Michelle Obama's story is an American story. My parents, first generation Jewish American immigrants, could rise because the GI bill allowed my dad to get his MA and PhD, and buy his first home. Despite redlining (which targeted Jews as well as blacks), we grew up in a pretty new suburb.
As my Dad rose in his career, Dad never wanted a more expensive car or a bigger house, but encouraged my mom to buy whatever jewelry she wanted. A child of the Depression who almost starved to death in Chicago, she enjoyed if; her taste was somewhere beyond Liz Taylor.
They put my brother and me through college; I won a fellowship to grad school, but they put my brother through law school.
Unlike the Robinsons, we had enough money to go out to dinner once a week at what I now realize were moderately priced restaurants.It was a big deal, and we had to behave well or go home. Unlike Michelle, we had no family nearby. My mother was estranged from her cousins; we visited them in FL, where they didn't care about me--only my brother, the little prince.
My father's family was in Newark, and altho he constantly degraded Jewish family life, my mother told me later that she said, "These kids will grow up with Grandma and Grandpa and cousins and aunts and uncles." We drove from MD to Newark several times a year.
Mom's two sisters were in LA, and we went there by train for my cousin's bar mitzvah. Incredible--first time we saw the West. Our cousins were about our age, and we had a wonderful time.
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And now Michelle wears $4,000 Balenciaga boots. I hope she doesn't forget where she came what most want her to stand for.
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Isabel Wilkerson has beautifully written about the best autobiography I have read.Michelle Obama explains in an intelligent, funny,heartfelt,honest way what it is to be an African American woman living in a predominately African American neighborhood and moving into mostly white surroundings.This was done with grit,intelligence and hard work every inch of the way.Her family close knit, loving,smart and cultured tho not w/o trials.I didn't want this wonderful book to end.I laughed, cried and learned so much from this utterly fantastic woman.I had tears of joy streaming down my face the night they won the presidency and was mesmerized by this fantastic family for 8 years.Enthralling to watch them all during this time, it is required reading to be given so many insights into this best of all First Ladies.
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What a wonderful, insightful description of an extraordinary human being. The thought of her crying for 30 minutes after the transfer of office in 2017, as a release of what must have been eight years of incredible tension touches me to the core.
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"On Election Day, her husband glanced over at her at the voting booth. 'You still trying to make up your mind?' he asked playfully. 'Need a little more time?'”
To me that captured Barack Obama, the president we elected and admired and who has a great sense of humor, and Michelle Obama, wife and mother who was ambivalent about politics and its impact on her family.
All's well that ends well, the old saying goes. I'm glad Barack Obama ran for the highest office in the land and won and Michelle Obama discharged her responsibilities as the First Lady with aplomb.
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Just this wonderful review brings back the joy tears of November 2008. Oh how our fortunes have changed.
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I'm a 77 year old white guy from WV, trained as an EE who migrated to Chicago after graduation, a veteran of the Civil Rights movement of the late '60s and early '70s in Chicago and in Cairo, IL. I also worked as a volunteer in NV for President Obama for several months in 2008 and 2012, climbing stairs and knocking on doors.
I found Ms. Obama's book absolutely inspirational. Every element of it rang true to what I saw, and of what my friends from those times reported. I found myself in joyful tears as she described the celebration in Grant Park that I watched, in tears then.
I'm incredibly proud to have had her and her husband representing me in our government. This is a wonderful book, and required reading for all Americans. It provides wonderful insight into how Black America REALLY lives.
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A phenomenal book. Most books by public figures are, at best, worth reading for bits of information you didn't already know, but her writing style surpasses that of most novels I've read.
A must read.
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Somehow, in the current whirlwind of toxic politics, I missed this beautifully written piece by Isabel Wilkerson. I am wiping the tears from my eyes in order to write this. And as soon as I pull myself together, I'm marching out to buy Obama's book. Thank you NYT for highlighting the review online today.
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Thank you for this review of "Becoming." We are a better Nation for having Mrs. Obama as a role model for girls and women to emulate, for her immense influence around the world, for her unique contribution of compassion and resilience. She is a constant reminder of the essence dignity.
The Obama Family has been in my prayers from November 2006, when then Senator Obama presented "The Audacity of Hope" at the Miami Book Fair International. Giving audacious hope to millions around the world, a glimmer of expectation as to possibilities afforded to all in a less imperfect world. And in November 2008, launching Michelle Obama onto the world stage to enrich us all with her example. We are forever indebted to them.
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This review is stunning, just stunning. Thank you. It made me cry because it so wonderfully captures and does justice to the book and its author, Michelle Obama.
A friend turned 75 this fall and to celebrate, we went to see Mrs. Obama on her book tour when she came to Brooklyn. We loved every second. She is witty, full of wisdom, honest, and made us laugh and cry.
I think I will buy the audiobook as well because hearing her story aloud in her own voice will have a resonance I had not thought about before seeing some reader comments. Thanks to those who pointed this out.
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As another white male having gone to Yale at the same time Michelle went to Princeton, I am saddened to read about the racism she encountered. Thank you, Michelle, for educating me as I was blind nor did any female friends, black or white, express any racism or sexism they experienced to me. I have always lived my life treating all people equally and naively assumed all did the same especially within educated communities. Shame on all who don't live by the Golden Rule, especially those who should know better.
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Reading this remarkable review and various comments lights up the cruel truth of being famous and beloved, a nice but eventually tiresome task. Expectations and relentless admiration can exhaust the toughest of hearts and minds. Perhaps one day we will discover that from time to time Mrs. Obama sneaks out and away to mow lawns or trim hedges with secret friends? So much of her life these days is fantastic? One message that comes through and should be remembered by all readers, despite relentless bigotry and cruelty Michelle Obama is proof that genuine brilliance and talent can prevail in America.
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The memoir is excellent. My favorite portion was the pre-Obama Michelle. It was also incredibly informative historically. I never knew about the exclusion of blacks in unions creating an underclass. Had that racism not endured, and working class blacks would have had a fair shot, I believe the south side of Chicago would be flourishing rather than the US capital of gang violence, homicide and poverty.
My only criticism of the review is that the reviewer writes too much. Readers deserve to discover the narrative for themselves.
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I come from a country where the heads of state don't write popular accounts of their time in office and get books deals of $65 million for two books or go on tour. It's unbecoming. I get that this presidency was historic, but I am still not interested in this particular book. I can read actual books by actual scholars and writers rather than PR by the Obamas. I appreciated many of the Obama's initiatives, but there is lots to be critical about as well in his administration, and feel good accounts to the tune of $65 million don't allow for the needed critical distance and assessment of this presidency, which left the Democratic party weaker than at any time in history and paved the road for Trump.
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I miss them.
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Again and again our country has been pulled back from the precipice, or beyond the precipice, by the seemingly fortuitous emergence of truly extraordinary "ordinary" people. It is a blessing beyond any reasonable expectation. It is a blessing usually implemented in the face of ferocious ignorant screaming opposition, and always in the face of threatened, if not actual, violence. We are genetically predisposed to go VERY low, before we can muster the will to go high. The country owes a great debt to the Obamas for fulfilling this role with such grace. It's incredibly sad that a short two years later we are careening once again for the precipice.
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I haven't read the book, yet. But reading the review reminds me of how much I miss the Obama's, how I miss feeling proud of who our country chose to lead us and that we had role models for our children in the White House. Looking forward to the read!
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This is the women who admitted on a national stage that she had never been "proud of her country" prior to her husband being elected President. Now she traipses around in $4,000.00 on national TV and is proud of her new found American wealth. She is a leftist. I will pass thank you. I know all I need to know about this one.
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What a beautiful review about an equally beautiful person. Thank you. I grew up knowing many working class and middle class black folks and I always enjoyed their company to that of the racist white folks we were surrounded by in North Florida. I never have and I never will understand racial animus. Despite being white, I am not a member of what I call the *white people's club*
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Reading this, it is all the more astounding that such extreme and endless criticism was thrown at the Obamas, while every crude word or behavior of the Trump clan has been tolerated. Maybe Michelle cried so hard as she left the White House forever because she feared for our country's future.
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Michelle Obama is the smartest first lady, ever, and she and Barack are right at the top rated for humility and modesty and friendliness among presidential couples. People of the USA seem to enjoy him more and mo9re every day with the antics of the Trump disaster.
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In an otherwise endearing review of MIchelle Robinson Obama's impressive achievements and person, Ms Wilkerson cannot resist (albeit parenthetically, perhaps for greater effect?) asserting that the Dems have taken Black people for granted (absolutely true!) in their pointless ("wistful") effort to win over impliedly racist "white workers."
This claim may reflect Ms Wilkerson's own class prejudices, but the fact is that the Dems have sold out ALL working people in favor of chasing around for suburban upper middle class "enlightened" professionals. That neo-liberal approach created soil for Trumpism-- and we are all paying the price. Dividing white form Black working-class people is absolutely the opposite of what we should be doing.
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Why does this reviewer tell the entire story of Michelle Obama’s life? The point of a book review is to encourage people to buy and read the book. It is not to give the reviewer a free (pay-by-the-word maybe?) ride on another person’s biography. A New Year’s resolution for all reviews and review editors should be: evaluate lightly, but don’t tell more than a brief insight into what you are reviewing, whether it be a play or movie plot, a music rendition, or a gallery of images or sculptures. Please!
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Oh, how I miss having someone as intelligent and articulate as Michelle Obama (as well as her husband) in the White House.
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What is the point of this “review?” I read the book, it if I hadn’t, I wouldn’t need to now. This is a plot summary. I would appreciate some analysis of the importance of this book to its current and potential readers.
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Eleanor Roosevelt, move over. Make room on the bench of legendary First Ladies for a woman who was as elegant, honorable, distinguished and consequential as you, but who arrived there without the wealth, ancestry and power that you enjoyed. I would give anything to read a transcript of a lengthy conversation between th two of you.
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Thank God for one bright shining moment.
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I have always seen Michelle as Barack's rock. What a role model she is for all of us.
Now the Republicans and their base have their white male ideal in the White House. And what sorry examples Trump, the Bushes, and, yes, Clinton, turn out to be in comparison.
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Thank you so much for this excellent piece.
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Michelle Obama is a national treasure.
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What a magnificent book and it took me on a great journey. Do I miss the Obamas!
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This review made me want to read Becoming, but much more than that, it made want to read anything written by Isabel Wilkerson. What a well written piece. She should write all day, everyday.
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I have not yet read Michelle Obama's book, but I have read "The Warmth of Other Suns". Wilkerson's connection between the Great Migration and the Robinson family's story and ultimately Michelle's story was a perfect continuation of Wilkerson's book. I heard Ms. Wilkerson speak at our local library, and she made an important point: The folks who left the Jim Crow South were immigrants just as my Eastern European grandparents were. The difference was that the folks who left their homes and communities in the South were not leaving their country, but felt the need to go elsewhere within their country for opportunities and to achieve the American Dream, and ironically , that Dream was still elusive once they arrived in Chicago, Detroit, Los Angeles, Baltimore and New York. Michelle Obama's story is a continuation of Wilkerson's book as much as it is a story of her journey from the South Side of Chicago to the White House. I'm looking forward to reading it.
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Thank you Michelle for your wonderful amazing story of your life so far. I am amazed at the trials you and the President had to go through; I was as thrilled reading your uncompromising prose as when I heard Barack speak at the Democratic convention. I find you a wonderful lady and it is unfortunate that your grace has not touched the present reigning person and his wife. You and the President's hardworking life is thrilling and I truly expect to see one or both of your daughters carrying on your legacy. Thank you Isabel Wilkerson for your Article. You have found the kernel beautifully.
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A terrific review — a credit to the review author and to the book author. I generally avoid books by politicians, but this review confirms that Mrs. Obama has many great characteristics, is a strong writer, and was only drafted as a political wife. Thank you NYT.
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One great writer reviews another. I have the book at home and can't wait to read it. Mostly though, I feel honored to have witnessed this amazing couple and their family in the White House and I hope we will see more of them because they are deeply missed. When Obama was President, I knew that as challenging as our country could be, there would be nothing but words of unity and strength from the top. Now I despair about what to tell my daughter about politics, about our president, about leadership. There are no words to describe my frustration and pain, that I am supposed to somehow honor this stupid, hateful man, that I am supposed to find a way to feel a sense of kinship with his supporters, my fellow citizens. I know that nostalgia won't help us but I hope there are still lessons we can all learn from the great leaders of our time, such as Michelle Obama.
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Michelle Obama is one woman I truly admire. In all my 50 plus years, I see many smart women behind the popularity of their respective husbands, she is one of them. In fact to me Hillary and Michelle are way smarter than their husbands. I wish you Best Wishes to you and to your whole family, Michelle. I admire your candor, and the way you conducted yourself in Saudi and also with Elizabeth Windsor. You showed them and the world, that a woman is on equal footing, no matter the gender and the Brown/Black skin. I am so proud of you. :)
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I just wanted to note that this is one of the best reviews--of any book--I've read in the NYTimes. Thank you for putting what already seems an excellent book in context.
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I am so glad Michelle Obama shared her story, and this article captures why. One part that stood out in the book was that Barack appreciated that her side of the family showed that blacks could have upbeat, "TV sitcom" type homes (which he had missed with his long gone father.) I always admired her considerable grace under what I knew was incredible pressure. This book confirms all the good intuitions I ever had about where she is coming from. I hope she and Barack continue to shine as role models in our country for years to come, and I would recommend this book to the world.
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I will probably not read the book; I don't think I've ever read a memoir by someone involved in a political family, Henry Adams' and Dean Acheson's histories aside. Despite this narrow reading taste, I admired her conduct of, not merely conduct in, the unelected office of First Lady of the United States. I found her an enormously appealing exponent of her special causes, but even more of every American's cause. I was proud of her, and I remain so. But like her, when I read, I want it to be good. There will not be a book about her as good as what I know about her.
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'-“The South Side is filled with kids like that.” And, one might add, so is America.' Reading the reviews on line is heartbreaking - the reflexive toxic loathing of a (warm successful smart hard working etc) POC insures that the US will take itself down in flames before it is able to color-blindly recognise ethics or merit. She, her husband were squandered gifts. And so are all the other bright kids we are failing every day -- sad!
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Anyone who thinks there are no American heroes anymore should read the story of this remarkable woman and her family. No other country could have produce a Michelle Obama.
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The attacks on Michele Obama are rooted in the racist belief that African American women are inferior to white women. FULL STOP.
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I had no idea what to expect, but Mrs Obama’s memoir was a terrific read. She transported you into her world and you could see each scene unfold in your mind’s eye as you read or listened to her narration of her memoir.
I agree with another commenter that it would make for a brilliant classic movie. But only if it’s meticulously shepherded by a visionary director, top notch scriptwriter and cast.
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Just finished reading Michelle Obama’s Becoming. My eyes welled up often, and irrepressible chuckles freely escaped at other times.
I think the world of this phenomenal woman that is the deliciously and refreshingly unassuming Michelle Obama - a delightful, unquenchable mix of whip-smart, decency, wisdom, integrity, humility, percipience, wit, humor, grace, ability, strength, humanity, authenticity, inspiration - that blessedly happened into America’s consciousness; And now, gloriously resides - and permanently etched - in America’s hallowed history forever.
She is the personification of resilience and grace under fire.
In the face of the most vicious dehumanization, and the vilest of attacks and threats on her person (malicious attacks and dehumanization far worse than those visited upon her elected husband, and which continue to this day by the way), she earned my complete and unabashed admiration and respect.
Unrelentingly put through the wringer for 8 years and counting, she’s consistently acquitted herself marvelously.
As anyone who knows me knows well, Michelle Obama is the standard litmus test. What anyone thinks of her, how they treat her, how they respond to her, tells me everything I need to know about anyone.
As far as I’m concerned, it’s as simple as this: If you don’t like Michelle Obama, I don’t like you.
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I enjoyed Mrs Obama’s memoir. She’s a very fascinating and appealing lady, and I could listen to her forever. I find her to be one of the most honest, trustworthy and upstanding public figures on the world stage today. Grounded and unpretentious, but very dignified with a compelling presence. There’s absolutely nothing phony about the lady.
She’s a great role model. Inspiring and always leading by example. And for all she’s had to put up with, she’s somehow managed to remain not simply stoic, but fully engaged, substantive and truly lovely. She didn’t whine or play victim, but she also never misled - even as she’s made it all look so effortless.
I hope Barack Obama knows what a lucky chap he is.
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I wish that I had an opportunity to personally thank this couple for all the good, the grace and the common sense that they brought to the country during their time in the Whitehouse. They are certainly missed.
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I’ve read Mrs Obama’s book (pre-ordered it) and loved it. It is the beautiful life story of a wonderful and important woman in history. The book like its author-subject, is rich in substance and style, and brimming with humanity.
Her deep love and respect for her husband is palpable. She practically turns chunks of her memoir into odes to him.
She also excuses and absolves him too much, and ends up glossing over and taking the fall for HIS most glaring flaws/shortcomings. I found her husband quite selfish and self-absorbed (narcissistic), and not nearly as protective of her as he could’ve been. She paints a happy face over his narcissism.
He’s out in the world acting all thoughtful; attentive to everyone else; chivalrously pulling out chairs for other women for brownie points, while his own wife is largely neglected and left pulling out her own chair and fending for herself (and later, their kids).
She’s incredibly generous; A better human being than I could ever be.
I came away feeling that as fulfilling a read as her memoir is, Mrs Obama’s story is far from complete.
She has at a minimum, 3 great books left in her. And that’s from just her already lived years.
I want to read more. An in-depth, first-hand account of her White House years, and her time at Harvard Law (where she volunteers as a student lawyer at Harvard’s legal Aid Bureau).
I’d love to option the book. In the right hands Mrs Obama’s memoir is not only an enduring classic, but magical like she is.
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this wonderful review made me cry. Of course it also had something to do with the subject matter.
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What a thoughtful, insightful, and all around wonderful review you have written, Ms. Wilkerson. You've done that magnificent woman proud. I look forward to reading her memoir. Thank you.
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Reading how the Obamas found out at 10 PM on Election Day that he had won, I flashed back to where I was that night - at a performance of "South Pacific" at Lincoln Center. The show was almost 3 hours long and started at 7 PM. During intermission many gathered around cell phones in the lobby to see if the results were in yet. No, they weren't. We all shuffled back to our seats to watch the rest of the show trying to focus, though many hearts were beating faster.
At some point in the second act we all heard a thunderously loud but very quick cheer coming from . . . somewhere . . . but where exactly was hard to fathom. Above us? Below us? It was understood that it had to do with the election results, but the show continued on without missing a beat.
Clearly all the actors heard it, too. That night was during the time that Broadway shows solicit donations for "Broadway Equity Fights AIDS," and after the standing O curtain call, Kelly O'Hara, who played Nellie Forbush, stepped forward. Before she started her spiel she said, "By that sound we all heard just a little while ago, I think we're in for a big change in this country," and the audience roared its approval.
Whatever that cheer was for, it wasn't the final results, since we are one hour ahead of Chicago. but it's still one of the most memorable moments in my life.
So many of us share sad dates in history - 12/7/41, 11/22/63, 9/11/01 - but 11/04/08 will always be one of the happiest we can collectively recollect.
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I thought the first part of this book which focuses on her childhood was too long but then I couldn't put the book down after that...it's a page turner, and boy, is she an incredible woman!
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Great story serialised on the BBC last week. I’m with the kids on Paul McCartney.
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“Becoming” and “The Warmth of Other Suns” stand side by side on my bookcase.
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Ms Wilkerson’s own book, “The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America’s Great Migration” should be taught in classrooms. If you don’t know this book, you don’t know America. Brilliantly told, as well.
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This evening against my better judgment I scrolled through Facebook and saw an article my sister posted from First Lady Melania Trump. A video of her walking among the blood red trees looking ghost like, or perhaps an Ice Queen. The comments from her admirers made my stomach turn. Things like, our beautiful, classy First Lady! So glad we finally have Christmas in the White House! Bringing back class our wonderful President...etc. etc. Did they not witness the Obama years? Drama free, no crimes, no criminals? A couple that actually embody the values of Christianity? Are they aware that their exalted leader may be impeached? I so badly wanted to add something, to attach one of the nude cheap model pictures of Melania to shove it in their faces that the Trumps have no class. Or attach the article and video from President Bush’s memorial service where the Trumps didn’t recite or read the Apostles Creed. Christians my foot.
I refrained as I always do on Facebook. But I am a member of The Resistance and I work every day to remove these criminals from OUR HOUSE. It is hard to stomach that these admirers of the Trumps must be straight up racists for the way they fawn over these posers and find any way to criticize the Obamas. I admire Michelle for going high because believe me these people go low.
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I’m kind of with the kids on Paul McCartney. John Lennon different story.
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This fine lady belongs ANYWHERE she is . . .
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Let's be honest: she's just another over-achiever with a good ghostwriter.
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Sorry, but why has the reviewer preemptively spilled so much of the book she’s supposed to be reviewing, in her so-called review? Ugh. Only j.v reviewers or saboteurs do that.
This smacks less of a good-faith review and more of some passive-aggressive, low-key sabotage of Mrs Obama’s excellent memoir. Masquerading as an “earnest” effort of course, while the reviewer slyly inserts herself and her own thing into it.
It’s also curious that the reviewer’s friends are busy pushing the reviewer’s own book in the comments section. Some even in rather condescending and hostile terms as if they think there’s some competition going on between their pal the reviewer and America’s historic First Lady.
So weird.
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Oh my, the last paragraph. I had to get up from my laptop and walk it off for a little while. What a story. What a life. What a great First Lady. Thank you Michelle Obama.
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That family really classed the place up.
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Michelle Obama embodies what America loses when it squelches the lives and voices of all those kids who are literally and figuratively from the South Side. It's time to wake up, we can't afford to throw so much of value away.
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It was incredibly serendipitous that both his opponents for the senate (in the Democratic primary and the general election) had sordid histories that became public at an opportune time. Previously, his first attempt at Washington was a dud against Bobby Rush, a congressman with the worst attendance record.
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Michelle Obama embodies all that is best about America and humanity.
I couldn’t put down her memoir, it was a powerful and emotional read. And even though she allows herself to be vulnerable, as the cool people say, don’t get it twisted!
This is a lady as fearless as she’s honorable, principled, wise, disciplined, and effortlessly powerful.
Michelle Obama’s greatness - one that’s rooted in morality, values, integrity and most importantly, love of and prioritizing family - and the least among us, is the best kind.
I’ve never had much use for the ‘hero’ so busy fighting for others, they leave their own family in tatters.
And I’ve never had any use for the so-called ‘great’ leader who is immoral.
Charity begins at home, and the measure of any leader or hero, is how well they’ve taken care of their own family.
I always look first to see how the spouse and kids are doing. It’s telling. Any so-called ‘leader’ or ‘hero’ who neglects their primary responsibility - their own family - is in my opinion, a fraud.
Michelle Obama is that great leader who effortlessly lives and walks her talk.
And in a political world full of phonies, manufactured characters, embellished résumés and made-up bios, she stands out as unimpeachably authentic. The real deal as they say.
And she doesn’t try to ‘look tough’. She is tough and yet, sweet. She has integrity. She is brilliant. She is serious, and fun. And witty, warm, kind, lovely and humble.
She’s the complete package.
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Michelle Obama embodies all that is best about America and humanity.
I couldn’t put down her memoir, it was a powerful and emotional read. And even though she allows herself to be vulnerable, as the cool people say, don’t get it twisted!
This is a lady as fearless as she’s honorable, principled, wise, disciplined, and effortlessly powerful.
Michelle Obama’s greatness - one that’s rooted in morality, values, integrity and most importantly, love of and prioritizing family - and the least among us, is the best kind.
I’ve never had much use for the ‘hero’ so busy fighting for others, they leave their own family in tatters.
And I’ve never had any use for the so-called ‘great’ leader who is immoral.
Charity begins at home, and the measure of any leader or hero, is how well they’ve taken care of their own family.
I always look first to see how the spouse and kids are doing. It’s telling. Any so-called ‘leader’ or ‘hero’ who neglects their primary responsibility - their own family - is in my opinion, a fraud.
Michelle Obama is that great leader who effortlessly lives and walks her talk.
And in a political world full of phonies, manufactured characters, embellished résumés and made-up bios, she stands out as unimpeachably authentic. The real deal as they say.
And she doesn’t try to ‘look tough’. She is tough. And sweet. She has integrity. She is brilliant. She is serious, and fun. And witty, warm, kind, lovely and humble.
She’s the complete package.
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What a wonderful essay by Isabel Wilkerson. She picked up on some of the grounded experiences and perspectives that made Michelle Obama such a great first lady.
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I would love to see the Obama's back in The White House, without that miserable cur Mitch McConnell and his band of thugs throwing roadblocks at every turn. They might not want it, but I hope the path they laid makes it easier on the next black family to occupy The People's House, whoever they may be. We shall overcome!
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The thing is what could the life and future of African-Americans have been had the ones that had made it to the White House — such as Michelle Obama — not only focused on “not taking any misstep”.
Michelle’s attempt at greatness is held back by her fear of not doing something wrong, one cannot help but notice.
Why did she not go for the skies? And felt Ok “just observing”.
Life is more than family, house, job and kids. Greatness esp. when bestowed requires unbridled flights — and courage — of imagination.
These two good people made it to the top of the power ranks, and most of all that we have for their ilk — the oppressed African Americans — are prized photos for the history books.
The question has to be asked: was an opportunity wasted?
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@Vsh Saxena:
Mrs Obama was not elected. She tried not to make it about herself, and made sure not to distract from her elected husband and his policy priorities.
I suspect that you might’ve been one of those scolding her still if she’d made missteps; you’d have also accused her of trying to usurp her elected husband’s gig - and even of emasculating him, if she’d opted to ‘go for the skies’.
Michelle Obama may have allowed herself to be vulnerable in her memoir, but as the cool people say, don’t get it twisted, she is as strong and fearless as they come.
Her reticence stemmed more from understanding that it was not her gig. And deeply loving and respecting her elected husband, and not wanting to ‘ruin’ things for him by taking on what would’ve been drawn out fights with the chomping-at-the-bit opposition.
Even her garden elicited attacks! And had she taken the bait, it would’ve derailed their pressing agendas -including an imploding economy - and all in the face of a viciously obstructionist opposition.
Greatness is not in fact martyring herself, as you seem to advocate.
Too many of your version of ‘greatness’ have left little more than tears, damaged and dysfunctional families behind.
Michelle Obama’s greatness - one that’s rooted in morality, values, integrity and most importantly, love of and prioritizing family, is the best kind.
I’ve never had much use for the ‘hero’ so busy fighting for others, they leave their own family in tatters.
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Think about our current First Lady and her achievements so far, then ask yourself that question again.
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Because it wasn’t just Michelle’s mistake to make. Every misstep would be counted against her and all African Americans, no matter how unfair that is. When another African American runs for president it will always be “but the Obamas ...”’in a way that doesn’t happen for white male presidents.
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I read it. The book lays to rest why older white people in all parts of the country still tend to vote for Republicans and turn a blind eye to disenfranchisement. The party of hate- the party of no.
Thank goodness we voted this family in 10 years ago. I cannot think of a family more American than the Obamas.
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@The 1% If you look at the numbers -- those old "white" people are the very people who put them in office 10 years ago?
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I watched reviews through Oprah, et al, and had to order this book for my oldest daughter (who, like me, voted for Obama). I just spent 6 hours reading this "gift book" and I've lost count of the times I cried. It is public knowledge that Obama's family required Secret Service detail way earlier than the other candidates because of the amount of death threats. It is public knowledge that during the Obama Presidency, they received the most hateful of hate mail. After reading "Becoming", I am at a loss as to what there is to hate...(and I am referring to family...not the ugly political fighting between Democrats & Republicans). What is there to hate about an educated woman determined to leave the world a better place for future generations? Alas, being a WASP from SC, and coming from a Jim Crow upbringing, I understand Mrs. Obama's pain as I continue to be appalled at the hatred directed at any/all Americans that aren't white. Is it upbringing/lack of education/or both? I write these words based on a children's Sunday School song I was taught..."Jesus loves the little children; all the children of the world...Red and yellow, black and white; they are precious in his sight. Jesus loves the little children of the world." As an adult I am not so sure those words ring true in the minds of an angry certain segment of WASPS. As I applaud "Becoming", I continue to cry for the ugly underbelly of the United States that Ms. Obama quietly and gracefully alludes to.
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On a review of a book by Michelle Obama, there are those still making it not about the incredible woman, but her husband. I don’t see people making write-ups about Barack Obama, all about Michelle. Or even referencing her or forcing him to share billing with her
Even sadder is the fact that the worst offenders of this insidious erasure of the woman, happen to be women - as far as the names on these ‘we miss Barack’ comments on an article about his amazing wife’s amazing book, suggest.
Why can’t we just let this woman have something without erasing her from whole comments and making it entirely about her husband?
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The NY Times could not have chosen a better writer to write the review of Michelle Obama's book. I am familiar with Ms. Wilkerson's writing and was excited to see her name as the reviewer. I bought the book a few days ago and I am excited now more than ever to begin the journey with this book that Ms. Wilkerson has so eloquently described.
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A beautiful woman, in every sense of the word.
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This was an enrapturing article. Thank you Ms Wilkerson.
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So much to admire in this essay, and I will be reading her book (after my daughter does), yet among its most deeply regretful and salient observations: “the opposition party seemed devoted to Barack’s failure above all else.” It is easy to blame Trump and right-wing media for our scorched earth divisiveness and toxic public discourse, but imagine if McConnell and his party in Congress had worked toward compromise with the newly (and resoundingly elected by a hopeful country) President (also their former colleague), whose ideas weren’t radical—many from Republican policies—and whose choice for the Supreme Court was wholly in the mainstream and reasonable. Just imagine.
I’ve often wondered why McConnell despised Obama so much: jealous of his intellect, his funny sounding name and supposed “otherness,” he jumped the queue, his race. Probably all of the above—and frankly, mostly race—but what a tragic abandonment of the oath he and his congressional colleagues took. The US could have been a shining light to the world that democracy—while messy—can still work. Instead democratic institutions and ideals are in peril here and worldwide. History will render its verdict on their complicity in this, but at least the Obamas have not given up. There is hope in that, and in this telling of Michelle Obama’s remarkable journey.
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It is only having 8 years with the example of the Obama family that I can weather this horrible experience of witnessing the worst of the under belly of our country coming forth through Trump et al. Every day I remind myself that the majority of our citizens believe in the Obama example with the hope that we will correct the ugliness that has risen. They saved us from a major depression and left office by giving us hope that we shall overcome .......
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Sorry to contradict Marian Robinson, but the south side of Chicago is no longer “ full of children like that”.
Mrs. Robinson’s children were raised in a two parent home where Mr. Robinson’s commitment to his family was demonstrated daily by his work ethic in the face of a long-term debilitating disease. Mrs. Robinson’s presence in the home as a full time homemaker and close family, that reflected Mr. and Mrs. Robinson’s values were in the neighborhood plus firm religious beliefs also contributed to the Robinson’s successfully raising two accomplished children. There were not crack houses and shooting galleries every couple of blocks nor were drugs or guns to be purchased as easily and flagrantly as they are now.
No, the south side is NOT full of children like Mr. and and Mrs. Robinson raised because the south side has so few families like the Robinson’s left.
That’s a fact. Nothing alternative about it.
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I grew up on the south side at the same time as Michelle Robinson. You are mistaken. Crime in Chicago in the 70’s was higher then, not lower. High crime does not preclude families like the Robinson’s. Come visit the south side and you will find, yes, it is full of children with potential. Marian Robinson knows what she’s talking about.
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I read Michelle Obama’s memoir and found it as refreshingly honest and enthralling as the lady herself. Even if I thought she was far too gracious and generous - including to her husband.
I came away liking her even more, if that were possible. Our family is looking forward to seeing her when her book tour comes to San Jose.
I’ve always really liked Michelle Obama. There's something refreshingly genuine, sincere and thoroughly fun and lovely about her, even as you get the sense that she does not suffer fools. She is integrity personified. Desperately in short supply in our politics and public officials.
I’m of the school of thought that the wife of the current guy - if she were smart, should’ve reached out to Michelle Obama and struck up a friendship. She would’ve greatly benefited from a friendship with Michelle Obama.
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A beautifully written piece. Thank you.
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I have started the book, and your article, Ms. Wilkerson, has me in tears. I love President and Michelle Obama, and I was one who prayed for them and their safety every day.
McConnell and his collaborators will always be remembered as shameless racists who obstructed everything Obama did.
Michelle Obama, your grace, your grit, your honesty and your humor are amazing. You are an unsung leader, and your husband knows it!
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I bought this book to see if she could show how a woman with no family connections or experience in the high paying worlds of law and high level administration learned to navigate salaries. How did she know what to ask for in her jobs beyond the first job at Sidley? She had a network of friends to consult, true. While she didn’t outright tell me how much she made, bless her if she didn’t reveal her good solid way of measuring out what she needed and how the jobs had to accommodate her life. I’m so freakin’ happy she wrote this story. Love her to pieces.
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What a lovely review! Thank you! I must say that the stories and photos really drew me in, especially the ones from her childhood and young adulthood. I remember those fashions and had a similar upbringing, so they resonated well.
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Could I love Michelle Obama more than I already did? This is a question I didn't know I'd be asking as I opened her book and the answer is a big and whole-hearted YES! I want to thank her - and I will because why not write to her directly? - for sharing her story in such an open and nuanced way.
I am moving back and forth between listening to her read her book and reading it myself on the page. It's so well-written and interesting and full of things to think about that reading it is a thoughtful pleasure; hearing her tell the story to me as if in an intimate conversation with a friend is a true joy.
I find myself thinking much about her mother and father and their methods of parenting Michelle and her brother, Craig. These appear to have been brilliant in every way.
This nation was genuinely blessed to have Michelle Obama as its First Lady for 8 years. The face of America that she showed to the world was beautiful and fine and I was never not proud of her and her family.
What will Michelle do next? I cannot wait to see!
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I recently read Elizabeth Wilkerson’s The Warmth of Other Suns: The Great Migration. It is the finest treatise on our shared American past that I’ve ever read. I sent my marked soft-cover copy to a friend in Arizona. I now will buy a hard cover copy to keep for posterity and my (caucasian) relatives. I strongly suggest that it should be required reading in American High Schools. Cynthia, you will not be disappointed at this outstanding reading! I will also buy the audio version to listen to Michelle Obama herself. Her voice heartens me anew!
THANK YOU, Ms. Wilkerson!
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What a remarkably beautiful review.
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Kudos to Wilkerson and Obama. I look forward to the author reading her book on the audio version of “Becoming.”
Wilkerson's “Under the Warmth of Other Suns” is a fabulous read, and as suggested by another reader should be required reading. It tells the story of three migrants out of the South. One went to Chicago, one became a doctor to celebrities in California and a third, George Starling, enjoyed a reasonably prosperous life working as a passenger train crewman.
I was fascinated by Starling's story, especially because I lived for 20 years in the Lake County, Florida, place from which he escaped. He might not have survived had he stayed.
Wilkerson's book tells a part of the story, and Obama's part is uplifting. There’s more though, and some of it fascinating and dark. Please add to your must read list Gilbert King's Pulitzer Prize winner, “The Devil In the Grove.” It's the fruit of 4 years of research that shines light on a despicable series of events. Especially sobering because it happened in my lifetime.
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I pre-ordered Mrs Obama’s book once she announced that she was writing a memoir and available for pre-order. I was traveling in Europe when it was released, and there was just about as much excitement for it. I couldn’t wait to get home to my pre-ordered copy, and I’m not so fluent in Dutch that I’d enjoy or appreciate this book in that language - and the store nearby had just the Dutch version, so I bought a copy for the pictures in it, and ordered it on Audible in her voice. 5 minutes in, I was hooked. I cried, laughed out loud and listened for 7+ hours straight before getting some sleep and stumbling into my meeting next morning. I listened ever chance I got, and finished it up on my flight back home. I didn’t want it to end. It was a really well-done book and an easy, but heart-tugging read. Got home and still read the pre-ordered hardback copy waiting for me.
I’m glad I read the book before I read this review, or I probably might have passed on the book. The memoir, even when it tackles difficult subjects, does so in a way that only draws one in. Which is probably why it appeals to a diverse and vast audience. From avid readers to those who’ve never bought or read a book.
This review might appeal to some, but IMHO reads more like a class paper, is rather unnecessarily tedious, and excerpts far too much of the book - but in a way that isn’t reflective of the warmth and heart so unmistakable and palpable in Mrs Obama’s memoir.
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“When they go low, we go high “.
Michelle Obama was (and still is) a role model for young and old and all people of any race and ethnicity.
And the beautiful thing is she didn’t even realize how so many Americans tried to model her eloquence!
Her outstanding role model will outlast what’s become of our country and I have no doubt we’ll get back on track again in 2020 because of the Obama’s and what we sorely miss.
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Many thanks to the admissions officers at Princeton in 1981 for accepting Michelle Robinson's application. America's top universities have admitted so many people of such flawed and dismal character over the decades (Donald Trump, Dinesh D'Souza, George W. Bush, Donald Rumsfeld at Princeton, Bobby Jindal, Grover Norquist, Henry Paulson, and I suppose I should mention nominal Democrats too like Timothy Geithner and Lawrence Summers) that it's a downright miracle Princeton's admissions officers actually got it right 37 years ago.
It's unlikely any of us ever would have heard of the wonderful Michelle Obama had she not attended Princeton and Harvard Law and had gone instead to the University of Illinois and DePaul University College of Law. That is unfortunate and this state of affairs in the United States really must change.
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Michelle Robinson Obama's book -- "Becoming" -- is being read and appreciated and loved by all who have treasured the 44th President's First Lady for eight years from 2008 - 2016. Today, we are living in the midst of an unforeseen and unpredicted crisis in America's life, under the aegis of a chaotic Republican president, an American despot. This president never held any kind of elected office before he ran for our presidency and won in 2016.
As Michelle Obama wrote, "There's power in allowing yourself to be known and heard, in owning your unique story, in using your authentic voice. And there's grace in being willing to know and hear others. This, for me, is how we become." We are humbled by and grateful for this true story of Michelle Obama's life. She is an unforgettable and deeply human woman.
Isabel Wilkerson's book, "The Warmth of Other Suns, the Great Migration", is an American history that presaged the arrival of our first Black American First Lady.
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Ms. Wilkerson does not cherry pick or sugar coat the truth. Having read “Warmth of Other Sons,” I would expect no less. She beautifully describes the hard choices of just making it through the day when every movement, sentence, or expression is dissected to meet the harsh glare of an unrelenting opposition. Ms. Obama not only succeded, but did so with grace and style.
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Thank you so much Mrs. Obama. At first I was angered that a Harvard lawyer had to dumb herself down into a mommy role because a smart woman is always the biggest threat. But then I grew to admire how you addressed serious health and education problems affecting our country, setting an example and truly making a difference. I loved that you hug, dance and are just plain real. No stupid slogans, just doing the right thing. Thank you for a lovely grace filled eight years. You have served your country better than anyone I can think of in my living memory.
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It may come as a surprise to "Duff," a commenter who describes himself as "white," "male" and a "descendent from Plymouth Rock," that I "white" "female," and "descendent of two Irish immigrants," found his comment insulting to First Lady Michelle Obama, and to me. His comment reveals, although he may not realize it, that he believes that approval by a Wasp male is the epitome of approvals. The review, in fact, shows that the most difficult part of Michele Obama's life was her early belief that she should permit herself to be defined by the approval of others, particularly the white wasp male. She didn't need their approval to be or to become what she is, an extraordinary woman. Ms. Wilkerson's review has inspired me to buy the book now and not wait until it's available in the library or in paperback. Can't wait to read it
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@Grace Brophy Funny how differently we interpret written words. What I took from Duff's post was this: a person doesn't have to be black, female and descended from slaves to appreciate Michelle Obama's journey.
Said from the aspect of a white, female descended from a German (most likely) indentured servant and a British/Irish early Jamestown (most likely ) indentured servant.
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For eight Thanksgiving holidays I gave thanks that Obama
will be, is and was The President.
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Setting politics and partisanship aside, this is a wonderfully written review, one that piqued my interest in a book that I previously (for better or worse) felt no great interest in reading. I'm left struck and impressed by both Isabel Wilkerson's prose and Michelle Obama's. Thank you to the Times for giving this piece the space it deserves.
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@Huck Exactly how I felt after reading the review!
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This article should probably be renamed "Detailed Synopsis of Plot Points in Becoming" with a spoiler alert as a preface. Good grief! Thankfully I am almost through the novel otherwise so much would have been ruined with these lengthy excerpts... not to mention the author of the article choosing to use even the same photos as those featured in the book!
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Agreed. Wilkerson’s beautifully written review contains too many spoilers. I stopped reading when I got to the point where I am in “Becoming”. It is surely a story to savor, and nobody—even a writer of Wilkerson’s stature— is going to spoil my enjoyment of Michelle’s memoir.
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Michelle's mother is right. The South Side of Chicago is indeed full with kids like that, as is America. Why Michelle became who she became though, is because her parents did such a good job. They invested their time and energy in their kids.
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Fine article, but the headline was misleading. The headline suggested that the piece would contain significant content about the impact of the Great Migration on Ms. Obama and her family.
Although the article does contain a paragraph or so on the Great Migration vis-a-vis Ms. Obama's family, that's it. The piece's headline did not accurately represent Ms. Wilkerson's writing about Ms. Obama's important book.
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I am white so it is hard for me to imagine what it must have been like for Michelle to endure what she has throughout her life (though I spent three years in the Peace Corps in Ethiopia as a minority). For me, I didn't care about their race. I only cared that they were intelligent, informed, compassionate, and would help this country move in the direction that affirms we are all in this together. Tears came to my eyes as I watched the results in 2008 declaring Obama the winner as the polls closed in California.
I am an audio book fan, so I am looking forward to listening to Michelle tell her story to me. She is such a gracious human being, someone to be admired, and who elicits pride that she represented our country. The contrast with who now occupies the White House is so stunning and depressing that I can hardly speak of it in this context. We should all be glad we had someone like Michelle and her husband leading us for eight years.
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@John Woods
My race is human. My origin is Earth.
What race are you? What planet do you come from?
Ethiopia is an African country that was not colonized. There is no Ethiopian "race".
There is not nothing like condescending paternalistic liberal white pity.
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@Blackmamba I have little idea what you are talking about, although I could probably puzzle it out. I could say our species is homo sapiens and that race is an artificial categorization of homo sapiens. But it certainly played a role in Michelle's life, and I appreciate that she has addressed this, just as you have, perhaps unintentionally, by your comment. I wish you the best.
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@Blackmamba - I too had to pause for a second. Then I read it again. John is talking about the Obamas. "I didn't care about their (Obamas') race." He is not not saying the Ethiopian "race".
I share John's sentiments about having had Michelle and her husband lead us for eight years! Peace......
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Today I'm about to finish Michelle's incredible journey from the South Side of Chicago to the White House and beyond. I'm listening to an audio version. Having Michelle narrate her own story adds a layer of authenticity into the mind of our country's first African-American FLOTUS. She is honest, witty, intelligent, and an excellent narrator. I'll miss listening to Becoming, just as I miss having Barack Obama lead our nation.
Out of the 14 books I've read this year, Becoming is at the top of my list as the most insightful, and enlightening. As much as I thought I knew what it must be like growing up an African-American, having lived in a very diversified New York City, is as much that I did not truly understand. Michelle has done more than write an amazing memoir, her journey is a lesson in history from a perspective different than my own.
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@Howard Pavane
Gwendolyn Brooks, Lorraine Hansberry, Ida B. Wells, Marjorie Joyner and Michelle Obama are all South Side.
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@Sven Gall Not everyone can live in a DC mansion but no one in this country should live in a war zone. That's our fault -- America's fault -- because we continue to allow it. Reading about one person's story doesn't negate other stories nor does it negate our responsibility to finish the work -- to create an American with liberty and justice for all. We have always failed that goal and we continue to fail but that doesn't relieve anyone of their responsibility to fix the mess that our forefathers created. So pick up a shovel and get to work or sit down because the rest of us are busy.
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A wonderful book written by a role model for our country. I think many of us can relate to her words and experiences and I thank her for her candor and her role as First Lady.
Reading her words cements the realization of how much the Obamas are missed in the White House. They are a class act and are honest people of character who served our country well. I thank them both and thank Michelle for sharing her many insights with us.
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@Michele506a
The South Side of Chicago is the oldest largest contiguous black community in America. It was my village home from birth.
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@Blackmamba so many wonderful people were raised there!
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This is the most sensitive and insightful discussion of our beautiful (former, alas!) First Lady's book I've seen. No surprise since Wilkerson is not only a brilliant scholar but additionally a beautiful, insightful and sensitive writer.
As an American historian I am ashamed I'd not had any interest in the White House or the evolving role of First Lady -- until Michelle Obama took over. Slowly, I began looking into that aspect of our national history as well. Among her many achievements the First Lady's White House Christmases became something I always looked forward to seeing, eagerly opening the photographs and videos of what she'd put together for that year.
She -- her intelligence, elegance, grace and beauty, and ethical adamance are so missed!
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Deeply moved by this piece, such that I just bought Wilkerson's The Warmth of Other Suns and will begin it this weekend. Writing like this should never be missed. Then down the road, I will read Michelle Obama's book.
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@Cynthia enjoy The Warmth of Other Suns. One of the best books I have ever read. Wilkerson is a brilliant writer and researcher.
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@Cynthia - you are in for a wonderful read! Ms. Wilkerson is one of the most incredible writers of our time. The Warmth of Other Suns should be required reading!
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@Cynthia: Dig in for a splendid read! Ms. Wilkerson’s The Warmth of Other Suns is a long, hard read, just like that old long, hard road to Jordan. White Americans would do themselves a huge favor by reading this magnum opus of the post-Reconstruction/Jim Crow era. They really need to get over this false narrative of “Northern” aggression and the silly “Lost Cause” of the GWTW “romance” of slavery, a bygone era much lamented by Mitch McConnell, Jefferson Davis Beauregard Sessions III, Paul Ryan, Donald Trump and MAGA Nation. They need to read history, not harlequin romances. Ms. Wilkerson’s book will wash you, rinse you, and dry you out. Might even fold your clothes.
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Right on! Amen! Well!
Truth written here by and about my almighty South Side of Chicago homegirl.
We love you Chelle. We got your back, front, top, bottom and sides.
I was born and bred black and poor on the South Side of Chicago by a single mother. I am a product of the Chicago Public Schools K-12 and the African Methodist Episcopal Church. This is the South Side that I know and love.
My paternal ancestors were enslaved in Georgia and my grandparents came to Chicago from Atlanta in 1930 in the wake of the son of a neighbor being lynched. Both of my grandparents were HBCU graduates. Excellence in education and life was expected and achieved.
My maternal ancestors were free persons of color from South Carolina and Virginia from the American Revolution on. They came north in 1915 seeking opportunities on the South Side of Chicago.
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@Blackmamba, did your grandparents grow up in the Pittsburgh neighborhood of Atlanta? And was the young man lynched the son of a pastor? If so, my mother and uncle also related that story to me. From what I understand, the lynching took place at Crogman School, across the street from where my mother and her siblings were raised.
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An American hero, role model, and wonderful human. She will always be the First Lady in our hearts.
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When I came to US from India in 199os, I read a book 'Promised Land'. I also came to know that February is the month of African Americans. I felt so bad and wept. But I was already aware of the African Americans plight in India itself, due to Dr Martin Luther King and Gandhi Ji's influence on him. In US became aware of Rosa Parks. And many more Africans who sacrificed and not to forget the Whites who helped them. I was and am always an avid sports watcher. I used to sprint in my teens, and the family love for sports. Olympics Track and Field is always my most favorite along with Tennis and zen like Golf. With Serena and Tiger, my love increased for the sports. I met very smart African Americans in the computer industry and while visiting places. I always admired Michelle Obama. In the process of learning about African Americans, I also became aware of how granted we take of the Caste system in India and how we treat the less fortunate people (quote Mother Teresa) and how we treat the so called untouchables. I never believed in the caste system but I always did in the class system. Most of the African Americans I met are plain wonderful and lovely and very personable people. I always felt African Americans are the Super Race, when they set their minds to it, they are A listers in that field. That is the reason why historically the stereotype Western society puts down them down, as they are afraid of them. Black and Brown is always beautiful, :)
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This is an astonishingly beautiful column, and I can't wait to read both Michelle Obama's book and Isabel Wilkerson's — it's been on my list for a while and it's time to buy and read!
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Michelle Obama is someone that can unequivocally be a role model for people of all ages. I really miss having her in the White House.
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I have several "acquaintances" who continue to post the most scurrilous garbage about Michelle Obama on Facebook and Twitter, even though she left the White House nearly two years ago. I don't understand the hatred that they feel and I wish they had the sense to read this review and realize that they may have more in common with Ms. Obama than the differences they perceive.
I generally don't bother to read the autobiographies of public figures since the books are usually campaign literature (if they are testing the waters for a run at some elected position) or a justification for why they lost or did what they did, if they won. I'll read this book as I truly believe that she has no interest in running for office and because her personal story is so interesting.
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@David DiRoma
Perhaps you can start by posting positive news items about Mrs Obama on your Facebook page. Especially those that factually contradict the false stories the hate mongers hide behind to excuse their baseless hate of and attacks on her?
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Wow. So American. Thank you Michelle for letting us feel what it is like. You stay well and enjoy. Start to believe in being an American again. Since Newt it has been hard.
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Michelle has always been, and will always be, intelligent, insightful, hardworking, down-to-earth, and classy. This review, and Becoming, immersed me in these stellar qualities and made me smile. But Mrs. Obama's phrase that cut me to the quick, and stays with me, is that the Obamas "lived with the awareness that we ourselves were a provocation.” It is appalling that many Americans were "provoked" by the presence of a smart, steadfast, loving African-American family in the White House -- and calamitous beyond words that so many responded to the provocation by voting for an unqualified, immoral, unhinged boor.
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Love every word...awesome piece.
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All white -- or perhaps more accurately "relatively fair" --Americans who are capable of believing that they are somehow "disadvantaged" in 21st America would do well to read Ms Obama's book. It might give them some comprehension of how real discrimination works, or just how lingering and pervasive the consequences of that discrimination can be.
But they won't.
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There are white Americans who are treated very badly by the corporate economy and elites. Not the same as racial discrimination but economic harm to them is real and needs to be recognized while not equating it with the deeper harm done by racism.
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Somehow, I knew I would like M Robinson's story. And, I do. A simple and simply great life trajectory. Keep going !
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I was never so proud to travel abroad as an American as I was after Obama was elected. It truly seemed like we had reached a tipping point in this country, with a First Family that represented intelligence, integrity, courage and the realization of the so-called American dream. During my travels in S Asia and Africa so many people said "Obama" with a thumbs up when I answered where I was from. How far we have regressed since then.
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A link to her book tour schedule would be nice please?
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69 year old white guy here-- I pray we can regain some of the dignity and decency the Obamas brought to our country's leadership. I am dismayed that so many Republicans are so full of vitriol... if Barack Obama had pulled off a tenth of the disgusting lies, adultery, business cheating of our present white house occupier there would have been cries to lynch him! There were anyway. This country is not beyond redemption, but its a close call.
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Really nicely written piece. Balanced. Informative. Emotional. Well done.
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What a wonderful heart-felt interpretation of Obama's book, actually her heart. I identified with every line and so loved the shared photos. Thank you Ms. Wilkerson, I'm ordering the book TODAY.
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Michelle did a great job of pleasing pretty much everyone. If she inspires you, follow her example.
And what a stunning photo of her in Kenya.
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Michelle for President.
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Classy lady.
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Ms Wilkerson's "Warmth of Other Suns..." is one of the five or six books that should be required reading for EVERY American, in my opinion, for the stories it tells so vividly are of the very fabric of this nation. So fitting that she helps introduce us to the memoir of this daughter of the Great Migration. And thank you NYT for publishing this piece. Pete McGuire, Atlanta
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“The South Side is filled with kids like that” -- That is just not true.
The Chicago Public School (CPS) system is heavily based on segregating children by IQ, the Selective Enrollment tests do not even bother to disguise it. By 6th grade, most of the smartest % of children have all been plucked away from neighborhood schools and concentrated in a handful of elite schools like Lane Tech, Walter Peyton or Obama's Whitney Young.
Michelle Obama is very much part of the < 1% in terms of IQ, she may be a fantastic person and role model, but her road to Ivy league colleges is closed off to 99% of the South side Chicago kids by institutionalized Darwinian selection in the public school system.
Not a single Selective Enrollment school is within reach for hard working kids with straight As but merely average or somewhat above average IQs.
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@Brewing Monk . I think Mrs. Robinson meant that many other South Side children had the same potential as her kids, not that they got the same opportunities of privilege. ow could she not know or see the inequalities that lived in the midst of?
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@Brewing Monk
Your ignorance if you are black and your bigotry if you are white is exposed.
By the life and legacy of Dr. Barbara Ann Sizemore who was educated at Northwestern and the University of Chicago as she rose from Chicago Public School teacher to principal to district superintendent to Superintendent of the DC public schools to Dean of the School of Education at DePaul University. Dr. Sizemore believed in the abilities of black kids and proved her theories right in practice.
I am a product of the Chicago Public Schools K-12. You don't know jack. Chicago Public Schools have always been segregated by color aka race.
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I can’t wait to read every wonderful word about this ordinary-to-extraordinary woman. The Obamas were impeccable, perfection in their White House comportment. Plenty of white people, myself included, feared every day for them. I had the same fears about the standards expected from them - they they would be criticized for anything - her beautiful bare arms, for example.
They represented America at its very best.
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Michelle Obama truly goes high. What class, what intelligence, what an amazing and beautiful human being! Thankyou Isabel, thankyou Michelle!
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It is a great book. Since over 50% of the population is marginalized, it is hard not to see oneself in these pages.
To get an even keener sense of Michelle's writing, we listened to the audiobook (read by Michelle) after reading the hardcover. Pure Michelle!
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Becoming encourages all young girls and women of all ages to answer the question, "Am I good enough?" with an affirmative, YES.
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I remember, when I went to the University of Chicago from 1958-1960, the South Side was jot a place you casually visited. Cook County was known to be extremely corrupt, with the divide between those who shopped on Miracle Mile and those who lived in the projects unavoidably stark. That someone like Michelle came out of that environment shows that one's own gifts and the support of family goes a long way. Wouldn't it be nice if no one had to jump through endless hoops on the way to adulthood so that everyone could thrive and succeed.
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@Renee Hack
The University of Chicago was not and is not the black South Side of Chicago. Hyde Park and Kenwood are not part of that area either. You don't know what you are talking about that regarding that "environment".
@Blackmamba: We get it that you are angry. We get it that misery and resentment are your constant companions. We get it that this article about Michelle Obama’s beautiful book has given you an opportunity to slap down every white person who dares to approach the myriad issus of race with a hope of understanding. My hope is that you will find some peace of mind in this pitiful exercise.
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@Blackmamba I am sorry for the confusion. I did not intend to say U of Chicago is on the South side. Only that the reputation was of the South side was negative. I did not invent the reputation. No insult intended.
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Thank you, Ms Wilkerson, for a great summary of an amazing memoir. Please grace us with a book soon!
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Cathy missed out!
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such a thoughtful, comprehensive review of a 400 page book....
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Wonderful and thorough review. Michelle for POTUS!
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oh how i wish she would run for president!
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I can't wait to read it!
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Hail, hail to Barack Obama and Michelle for their first class act through their eight years in the White House. A lesson and a blessing for all of us. Two minds that are not "wasted." May there be many more because of their example and service. That would be the legacy that could raise us all up.
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A neighbor's favorite Michelle Obama story is that the coach for their shared children's soccer tam started having problems getting to games. The parents took turns coaching and filling in and everyone's favorite was Mrs. Obama. Even after the secret service started to show up too.
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Thank you for publishing this wonderful essay that finally gives Michelle Obama’s extraordinary book the glowing review it deserves. Who better to assess Obama’s life story than Isabel Wilkerson? No one. In fact, the review deepens further the story Becoming tells. Brilliant and spot on. That’s the book Obama wrote and the story she tells. A wonderful read — in both cases.
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Really lovely and poignant to read! I have so much more respect for Michelle and I had a lot, but reading this of the 900 sq. ft. apartment where she grew up on the South Side, the roommate who moved out while at Princeton, and yes, the sobbing as she exited the White House via helicopter all tell a big story of the success of this determined woman. Admirable!
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Love that she rose up out of a solid nuclear family to help lead our country. And she has developed one herself. Sets a solid example for us.
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Thank you Isabel Wilkerson. You are an extraordinary biographer. Obama continues the story you tell so vividly in “The Warmth of Other Suns.” I hope we will hear much more from both of you.
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This book was not only a vivid, evocative description of the different people in her South Side neighborhood; but in a few words about each person she was able to point back to socioeconomic factors that played into the development of their outlooks and personalities.
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I'll be she cried. Eight years of scrutiny for all four of the Obamas. And not even an overdue library book for those two girls. I'm sure the media perpetually scraped for some bad press. What a class act.
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Clearly she will be pushed as the next democrat candidate for president. That is what's going on here.
@Len
No, this was just a book review. Some of us, who admire Mrs. Obama, don't want here to run for president. In fact, only people who have experience in national politics should run for president. Otherwise, there is no basis for complaint when an unlikable and unexperienced person becomes president.
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She has said many, many times over that she is not interested.
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It is this very improbability that makes all the ridiculous conspiracy theories so ... ridiculous. Two strivers, each with their own disadvantages, worked hard, met one another, and managed to care not just for the country but for their families. Amazing folk!
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The thought we went from the dignity, class, and intelligence of the Michelle and Barack to the two we now have is more amazing, incredulous and stupefying than their 8 yrs in office.
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Michelle for president!
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First, read "The Warmth of Other Suns". Next, read "Becoming". Then use that accumulated wisdom to make our country better, to contribute to healing our wounds. What a magnificent lineage of living and writing.
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the house with stairs: my godson, age 10 at the time, the US born son of hard-working undocumented parents said he wants to live in a house that has stairs inside -
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Although I did have misgivings at times about President Obama (such as his relationship with Rev. Wright) I always believed and still believe that he and Mrs. Obama carried themselves with grace and dignity at all times. Living in the White House would at best be a culture shock to anyone who grew up middle class or lower but being of color raised the stress level immeasurably.
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Wonder if you feel the same as to the relationship with Trump & Putin?
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For those of us who admire the grace and good humor of the Obamas this well written review reveals the effort demanded of them. Millions of Americans still continue to believe the birth certificate was fake despite the long history of Jim Crow prejudices rejecting true licences and documents of African Americans without comprehending the emotional consequences.
Michelle Obama has made a statement for history and enlightenment that makes her reader aware that we are our brother's and sister's mirror. For me that mirror reveals that despite my many advantages in life I could never accomplish what they did against far greater challenges. That truth humbles me and gives me peace knowing America faced her reality. The reaction to our current President is the complex consequences of accepting truth in the mirror about oneself.
Michelle reveals truth requires knowing thyself and we are all digesting this reality on a daily basis.
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I find it impossible not to be completely enchanted by this incredible first lady. In her decency, kindness, candor and elegance Michelle Obama is a tour de force.
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" … My grace would need to be earned.” She adds, “I stood at the foot of the mountain, knowing I’d need to climb my way into favor.”
And how beautifully and in such a dignified manner she climbed that mountain. And what an example she has set for her two beautiful daughters, and all daughters. Thank you Michelle Obama! And thank you for how you influenced the best President in my nearly seven decades on this earth.
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@KJB - Thanks. Me, too! Nearly seventy and I totally love Michelle and Barack Obama. Best in my lifetime.
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I am stunned by this writing.
How deeply this touched everything human in me. I feel blessed to have read this and, in these often impersonal times, to still be able to let it shake me to my core.
Michelle Obama, with her honesty, is helping us touch our human core. We are good if we allow ourselves that gift, if we keep it as something sacred and important.
This achingly poignant line stopped me cold:
“the quiet, cruel nuances of not belonging.”
I've got an answer.
To be human is to belong.
This book, this strong, brilliant, sweet woman is a powerful affirmation of that.
Never forget that.
What a gift.
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@Paul King, Beautifully written yourself, Mr. King.
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Beautifully written. Ms. Obama is a wonder under the pressure of politics, public judgement and her own self-criticism. We were lucky to have her and her husband.
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I am in the middle of the book, but thank you for such an inspiring and insightful article.
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Thank you, Isabel Wilkerson and Michelle Obama for showing us the importance in "becoming" and for teaching us to see the danger and divisiveness in "othering". You continue to be a source of inspiration and a reminder of the importance in leaving the Earth a better place for our great-great grandchildren.
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Less than an hour ago, I finished this compelling and thoughtful memoir. We have so much to be grateful for and to learn from this daughter/ professional/ wife / mother/ mentor/ leader. Michelle Obama's in-the-moment recounting of her life growing up on Chicago's Southside is something EVERYONE should read and try to understand. And Mrs. Obama's willingness to share heartbreaking experiences in order to help others in those same scenarios is a testament to her compassion for woman and families making their way in the world. Well done, good a faithful servant. We can never thank you enough, Michelle Obama.
We could being to show our appreciation by curtailing the will-you-run question. While I'd vote for her immediately, we should respect her affirmative statement that running for office is not her goal. I have no doubt that she will continue to serve our world in ways many elected officials can only begin to imagine.
This memoir ranks at the top of my memoir list (along with Night, The Glass Castle, Tuesdays with Morrie, All Over But the Shouting, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, and The Year of Magical Thinking), but it is more than a memoir. Mrs. Obama provides us with a template for how to be a servant-leader (the highest caliber of authority IMO) and to maintain high standards, purposefulness, and dignity in a world where, sadly, not everyone seeks, admires, or even comprehends those goals.
Again, grace and peace to you and yours, Michelle Obama.
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Thank you, Isabel Wilkerson, for this elegantly attuned account of Michelle Obama’s memoir. The memoir, and your essay about it, evoke the honor and hopes of Chicago’s South Side so vividly that Mrs. Robinson’s remark — “The South Side is filled with kids like that” — rings loud and true.
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@Molly Layton
On my South Side of Chicago this greatness was and still is quiet and true. What captures and captivates the nation loud and clear is a lesser isolated sociopathology.
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We love Michelle Obama, and this piece shows so many of the reasons why: Courage, intelligence, class, elegance, poetry and a no-nonsense belief in what is right. We also miss her: She is everything that is really great about America.
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I finished this book (in audiobook form) two weeks ago. I return to it in my mind often, not so much because of the forced contrast between Michelle Obama's husband and his distinctly opposite successor--in every manner possible--but because of the memoir's great styles of simplicity and humility and total honesty.
There was never the smallest moment in the 19-hour retelling of her life that something rang false. Myself an African-American but from Boston origins and the same humble strivings from Jim Crow refugee displacement in the South to the hard struggles in the North, Michelle LaVaughn Robinson's story was very easy to follow.
The crowning achievement of her life, it would seem from a complete and total stranger, was not her unwanted ascension from South Side girl to First Lady, but her quest for fulfillment as a wife and mother. She tells us, in "Becoming Us," how difficult it was for her as a somewhat stiff-backed person of decidedly conservative upbringing to gradually become the "we" from her "I" as the tornado of Barack Obama swept in to her life from the Eastern front of Harvard. It was illuminating how he, seemingly without effort, brought her around to his way of thinking about politics and family and relationships. The transformation was a jumpy, imperfect one; but what a result.
I did not witness her confession of "sobbing for 30 minutes" on the plane in early 2017, but who could not be moved? She and her family had survived the great fire.
What a life.
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@Red Sox, '04, '07, '13, ‘18,
Black life on the South Side of Chicago is like black life in every black urban street area. Always climbing and striving against the white supremacist legacy of our enslavement and separate and unequal travail. Black people have fought and died for and believed in a country that did not ans still does nor believe that they were divinely naturally created equal persons.
Because black lives and livelihoods depend upon knowing what white people really think and feel, we have never been misled by what white people write and say. By action and inaction a majority of white people have been exposed themselves as white supremacists. A significant minority are outright proud prejudiced white racist bigots.
" We ain't where we oughta be. We ain't where we gonna be. But thank God we ain't where we was" an unidentified black country preacher often quoted by Dr. King
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I was so moved by this, especially her sobbing after leaving the White House for the last time as First Lady.
What a burden she carried and carried so beautifully!
And those wonderful photos of her.
What a charming, adorable little girl! You could see in them not only her emerging beauty but a strength and presence that would set her apart.
And, then, too, those elegant hands and arms...hard not to envy.
I am leaving this site to order her book.
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@Michele Farley, Ditto, done!!
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@Michele Farley
Yes but Donald Trump is" President of the United States" and Melania Trump is "First Lady of the United States".
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@Blackmamba : "Yes but Donald Trump is" President of the United States" and Melania Trump is "First Lady of the United States"."~~~~~ Blackmamba: Your pointing this out brings to mind the Yiddish word SHONDAH...which means a terrible tragedy or a terrible shame. trump and melania are not fit to lick the soles of President and Mrs. Obama's shoes. As we all know, history is full of SHONDAHS, sins, perversions, holocausts, and wrongs that can never be righted. Sometimes things go right, as when we had President and Mrs. Obama at the helm of the country. Both of them: Gracious, elegant, dignified, superbly intelligent, kind, thoughtful, decent, loving. But then I think of how President Obama was treated by the vile, racist, malicious republicans, and I want to throw up.
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As a white male, from a white American family, going back to Plymouth Rock, let me say I am very proud to have had Michelle Obama as our First Lady. She was as fine a First Lady as this country has ever had and her having been there with her husband and her two lovely daughters has made this a far greater country.
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@Duff This white male, like you, from an American family going back to Plymouth Rock, agrees with you wholeheartedly.
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@Duff
What is a "white male from a white American family" mean?
I am an African American male whose earliest European ancestor was in Lancaster County in the Virginia colony in 1640 where he died in 1670. My free person of color ancestors have been in America aka South Carolina and Virginia from the American Revolution. My black ancestors were enslaved in Georgia from 1830/35 where they were owned by and bred with my white ancestors. And my free brown Native American ancestors were in Georgia, South Carolina and Virginia 1830/35 where they mated and married my black and white ancestors. This heritage makes me all and only black in America.
The biological DNA genetic evolutionary fit reality is that there is only one multicolored human race species that began in Africa 300, 000 years ago. What we call race aka color is an evolutionary fit pigmented response to varying levels of solar radiation at altitudes and latitudes primarily related to producing Vitamin D and protecting genes from damaging mutations.
What we call race aka color is a malign socioeconomic political educational demographic historical white supremacist American myth meant to legally and morally justify slavery and Jim Crow.
" We did not land on Plymouth Rock. It landed on us" Malcolm X
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Agreed, the absolute best First Family in my lifetime! But what does being "white going back to Plymouth Rock mean"? Should we expect you, with long American lineage, to be someone who possibly couldn't have those feelings about this family? I'm confused?
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Thank you, Isabel Wilkerson. Your review is so evocative of the book itself that I can’t wait to read it. A beautifully written paean.
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I recommend listening to this book. It is read by the author and feels like a lullaby spoken in her beautiful voice.
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I am two thirds through the audio of 'Becoming'. I don't usually listen to books, but have a five day cross country road trip. It is wonderful hearing the author speak her words. I look forward to reading the book next.
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You know, I am tired of the dissonance of the "they" and the "we" with respect to pregnancy. There is no "they" or "we" or "us" about being pregnant. "We" can't get pregnant. "We" can't give birth. Though certainly "they" could experience joy at a positive pregnancy test, "they" can't miscarry. I can't believe that this passage couldn't be rewritten to be both graceful and accurate:
But they were having trouble getting pregnant, and his spending much of the week in Springfield was not improving their chances, despite his “flooring it up the interstate after a late vote so that he could hit my ovulation window.” They experienced the brief joy of a positive pregnancy test, only to miscarry shortly after.
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@sarasotaliz
I guess you are assuming that at this point in the narrative that they (as a couple) knew the infertility problems belonged to Michelle. Most couples won't know which partner's ability (if not both) is responsible for the issues until testing has been done. I think the use of 'they' and 'we' is appropriate at this point in the story.
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Out of this whole superbly written, deeply human piece about the life of a beautiful, soulful, accomplished American - a graceful First Lady - you get stuck on the phrase for how to describe a pregnancy?
I may choke from laughing.
Or crying.
Man…
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@MIt doesn't matter whose "fault" is the infertility. If the couple truly loves one another, it IS experienced as "we". I feel sorry that sarasotaliz doesn't get that. Evidently, she (he?) has never experienced that oneness that results in bad for one feeling bad for both - yes, felt from differing perspectives, but still felt.
And, it's a bit arrogant to accuse Michelle Obama of not being "accurate" in how she chose to write her passage. Actually, it's kind of Trumpian.
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Ms. Obama, such a wonderful woman, a role model for all young women of any color or ethnicity.
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Well written and honest account! The nation...whether we realized it at the time or since ..we were very fortunate to have had the Obama Presidency for 2 terms. In any Presidency there are good and not so good political outcomes. The fact that there were 2 terms served in leadership to our country showed what the American voters had desired in a leader. We had 8 years where we paid some attention to political affairs but generally trusted the President's judgement and were not bombarded daily with news of some catastrophic controversy, hiring.. firing etc. Generally things went along quietly without too much fanfare. We could not have voted for a 3rd term..but quite a number of voters chose our current leadership and although support has dwindled it has come at a price and been slow going. For the first time in my life I have been embarrassed to be an American. Family in other counties have questioned our values by our choice of leader. Is this what we wanted? Is this the road we must stay on? Have our ideals sunk to irreparable lows? God Bless President George Bush...part of ..The Greatest Generation! What has the outcome of the 2016 election said.. and what will the future outcome of our next Presidential election say about our current Generation? Not only has American not become Great in the past 2 years..the American voters could by no stretch of the imagination be called Great either! Our futures are in our hands! Be part of the next,Great Generation ! Vote Wisely!
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"I've never been proud of America until now" Michelle
I have never been right with that quote from early on in Obama's Presidency .
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@Tom ,Retired Florida Junkman Please consider doing a bit of reading: C. Vann Woodward, "The Burden of Southern History" and "The Strange Career of Jim Crow"; Kenneth Stampp, "The Peculiar Institution" and "The Era of Reconstruction, 1865-1877; and Ms. Wilkerson's own amazing book, "The Warmth of Other Sons." I hope that you will find in those books some intimation of what Mrs. Obama might have been referring to. Having read widely about the Civil War and its long aftermath--Reconstruction, Jim Crow, the civil rights struggle--I stand with Michelle!!
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@Tom ,Retired Florida Junkman Really? And you're perfectly okay with all the garbage and hate that comes out of Trump's mouth on a daily basis? No black person can ever be good enough for a racist, while any ignorant and racist white guy is. Thanks for letting us know.
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@Tom ,Retired Florida Junkman She was misquoted. What she said was "I have never been really proud of America until now." You may not consider that better, but to me it implies that she was always proud of America, but not as much as now.
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Thanks for relating to us so much of this book that I no longer have any need to read it. Why can't reviewers focus on reviewing instead of relating.
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@Unwilling Expat
Agreed. Nearly chapter by chapter recounting. Still, both the book and the audiobook were fantastic.
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Dear Lord, what we have lost -- two fine people, a woman and a man to cherish forever. And look at what we are now burdened with....
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@Cleveland Moffett Don't be too down. There’s good reason to think what we’re “burdened with” now will pass. And the two good people you mourn losing are still here. They’re getting a much deserved break, but will be with us for a lot longer than the current embarrassment. I'd bet serious money we haven’t heard the last from either of them.
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As an old white man, I am grateful that we had the Obama family as President and first family.
I remember fondly one of Ms. Obama's "missteps". She hugged the queen. Horrors, the audacity. The world is shuddering and may disintegrate. I was delighted. It was a pure expression of affection of one human being to another and my first thought was it was probably the first expression of genuine human warmth the queen had ever gotten from someone who wasn't one of her grandchildren.
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@jerry mickle
If we wanted a queen we would not have violently rebelled against her lunatic German ancestor and declared our independence.
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@jerry mickle
The queen has let it be known that she loved Mrs. Obama's hug.
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“They’re not special at all,” Robinson says. “The South Side is filled with kids like that.”
I was a Peace Corps teacher in Africa in the 1970’s. I expected to have to struggle to aid my students. I was mistaken. They pushed me and often worked ahead in the textbook and asked for additional assignments. Many were driven to succeed.
Granted these were from families that could afford to spare their children from labor, but I will never forget the admiration I had for their ambition.
In America, we waste an incredibly valuable asset when we deny children of any color opportunity. The Obama’s are just the most visible example of those possibilities.
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When Oprah Winfrey commented that she could not put the book down when she started reading the book and that she read it twice. At first, I did not believe her. I basically thought that she was just promoting the book.
Because I really respect and trust Oprah, I decided to buy the book.
I then opened and started reading the book and the same thing happened to me. This book is one of the most personal and honest books that I have read. I read the book within two days and I stopped reading the book around 3:30 am on the first day.
I finished reading the book on the second day and I am like an unpaid salesperson for the book.
Thank you Michelle Obama for this book and thank you Oprah Winfrey for your comments about the book.
I plan to read the book again and also I just bought the audio edition too. Very proud of Michelle Obama and she told her story extremely well.
I highly recommend this book!!
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@Adeyemo She narrates the audio book that makes it even better I think. The bar has been set, a hard act to follow for Barack's book to come...
Michelle's book just reminds us how far we have fallen.
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This is a woman of strength and (yes, NYT) civility. How fortunate we were to have her represent our country for what must have seemed like a lifetime for her but for us was just the blink of an eye. Thank you, Mrs. Obama.
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What a lovely story about Michelle. I also want to tell readers that the Ms. Wilkerson's book about Black Migration will change your way of thinking about how Black people suffered in the south long after slavery and how difficult migration north was- both the process and the aftermath.
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And, oh, how I miss them! I can remember so vividly watching when Obama won! The hope that was his campaign slogan. I felt we were stepping into a new and better world, and the whole world felt it. The whole world celebrated. I had never felt so proud to be an American as I did at that moment. The integrity, grace, humor and dignity they brought to the White House and this country. And now........... How has this happened? From such hope to such devastation!
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Michelle is a true FLOTUS who made not only "Black" Americans proud, but all Americans proud. The Obamas held their own through racism, birther comments and White nationalist with class, dignity and respect.Coming from an ancestry that included slavery to FLOTUS is a shock to the old guard still trying to hold on to power that is fading to a major demographic shift change.Michelle is a woman to admire. Now, The current woman in the White House should take note. I will purchase several copies of here book for Christmas gifts.
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Will she run in 2020?
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A White House related memoir that I might actually buy and read.
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Please, oh please, run for president Michele. We need you.
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@john,
I would not wish that on her. people said the same thing to Hillary until she finally did run and then they dumped on her, a ton of bricks- twice. people would do the same to Michelle.
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The United States of America is a better place for having had Michelle Obama as a first lady.
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I look forward to reading Michelle's book. She is such a good woman and role model for all. I love this family.
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I will always miss this wonderful woman and her family. She made me proud to be a United States citizen. I hope the rest of her life will be sunny days.
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Dr. Wilkerson, Your book 'The Warmth of Other Suns' was poignant, informative, just excellent. Thank you so much. I am reading Michelle Obama's book and I have found your critique to be excellent, as well. Again, thank you for all you have contributed to a written history of our country.
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Thanks to Michelle for her wonderful book, and the grace and candor and wit and heart and guts with which she's stood up in front of white America and the world. I admire her immoderately,
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Michelle Obama is a role model for all women- as a professional, wife and human. I am looking forward to reading “Becoming”- this lady is an inspiration in these tough times. On a side note, this article reminded me why I love Isabelle Wilkerson’s writing.
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@Angelica I agree. I've often wished I had a role model like Michelle Obama when I was growing up, and as a young woman. It might have been life-changing. And I have just ordered Isabel Wilkerson's book and can't wait to read more of her exquisite writing.
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@Angelica
Michelle Obama, like most women, attributes her feelings of inadequacy her own shortcomings and to the circumstances and people around her. But, in fact, nature plants these feelings in women of child bearing age for its own, evolutionary, reasons.
All women should be warned of this so they can spot nature’s undermining of their confidence for what it is - and laugh at it.
The book is a marvel and a gift, as is this comment upon it. The country has been fortunate to have such a first lady and I am so grateful for her and her family's steadfastness.
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