous corruption and waste that has become the Olympic movement. The only beneficiaries are the advertising industry and the insiders who suck dry the hosting cities and their people.
Anuska (Columbia, MD)
Chill out, man. What you say is partly true but you are missing completely the other side of the coin. The Olympics are a triumph of the human spirit. As Mr Blow explains so wonderfully, the Games show the possibility of pursuing your goals, the amount of effort some are capable of to achieve their dreams. Win or lose the example of those athletes inspires us. Their mastery fills us with enthusiasm and wonder. Their triumph, their pride is our own. Each performance becomes an emotional and spiritual experience. I confess I cried buckets too. Go USA!
Samsara (The West)
When he was in the eighth grade my son was the junior swimming champion of his state and was urged to work toward the Olympics.

It was a momentous choice and had to be his, although his family stood by to support him, talk with him and share their own insights.

After months of reflection, he decided against Olympic training because he would essentially have to give up a normal life for years, chasing a goal that might in the end prove unattainable.

I remember his saying, that, even if he won a gold medal in the end, he didn't believe it would be worth sacrificing years of the experiences his friends would have, just ordinary things like hiking and camping and playing baseball in the park.

Many people thought it was a very bad decision, one he would regret for the rest of his life, that he had turned his back on a chance for greatness.

We thought he was pretty amazing, sensible and wise beyond his years.

Thirty years later he is a very happy man who has created a life that allows him to engage in the activities he loves most -- hiking, camping, fly fishing, skiing and photography -- to an extent most of us only dream about.

A single man with many friends and much love in his life, he doesn't have a "career," but works hard and well to support his outdoor activities.

Many would consider him a failure or at least a man sadly lacking in ambition.

I think he is one of the most genuinely "successful" persons I have ever met.
Maureen (boston, MA)
the Olympics are not about the medals. the games are about uniting the world. Syrian refugee Yusra Mardini's 1st place in her heat and 41st overall fulfilled the refugee dream that they can make a difference. Ms. Mardini, her sister and another woman saved 20 lives by pushing their dinghy to shore in true Olympic spirit like Kip Keino who ran through the hills and helped orphans after retiring. Kip Keino is one of the greatest Olympians and so is Ms. Mardini and her 9 refugee teammates. Kip Keino was awarded the first Olympic Laurel recognition at the Opening ceremony. Let's strive to earn Olympic humanitarian recognition.
Dee (WNY)
The physical beauty of the US gymnastics team is astounding - their faces and their bodies. They have real beauty that reflects the diversity of America and the confidence, strength and pride of young women who work hard and love what they are doing.
Giselle whats-her-name can't come close.
Marathonwoman (Surry, Maine)
I contrast the behavior of the terrific Simone Biles and her team with the arrogant strutting and finger-wagging of swimmer Lilly King. The gymnasts truly represent the Olympic ideals.
Bsheresq (Yonkers, NY)
Lilly King was calling out a doper, and was absolutely right to do so!
SIR (BROOKLYN, NY)
Or even Phelp's gesturing to the crowd to applaud louder. Really?
just Robert (Colorado)
After watching the brutal irresponsible Donald The Olympics with their hope for the future and striving young people make a riveting contrast.

Perhaps we old folks need to get out of the way and cheer the next generations on.
Jett Rink (lafayette, la)
Thank you, Frank. The message I take away from these dedicated you people is, if you can do more or be better, don't let anything stop you. That's a message most of us could benefit from and could be applied to any endeavor not matter what your field of expertise.
Smknc (<br/>)
On the money. One sits there, eyes wide, mouth agape, going "how in the world did they just do that!". Or watching Phelps or Ledecky come from slightly behind and turn on the afterburners to pull off the win. And while we/I instinctively pull for the Americans, it's ALL of the athletes. I think your comment "the only way to know if they could get it was to put everything on the line" should be an inspiration to everyone with a passion. Fun stuff!
Bill (Ohio)
Well-written Frank Bruni, as usual. I thought when I cry watching some of these olympic feats it was because I'm 75 and prone to cry easily. I even tear up trying to sing the Star Spangled Banner at hockey games. Thanks for capturing the reality of the ups and downs of training and competing, but you nailed it with, "limits are entirely negotiable." We spectators could learn some lessons of our own for sure.
Nancy Rockford (Illinois)
Thank you Frank, nice!
Ruthie (Peekskill/Cortlandt, NY)
I agree! This has been "HAPPY TV". For two weeks, we get to watch something life affirming, other than the garbage spewing from ALL corners, in this election year depression-fest. Turn it on. Leave it. It's fun. Get over your negative self!!
Stuart (Chicago)
I'm with you, Frank, but I see something more. I'm streaming, rather than watching NBC's broadcast, and I'm marveling at all those people who never get prime time? Their pride, winning just by competing at that level, is awesome. They smile because they represent their nations to the world; they inspire by simply doing their best.
Daniel Salazar (Campinas Brazil)
Dear Mr Bruni,

Too bad you had to ruin an uplifting commentary by jumping on the American brazil bashing bandwagon. I am an american living in Brazil. I visited Rio on 4th of July weekend. It is beautiful and does have problems. By why not lay off already? I think americans would do well to remove the from their eyes before the splinter in others. Have you forgotten the problems in South Chicago, the pollution in Flint Michigan or the corruption, still un-prosecuted, that led to the Iraq war? You may say I am missing the point of your story but also the amny Brazilians who worked hard for years to create these olympic games deserve praise and for doing with the hurdles mentioned. Last fact, Brazil has never declared war on another nation. What other country can make that claim?
Robert in Brasil (Brasil)
Switzerland, Costa Rica...
Typical Ohio Liberal (Columbus, Ohio)
The Olympics are a stunning example of the complexity of this world. There are so many reasons to hate them and so many to love them. They are a well packaged example of the greatness and the weakness of the human race. They are a display of greed and selflessness, arrogance and confidence, of compulsiveness and determination, and of nearly every other human trait and it's antonym. I personally love the Olympics and would love to see them reduce their worst excesses so we can spend our time talking about how amazing the human species can be when it is at its best.
John MD (NJ)
Frank,
What turns us to stone is the constant relentless commercialism accompanied by the irritatingly trite announcers who must turn every contestant into a triumphant hero over adversity and then ask the same stupid question over and over. "How do you feel after winning the _____ medal?" Can you all please just shut up and let us watch?
Paul (Chicago, IL)
Childish tears. All of these people you speak of have been treated like Gods and Goddesses since someone realized their physical abilities. Some may have had a tough start to life, but that went away. Now you have countries spending billions on athletes who while they make some personal sacrifices actually live a pretty goo life because they have mastered a four inch wide beam, or can swim fast, or kick or ball or whatever. These are the people that we are told we should idolize by the media who gives us the hard side of their background. I truly doubt the swimmer from Winnetka IL has had any downside in his life. He attended New Trier High School (one of the best in the state) or a private school and 20 members of his family went to Rio with him.
Winning medals is nice, but none of them are true amateurs. they are all paid athletes and are being used by their countries to prove to the world that nation is best.
Karen Jesaitis (Milford, PA)
Bravo, Frank Bruni!
John Smith (Cherry Hill NJ)
OLYMPIC GAMES Give we mere mortals the opportunity to see athletes performing at the acme of their skills in each of their sports. It is awesome, requires great determination, drive and sacrifice to train for, leave alone be admitted to olympic competition. Each athlete is an artist generating the best version of whatever sport is the chosen specialization. The ancient Greeks must have viewed the first olympics in Katakolon as an opportunity to experience catharsis, as in viewing the great pageant and drama of the games. So I think that Frank Bruni, along with the rest of us, honor the spirit of today's and the first olympic games by having the capacity to be deeply moved and to experience the cleansing cathartic effects of the drama played out so many times there.
hen3ry (New York)
While I don't like the ads, the fact that the commentators seem unable to shut up and let us enjoy the marvelous, or even not so marvelous performances of the athletes, I do appreciate the fact that these athletes, whether they win medals or not, have worked quite hard to get to Rio. But Mr. Bruni is skating over the fact that for many nations, ours included, the Olympics are another way to fight wars, to prove that we are the best, and to disparage other countries. They may not have started out that way but the pomp and grandiosity that began with Hitler's Germany has survived. Perhaps if I didn't know about how many host cities wind up losing money I would be more impressed. This reader thinks it's time to have the Olympics, winter or summer, in one place.
ACJ (Chicago)
My concern always with elite athletes is the lost of balance in one's life that is solely committed to one physical and intellectual function. Phelps is an excellent example of a young man looking for meaning beyond the pool. I truly admire what these athletes have achieved, but, wish, along the way, room was made for activities and interests that they will need when the pool or the balancing beam are no longer in their lives.
JMM. (Ballston Lake, NY)
When I watched "our" gymnasts win gold so handily I noticed what a contrast these ambassadors were to our GOP nominee. This team really represents my country. Two African Americans, one Hispanic and one of Jewish religion. The coach is from Romania. The interview with Bob Costa demonstrated a team that appreciated everyone's contribution. No bragging. After months of Trump Trash, 5 teenagers made me remember who we are and not what others say we shouldn't be.

I had also just come back from a family reunion in Canada where my relatives are agast and frankly frightened by Trump and his supporters. I told them not to worry. While the GOP can't stop this maniac, the American electorate will not tolerate this man representing us one world stage.
Don Shipp, (Homestead Florida)
The demographic diversity, and obvious chemistry of the "Final Five",is a celebration of American pluralism and the perfect refutation for the demagogic rhetoric of intolerance, permeating the presidential campaign.
gowan mcavity (bedford, ny)
Thank you, Mr. Bruni. You have articulated my experience. I had been sucked into that Vortex of cynicism and anticipated a disaster. You may even say, I regretfully realize now, that I looked forward to it. But what I have witnessed, those fresh faces testing their limits and exceeding them in performances that can only be described as triumphs of the human spirit, dashed my cynicism to dust before them. All the arguments about exploitation and disaster suddenly rang hollow. I was left in awe of their determination and exquisite execution of talents and skills that defy words, really. I was left with a lump in my throat, a tear in my eye and was suddenly proud to be human again.
LP (Vancouver)
True! It's nice to drop all of the pessimism and suspicion for a little while and enjoy what most of these athletes have accomplished.
However, I'm not so keen on one teenager who has likely known nothing but positive, healthy reinforcement and love call out others who have known nothing but a crooked, doped up system and bad coaches their whole lives. Where are they supposed to go?? That's why the entire system is at fault.
Watching the American sprinter next week? Please, will the Americans wag their finger at him at the start line? It's this kind of hypocrisy that makes watching so frustrating. Best to stick to the sports where there is little money and little chance of doping. Hmm...
The cat in the hat (USA)
Oh please. The Russians are the ones ruining things not us.
pg (long island, ny)
You capture the fundamental issue of the spectacle of the games. They are wonderful spectacle, include astonishing displays of grit, guile, skill and artistry; but are brought to us by a business process that is corrupt and leaves a wake of debris for host countries to absorb. I'd like to see an essay getting into this dilemma.
RDA in Armonk (NY)
I wasn't going to watch the Olympics because of its recent negative notoriety. But how can you *not* watch -- it's the most exciting show on earth.
Stuart (Boston)
Your beautiful piece almost makes me forget the months of negative coverage of Rio de Janiero by the very opinionated and scolding press. One can only imagine the challenges to such developing countries when we have arrested their development to meet global fossil fuel targets.
white tea drinker (marin county)
Yes I get misty watching these amazing athletes, tangle of corruption, incompetence and avarice aside.
I would prefer have the same number of scientists and scholars receive an intensity of lionization and compensation that remotely approaches that given athletes.
R (Kansas)
I have to admit that every four years as the Olympics approaches, I wonder why we have this event that wastes money and displaces people. Then, I watch the Olympics and I tear up at the performances. I wonder if we can have this great event without selling our souls to have it.
dEs JoHnson (Forest Hills)
Marvel at Michael Phelps? He is the antithesis of the Olympic spirit. He's been trained and fed like a race-horse for years. While preparing for competition, he consumes more protein at one breakfast that most families get in a week.

There are wonderful examples of the Olympic spirit, but few Americans measure up to it, with the resources put at their disposal and the line of corporations offering sponsorship. Nationalistic and materialistic nonsense!
Shane (Orlando)
Biles is an inspiration, but let's not forget that there are tons of athletes in Rio now who are going back to impoverished and in some instances, repressive countries with inadequate institutions.
GH (San Diego)
I'm unimpressed.

I know something of the feeling of achieving some spectacular feat, like if I ride my bike a hundred miles. But that's purely a personal feeling, and gone almost as soon as it arrives.

And so what. It is personal. I don't expect any adulation or congratulation for what I've done. After all, I haven't cured cancer, brought about world peace, or created a better mouse trap. The world is not a better place for my having done what I did, and regardless of what my ego tells me, I am not a better person.

And so the story of the Olympics. Many compete, a few win; whee. And to all of us who are nonparticipants, this all means… what, exactly? I don't mind competitors feeling good about their performances. But when it becomes obligatory to shower these participants with adulation, to construct enormously expensive venues for their entertainment-performance spectacles, to support their existence and their wannabe-stablemates as professional amateurs, and most of all, to attribute some meaning or value to their performances beyond the purely personal… well, let's just say that I'm unimpressed.
JP (Southampton MA)
I also cry over the Olympics, because they represent the distorted value system that we have been conditioned to embrace.

The athletic triumphs Mr. Bruni mentioned move us all, because it is wonderful to witness excellence in any field. But by what metric do we measure human accomplishment? Can we overlook that billions of dollars were spent to create venues in which super-rich "amateur" athletes provide advertisers the world over with mass audiences to whom they can peddle their wares, while in the shadows of the sports palaces, people are living in unspeakable squalor? I cry for the poor people who triumph by being able to survive one more miserable day, their muted pleas for relief being drowned out by the delirium of fans who paid more to attend a sporting event than most people of the surrounding slums earn over several years.

And what about the impact the Olympics have on the environment? How much pollution has been pumped into the air as thousands of people flock needlessly to Brazil from distant points. Oh sure, it means more money for airlines, hotels, restaurants and shopping malls, but at what cost to our fragile globe?

I am not a cynic. I want to celebrate human triumph. However, to me, the purity of athletics has been corrupted to the point that they are more important in our schools than art and music, as well as other areas in which children can triumph.

The Olympics, as well as every other exaggerated homage to sports, is grotesque.
Rick F. (Jericho, NY)
Not a cynic?
Gerry (Park City, Utah)
Nice piece Mr. Bruni. What's next? A nice dog story. Everybody loves a dog story.
Jeannine Melly (New York, NY)
Thank you Frank for a wonderful opinion. Helps to keep the perspective.
Kate (Toronto)
I guess Mr. Bruni is actually at the Olympics? Not stuck at home listening to the drama orchestrated by NBC over Chad Le Clos vs. Phelps or watching gymnastics on a 6-hour tape delay? Hearing the commentators ask inane questions of athletes who can barely catch their breath? Or watching the heart-wrenching stories set to swelling music?
The Olympics are an attempt at money making by the host city/country which usually fails.(Montreal took 40 years to pay off its Olympic debt) Half the athletes are professionals (see tennis, golf, swimming). Doping, as we have seen, this year, is rampant.
That, Mr. Bruni, is why I'm cynical.
KG (Durham)
Bravo Frank. Well said. There's nothing all good and all bad in this world. There are hundreds, thousands of stories in these Olympics, most of which we will never know. Great job refocusing some of the public on the good that is here.
Gerald (NH)
You're absolutely correct, Mr. Bruni, to celebrate the thrill of the Olympics. I watched the Men's Epee final between 41-year-old Geza Imre from Hungary and Sangyoung Park from Korea, a mere 20-year-old. Imre won his first Olympic medal in 1996. Epee fencing is unusual in this respect, in that the competitive age window is greatly extended. You still have to be very fit but it's also a game of mental chess and experience can count for a lot. In this case, Imre's experience failed him in what was a magnificent bout. But what a thrill to watch these two Olympians, twenty one years apart, duel for the gold,
Karekin (USA)
The mere fact that almost every nation in the world is competing in Rio, in a civilized way, without anger, distrust or fear is the world we all want to live in. The opening night parade of nations and party shows that it's entirely possible, if only politicians, military men and religious 'leaders' would get out of the way and allow human beings to see and appreciate each other as human beings.
Sloane (New York)
With the sad exception of the boxer from Syria, who refused to compete with the fighter from Israel. Metaphors, anyone?
JP (Southampton MA)
Nations are not competing. Individual athletes are competing. What a gold medal for an American athlete has to do with patriotism, or national pride, eludes me - otherwise we should also feel a sense of shame and despair each time an American athlete is bested by an competitor from another country - especially those among us who insist that we are the only great country in the world.
G. James (NW Connecticut)
Well done Frank. You missed mentioning one thing: the athletes of other countries congratulating the American medal winners, and the American athletes congratulating the athletes form other countries that triumphed over them. For one shining moment, our representatives can meet on the field of play, secure in the knowledge that they all share the dedication and drive to win, and yes they are competitors, but like the members of a profession (and let's be honest, they are amateurs in name only) that they are they are also brothers and sisters.
French (nyc)
I agree with the letter writer about the Olympics, which offer a spectacle of the beautiful human form and its marvelous capabilities. we celebrate our humanity in all its glory; we treasure being alive, which puts light into the current darkness of human greed, violence, and intolerance.
if you watched the women's cycling race -- it was a nail biting finish. More intense than watching the ninth inning with two outs and two strikes, because of the risks and stamina involved. The American Mora Abbott (?) led the pack ALL the way into the final SECONDS and was overrun by three riders who claimed gold, silver, bronze medals. Earlier the rider from the Netherlands crashed so violently, it left your heart sinking. More news about this race, please.
bill (WI)
Thank you, Frank. And thanks to the athletes. Of course our American team. But all the competitors deserve our admiration and awe.

You put our feelings into words as well as anyone could, Mr. Bruni.
Chris (Berlin)
I'm happy for Mr.Bruni's emotional response, but his notion "Don’t tell me what’s wrong with the Olympics." is thoroughly misguided.

Before globalization, hosting Olympic Games was a good way of bringing international caliber athletes together to compete across a wide range of sports. Today, however, international competitions occur routinely.
Due to the high costs of infrastructure and heightened security concerns, it is no longer cost efficient to host the games.
The concept of national identity is less clear so that we have nations represented by athletes who often have a tenuous connection with that country at best.
Poorer countries have limited resources for their athletes and therefore powerful and rich countries have an undue advantage before they even get to the Olympics, highlighting the inequalities around the globe.
The Olympics do not result in much long term business development or long term economic development, only short term with high longterm environmental costs.

None of this diminishes the amazing physical and mental performances of these athletes and we should all applaud them.

But in the end, the Olympic Games are nothing but an extension of the time-tested, reliable concept of Bread and Circus to keep the masses in line, the gladiators replaced with athletes used to distract the entire world with a giant circus.
Who cares about rebel factions killing each other in Syria, illegal drone wars, election rigging etc. when you can leave reality for a while.
Julian (MA)
Bravo, Mr. Bruni, well said. For a moment at least the Olympics manage to counterbalance some of the ugliness emanating from our current politics.
Maria (Melbourne, Australia)
This column made me cry today, too. Thank you for a beautiful tribute to the hard-working athletes.
OldInlet (Manhattan)
You captured my feelings exactly. I was cynical about these Olympics until I started watching them.
David (Liederman)
In a world awash in hatred, stupidity, doom and gloom, no one can tell me watching Phelps getting his 20th gold medal didn't make you proud to be an American and bask, just a bit, in his accomplishment.
Helen (chicago)
The most intertesting and emotional moments of these Olympic Games
have not come from Phelps, Biles or any of the Americans competing in headline sports. Yes, these athletes have worked hard for years. They have also enjoyed every possible advantage and support for their training.
I much prefer the competitors in the so-called minor sports (which aren't really so minor) like fencing, air rifle, judo, etc. There is no money in these sports, no lucrative sponsorships, no world-wide name recognition. These athletes work just as hard and long as the famous ones, but have to do it on a shoestring. When they cry with emotion after a medal, it incredibly moving.
tagger (Punta del Este, Uruguay)
Well said Mr. Bruni. But let's not forget those other athletes who compete. Those who do no win medals but nevertheless devote themselves to their passion. Those who train hard. Those who also dream.
Nathan (Chicago)
These Olympians are wonderful examples of what makes America great, now.
Nan Socolow (West Palm Beach, FL)
The Olympics are and always have been the "language of wonder", but NBC, by delaying the results and actual events themselves in real time have done a disservice to those who thrill to see the forces of will and victories of the athletes. Simone Biles is an earth-angel! Greed and tackiness are the hallmarks of NBC sports coverage. These Cable TV people are made of stone and money-lust. while we, the Olympics-lovers, watch the awfully delayed procedures of magnificent feats of will and strength by all the Olympic athletes. For shame, NBC!
Fabrice (Montpellier)
Thanks Frank! I've been waiting for someone to stop the Rio bashing to remind us of what the Olympics are all about. Surrounded by the glum news of US election, tragedy in Syria, Turkey and the Middle East - the Olympics serve as a poignant reminder of human potential when put to good. Thanks for reminding us of that!
Robert Gidel (Orlando, Florida)
For all of us who watch these young people sacrifice so much to achieve their personal goals, we as Americans get to share in their challenges and success. We are blessed to be able to be watch and learn and grow from the experience of these wonderful athletes and humans.
Anne (Washington DC)
I wish I could share these sentiments. Engou However, it seems to me that the "more and better" drive over the course of the century-long run of modern Olympics has produced increasingly inhuman results.

My eye registers the physiques of many athletes as distorted and wonders about the mental health of those who possess the single-minded focus necessary to build these muscles (or possible drug use). I remember feeling as you now do when seeing Bruce Jenner win the Decathalon 1976. I now wonder about the mental turmoil that might have been central to his will to win. Finally, the French gymnast who smashed her leg did so when executing a move that few can do and is apparently unsafe for most to try.

Enough, already.
Anne Etra (Richmond Hill, NY)
Yes!
Watching Michael Phelps power through the water is a joy to behold.
And when he takes one for the team in the relay...
Thrilling!
marianne (nyc)
beautiful
Chris Gibbs (Fanwood, NJ)
What a lovely column. I glad you'e having such a fine experience. I haven't watched an Olympics in over 30 years. The last time I did, I held a stopwatch and timed the presentation of actual athletic events, trials, heats, whatevers, and compared that time with time devoted to interviews, up-closes of athletes, their moms, their coaches, their hair dressers, oh, and the commercials. In any given hour, you could get about ten minutes of Olympics, which were as wonderful as what you describe here. But I just don't have the patience anymore to sit through all the rest of it.
Julie (Fayetteville, AR)
Don't forget the Syrian swimmer on the Refugee team who trained while bombs fell on the pool!
DAM1 (Acton, MA)
Thanks for helping redirect our gaze toward the deserving good of the Olympic athletes. In a season of negativism, it's wonderful to be reminded of the positives in this life.
Robert in Brasil (Brasil)
There is a lot wrong with the Olympics, but you hit the right notes on the emotion the competition can stir up. I have avoided Rio for all the right reasons of crowds, transport problems, lines... but the Games themselves do have a spirit that go beyond and make it worthwhile, at least for the moment. Rio/Brasil will have to live with the aftermath of reckless spending in a country that needs so much more than sports venues.
It must be an incredible moment for any athlete to participate.
Cathy (Hopewell Junction NY)
The athletes are amazing, and their achievements stunning, In gymnastics, even beautiful.

But is so hard to find any of that through the miasma of grade-A cloyingly sweet corn syrup fed to us by NBC, as they focus on the American who took fourth place and ignore the medalists. And wondering who might pick up dysentery takes a little of the joy out of watching.

I can't help but being in awe of the athletes.... but they are in danger of getting lost in the weeds in what seems to be an international forum for both petty and massive corruption and incompetence. And that is a shame.
Peter (Metro Boston)
The other night during a swimming event NBC's announcers talked only about the American woman who finished eighth out of eight after her heat ended. Not a word about the qualifiers from other countries.

The persistent jingoism in American coverage of the Olympics makes it hard for me to watch the event. I also tire of the celebration of the athlete in American culture while so little attention is paid to writers, artists, scientists, or educators.
Jay (Richmond, VA)
This truly is the best of times - thank you for this lovely article.
MitiG (East Coast)
Mr. Bruni, as always, enjoyed reading your article!

Ellie Downie, British gymnast, kept on going despite of her head injury. Why? She knew she had to do it for her teammates and her country.

I wish if only Donald Trump/the GOP had the same feelings about their country!
Steve (Washington, DC)
I agree completely about the women's gymnastics team--I wept at who they are and what they accomplished. They were wonderful in every way. And I, too, weep for the great devotion displayed by so many. But Phelps is still a very poor winner, lacking in good sportsmanship, lacking in humility, and an embarrassment as a person. It is a shame that he has not grown up beyond that pathetic level.
Jeanne (<br/>)
Wow, harsh words about the greatest swimmer--and, many would say, Olympian--of all time. As of this writing, 25 medals: 21 gold, 2 silver, 2 bronze. On what basis do you call him a 'poor winner' or 'lacking' in good sportsmanship and humility? He's a tough competitor who trains long and hard--and has done so for over half his life--and deserves to celebrate his successes. (And, last night, he congratulated the swimmer, Chad LeClos who had been taunting him mercilessly in the lead-up to 200m butterfly.) But an embarrassment as a person? I think he's made his way through the glare of an unforgiving 16-year long spotlight pretty damn well. He would be the very first to admit that he's made some mistakes along the way, but he's in a good place now: more humble, more grateful, and swimming better than ever. An embarrassment as a person? I'd be incredibly proud to call him my son, brother, partner, friend.
Terence Gaffney (Jamaica Plain)
I wish my fellow citizens in Boston had understood this. The outcome for our Olympic bid might have been different. Instead, the Olympics will go to cities with more heart.
Marlene Shifrin (NYC)
Oh, Frank. You've done it again. Written with beauty and heartfelt emotion. And you've been doing this for months, whether about politicians or social injustice; taken us to the precarious balance beam and back. Thank you.
Roberto Fantechi (Florentine Hills)
And what about that young brasilan lady from "The city of God" favela in Rio that won gold in judoke? A network had a report from where she grew up and the proud extended family that was, is, behind her.....I am choking up as I just type this......
Don Shipp, (Homestead Florida)
Olympic competition comes down to the truth of the infinite moment. All the laps, All the miles. All the repetitions. All the pressure. It is the ultimate reduction and metaphor for the striving of the human spirit. The tears we all shed are a sublime recognition of the evanescent nature of that triumph and pure joy.
Miss Ley (New York)
'They are not with it' from a friend in London last evening. Wot? The British Team, she added. I was reading about the latest U.S. political turmoil in her absence, while she was referring to the Olympics.

Congratulations to the extraordinary Miss Biles and our Gymnastics team. It is not only a matter of national pride but how you have lifted many of our spirits during these troubled times. What is your secret?, I would ask, and not only does this American remain astonished by all your championship work, but you have the most wonderful smile.

Thank you. You did better than good and gold.
David Henry (Concord)
Really? The modern Olympic spectacle is a far cry from the Greek ideal, obviously.

TV coverage is terrible, endless commercials for products and personalities, the Today Show on steroids.

And no one knows what athletes are on drugs or not.
William Zepeda (Arkansas)
Your story told exactly how I feel, thanks for putting it to words. It's a shame there is so much negativity and viciousness in our country alone. It makes me sad that there is so much hate and ignorance. There are so many that are so wound up inside themselves that cannot make room for even a little sensitivity toward those in need and those who reach for the stars. I am so proud of our Olympians and all who strove for that goal. I am proud to be American and love my country with all her faults! Thank You Frank Bruni for putting how I feel to words.
Gary Cohen (Great Neck, NY)
Hard to get that excited about an event that has become so driven by corporate interests and a telecast that is more about glorifying the United States then competition. Frank get a hold on yourself.
sarai (ny, ny)
Don't have a TV so have seen some of the events on my computer. The drive of corporate interests could never 'compete' with the drive of the individual athletes. Every nation glorifies its winners. Twenty, thirty years ago and more most winners were not American and these were duly the focus of our newscasts. Now we have more stars, amazingly so as other countries provide a lot more support for their Olympians than we do. It's reasonable to criticize the telecast, if deserved, but this doesn't diminish the thrill and pride one feels in the accomplishments of our medalists, some of the former firsts in Olympic history. And in the case of Biles she rose to victory in the face of serious personal obstacles.A superheroine! Thank you Mr Bruni for a sincere heartfelt column.
Freespirit (Blowin In The Wind)
Right on!
bob west (florida)
When Miss Biles flew through the air I was looking for a puppet master pulling her strings. All of these little bees are wonderful. American, Chinese, just heart warming. Equally so the swimmers1 The young lady who is so focused on her skills she doesn't have time to learn to drive! What kind of 19 year old is this? LOL. Renewed faith in humanity!
Dana (Santa Monica)
I love the olympics! Not the awful tv coverage and the soap opera like introductions to each event - but the pure thrill of the competition. I sit in awe watching these younger than me people who have devoted their lives for this moment. I share their joys and upsets and thank them for inspiring my own children to want to achieve. And I definitely do not begrudge any of these accomplished athletes from trying to make a buck off their success - I can't even imagine the actual costs it took them and their families to get to this point.
Cheryl (Yorktown)
Despite all that is wrong - all of the vultures who gather in greater and greater numbers at each successive Olympics, I remain a sucker for the heartfelt performances and in witnessing the extraordinary accomplishments of the competitors. Its an arena for many sports few watch except for this cycle; and an opportunity for individuals with great ambition to engage in battle for something larger than themselves - or simply for themselves.

There should be pressure to clean it up a in all ways, from drug enhanced performance to corrupt officials making a living fleecing Olympic supporters, although it will never be simple or "pure."
AJ (Midwest)
Sorry but the sight of children who have spent most of their childhoods punishing their bodies doesn't really appeal to me and if I cry it's not for the reasons you do.
uwteacher (colorado)
To be the best in the world. What a lofty goal and a frivolous dream. To reach it does require great sacrifice and the lives of world class competitors does not match some fanciful ideal of how live ought to be. What must be realized is that in most cases, there is a point beyond which only intrinsic rewards can take a person. This is true in gymnastics and swimming, music and dance, and about any human endeavor you care to name will require much to reach the pinnacle of success.

Do you think a concert violinist doesn't give up a lot? Just how hard do you think it is to learn 20 minutes of complex music? I suspect there is a physical price as well. How about ballet? The dancer's bodies take a beating but we don't hear cries about how they have given up their childhood and sacrificed their bodies for art.

While there are Little League parents and there are abuses, most of these elite performers and there because they want - nay need - to be doing this. To be the best in the world.
ds (Princeton, NJ)
What you imply about children is unfortunate, but there are many young adults competing whose interested started in high school and college. TV that focuses on the children is pandering to an age old entertainment truism. There is much more than that in the Olympics, and that is to cry for. Do you not love to watch the best in us?
Dr. Bob Solomon (Edmonton, Canada)
Yeah, Trump would call them "Losers" because they didn't live life his insane way, wouldn't he? He's say the same about Einstein, Maimonides, and Jim Thorpe...
Losers, my tuush.
Anetliner Netliner (Washington, DC area)
Bravo to Ellie Downie, the courageous UK gymnast described by Frank Bruni. Ms. Downie's decision to continue competing, after sustaining a fall in her neck, is riveting.
laura (Clinton Corners NY)
"A fall on her neck and then continuing?" How about straight to the ER, the sensible thing to do?